I just started going back out with my ex boyfriend, we have only broken up once and dated for 2 months. I don't know what is going on between us, and I don't know where to start. He hangs out with this girl named catie, I don't trust her near him, and I don't trust when he has drugs in his system and he's near her. She sleeps over at his house once in a while, and my friend who is pregnant tells me that mothing ever happens even though catie tries, Mike says no. He recently went to a party that she held, and he slept over there. I haven't talked to my pregnant friend, so I don't know what is going on! Please tell me what you would do in a situation like this and what you think is going on. Thank you. Blessed Be, Becky
2006-10-30 05:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Becky, if you guys have only been going out for 2 months than cut your losses and just be his friend. Not if you want to be the drug taken sleep over girl like this Catie, who is most def given up the panties. There is no way in the world that a man / woman or young man / young lady can keep spending the night with each other and not be having sex.. Do you like yourself? Do you love yourself?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, than see if for what it is, you are not like her and nor do you want to be right now in your life. Trust me honey you are worth more than that, be a diva and don't let any man take your glory. The right guy will come if it happens again do what i do, it's called the Stick and More, God made more than 1 man / young men for us to pick from..
2006-10-30 05:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by marion p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if the 2 of you are dating why is he going to a party like that without you? I'd have a talk with him about his relationship with catie and ask him to be honest with me. If he knows it hurts you and he keeps doing it, then it's time to move on because that is disrespectful. If he cares about your feelings he will make some changes,if not he's not worth the trouble.
2006-10-30 05:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to your bf and tell him you are uncomfortable with him sleeping over this girls house and vice versa, or you could try to trust him when he says that nothing is happening
2006-10-30 05:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋