She's 34, has one child, and has been pretty depressed for a couple weeks. We talked Thursday and everything seemed fine, even though we didn't see each other over this weekend because she said she needed to spend time with her son. Usually she calls me after he's in bed, but she didn't call Friday night. Saturday I waited until about 9pm, called and text her wondering if she was alright. She text me back that she was ok. She never called later. Sunday I text her again, asked her to not stop talking to me. Called her at 10pm and she didn't answer. Text her this morning asking if she'd call me when she could, no reply as of yet.
We've been seeing each other for over 3 months, talked to each other every day, and now nothing. I feel like if I call or text her more then I may be annoying. But I also feel like if I don't, then she'll think I don't care. I thought we were in love with each other, but this doesn't bode well and is confusing.
What do you think I should do?
2006-10-30 06:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Answers4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just text her and let he know that you care, and that you're going to be there for her, and that if she needs anything at anytime for whatever reason to just contact you, and leave it at that. Let her contact you after that...Just be patient....In due time everything else will reveal itself
2006-10-30 06:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by unknown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space.
She might be having second thoughts about you. If she is, you will have to let her be.
Do you know her son? Does he talk? Maybe she asked him and he says he don't want you as his daddy.
Is the kid's real daddy still around? Maybe he's making moves to come back.
So many things, and so complicated. This is why normally most people don't get involved with girls with kids.
I'd suggest you stand back, give her some space, check in with her in 3-4 days, just to see if she's ok. If she's still not calling or taking your calls, just move on my friend.
2006-10-30 14:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do for her is to stand beside her all the way, let her know that no matter what she is going through you are always going to be there for her. She also needs some help, she needs to talk to someone and get these feelings out, depression is a serious illness, and she definitly needs help.. So please help her in every way you can, go over to her house give her a hug and let her know that you are there...
2006-10-30 14:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a little space she might be confused or feel worried about something shell come around text her tonight or call maybe she is feeling you dont really want her due to something jsut tell her you love her and you cant wait to her her voice good luck
2006-10-30 14:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her place with flowers and try to make things right. Apparently, something is bothering her and I don't think its you. She may be going thru something and she doesn;t know how to tell u; ask her and see what she says (In person)
2006-10-30 14:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋