Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

please i really love him and want to make him happy!

2006-10-28 04:33:05 · 8 answers · asked by ordnryppl81 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please help me , i am 40 my wife is 30 we have been together 14 years, we have 2 lovely children and i love her more than words can say. we both work full time but my wife says she loves me as a person but is not in love with me. yes we have taken each other for granted, me especially. she has now said that we move into seperate bedrooms and live as friends for the childrens sake, this will happen tonight, i love her so much but i cant seem to do anything right, she does not have another man i am sure of that. i am in pieces PLEASE HELP. oh i dont have or want another woman....

2006-10-28 04:33:04 · 39 answers · asked by tractortribe@btinternet.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a christian and I am also familar with 12 steps prgram.
God is moving my husband and I forward by allowing us to move accross country to live in December. I am happy and excited and thrillled to move. God is going to do great things, however A part of me as a hard time letting go. Letting go of the familiar going into the unkown, letting do of all my family and moving away I am very attached to my mom and sister. How have you ahndled this kind of situaion what was the event that made you truly let go and let God and not be so needy? How cane I let go and go forward? Thank you and God bless you now and always.

2006-10-28 04:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Family

Hey -------------

How are you. I will like to ask you a question. Why did you kiss me? I will just like to know the reason you did these couple of times. I forgot to ask you the day we talked
I assume that you will ask the same thing me. Do you want to know why I kiss you? Because I like like, I admitted and the true is that I don't know why, you are a good guy, but there are other good guys around and I don't feel the same thing with them.
In love or not, I don't know it myself, and I am not in hurry to know it either. Its something I should mature on. But I can tell one that the reason I kissed you is because I like how you kiss, I don't even know if it has something to do with that. The true is that when I kiss you I feel more than a touch of your lips, is this current in my whole body that makes me feel i another planet. And this happen to me very rarely with other people. With the mentioned above, I think you understand what I am saying right? No more explanations then...

2006-10-28 04:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 04:30:32 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley H 1 in Singles & Dating

I am repeating this because apparently many of you didn't understand the question. Let me put it in other terms. Say your spouse left you for another. Then your spouse wants you to spend thanksgiving and christmas as a family. No "other "around Between Christmas and New Years your spouse does not want to talk to you and is cold even when you have to discuss the kids ( although extremely nice on the holidays and when attending church.) For several more weeks, you don't hear from your spouse. You then get a call asking you to help plan and attend a party for your kid. Again, no "other" is to be around. Doesn't it feel a bit like rent-a-spouse and that your spouse wants to have his or her cake and eat it too? I am not going to the party unless I hear something really logical. ( Not, "it's your kid." Exactly. So I am planning to have a cake and celebrate with a few of the neighbor kids when I have her next week. Two parties! Wow!) She must realize that marraige is not only when convenient

2006-10-28 04:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a man for about 3 months he was a drug and alcoholic but has been sober 2 years. He told me alot of details about his drug experience however he never told me that he did adult films. I broke it off with him because i thought it was a major detail that he left out and it grossed me out. I'm angry with him and i haven't dated anyone else since about 3 mo. I feel so betrayed and hate men...will i ever get over this feeling?

2006-10-28 04:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by miarae 2 in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend in some ways. I have to see him everyday at school because he's in all my classes.We ended things pretty bad in the summer, but it didnt seem like a big deal bcuz we were always breaking up anyways. Towards the end of the summer I ended up going over to his house and everything was cool, he told me he stil loved me and we were fine but then all of a sudden when school started back up in August he's been acting like an ***. He's been acting like he cant stand me and cant stand to be next to me but just 2 days before school he was talking to me on the phone...whats up with that???

2006-10-28 04:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 04:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by hourihan2118 2 in Singles & Dating

I have started seeing a girl, I like her. I thought she liked me BUT she hasn't invested anything in it. I have arranged all the dates, I have paid for everything, meals, drinks etc, and I have made all the phone calls.
We get along great when we're together, and there seems to be chemistry. But then again, she hasn't even bought me a drink yet (despite the fact that we sat in a pub for about two hours)!!
I mentioned this to a buddy of mine, and told him that I planned to move on because she obviously wasn't that keen when he said she might be but might just be playing by "the Rules"(a book).
I don't know if I am pleased that there might still be a chance of something or angry that I am being duped. I would like to talk to her, just to get it out in the open, but have no idea how to bring it up (I can't exactly say "So do you just not fancy me, or is this just a big ol'game?"). I don't even know what I would like to hear.
Any ideas? How would you feel

2006-10-28 04:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend in some ways. I have to see him everyday at school because he's in all my classes.We ended things pretty bad in the summer, but it didnt seem like a big deal bcuz we were always breaking up anyways. Towards the end of the summer I ended up going over to his house and everything was cool, he told me he stil loved me and we were fine but then all of a sudden when school started back up in August he's been acting like an ***. He's been acting like he cant stand me and cant stand to be next to me but just 2 days before school he was talking to me on the phone...whats up with that???

2006-10-28 04:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy that I like is having a house warming get together. I want to get him a NICE gift. I can't decide whether to get him towels or cookware (both of which he needs and asked for). Which would make a better gift? I want it to be useful AND personal.

2006-10-28 04:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom limits me on everything from hanging out with my friends to doing my hair . It seema all i can do is read

2006-10-28 04:24:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

or because of his girlfriend there?? it gets me very depressed i cant do anything about it. I hate living with my gparents because they stop me seeing my mum. xx

2006-10-28 04:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family

First, I will say that they can be very controlling...they tried to give me a 1030PM curfew at age 25..I moved out. They call early on weekend mornings for stupid stuff. They called first thing this morning for something totally unimporant,I told them it was too early on a weekend morning, and I would have to call them back later. My boyfriend works different hours, he was sleeping. They call late at night also. My biggest problem with them is that I have asked them over and over and over again not to call late at night or early in the morning unless there is an emergency.They keep doing so, calling at night when I have to work the next day, and weekend wake up calls. It is ALWAYS something that can wait.I have left the phone off the hook on weekend mornings but don't like to do this, in case, God forbid there is a real emergency.They know my boyfriend sleeps late on the weekends, last time I told them they woke him up, they laughed.

2006-10-28 04:21:57 · 22 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Family

hes 38.....lives with paents...always has cept for couple times but mostly dont work...wont work when given the chance....bums around on friends and thinks that when his parents die he will get enough money to buy trailer and live on but his parents aint got no money....he real loser or what?

2006-10-28 04:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He seems to have no desire to have sex. Last time was July, my birthday. Time before that was my birthday last year. Have asked him about this many, MANY times. I try not to make him feel badly, but it's making me feel so rejected and ugly. He is an alcoholic, and needs help in that regard. But this question deals with why he doesn't want to have sex. He is not cheating -- I'm sure of that. He doesn't have equipment failure. Last time I "suggested" it, I got him to erect, but still got turned down. "I'm too tired." I don't understand!!! When we first got married, we had a very active sex life.

2006-10-28 04:19:52 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the ettiquette?? I know at weddings i give an envelope with cash! But threesomes i admit i just don't know. Dear Abby - what is the norm??

2006-10-28 04:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I have started to see this guy he is 4 years younger than what i am, We have had one date two weeks ago and have not seen each other since. He texts me the whole time morning noon and night. We live about 45 minutes away from one another.
Do you think its worth holding on and seeing him again as i dont know when that will be or do you think that it would be best to move on and meet someone new?
I do like this guy but i know that its good to take things slow but got a funny feeling that this is too slow.
What do you think?

2006-10-28 04:17:48 · 24 answers · asked by blondegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I need somebody to talk to because my life is crushing.Plz i am a girl and i need a friend to talk to about my life with my boyfriend and my family and if u have prblems too. PLZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-28 04:17:32 · 17 answers · asked by CUTEY 1 in Friends

k i called my gf a *****, and she hit me uber hard, and i think my arm is going to be sore for the remaining year. not really but it hurts. Now she wants a kiss and im refusing, what should i do fellow forcers?

2006-10-28 04:17:27 · 3 answers · asked by happy2befree 1 in Singles & Dating

It is important to be on common grounds about important topics before commiting to marriage to prevent some misuderstandings later.

2006-10-28 04:17:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 04:16:37 · 22 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Weddings

I was split up from my boyfriend for a few months, and in that time i was kind of involved with someone and he hadn't kissed this girl or anything but she wanted him, and he liked her a bit. Now we are back together and never been happier. He tells me how perfect i am,how lucky he is to have me and another chance and i couldn't have a better guy. But this girl is apparently going to watch him play football with some friends...i'm not worried, i trust him completely but my friend thinks there is something strange about it. What should i do?

2006-10-28 04:16:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...ALL SORTS OF PRANKS LIKE ASKING THE TRAINER TO JOIN THEM IN THE SHOWERS AFTER THE GAME.
SHOULD I CALL THERE BLUFF AND JUMP RIGHT IN THERE AND SEE WHO HAS THE LAST LAUGH.....???
(the crazy bunch of funsters) x

2006-10-28 04:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a married man for 6 years and decided to give him an ultimatum last week (before Half term).

He says he can't live without me and his marriage is dead! He has two children still in school and has said he will have to stay to see this year out.

I have never asked him to leave and he assures me that he is not servicing any kind of emotional or physical relationship with his wife.

I left my husband 2 years ago and set up a lovely home in the hop that my b/f would join me.

I don't know how much longer I can wait or how I've managed to get to this point.

Now I'm sat at home alone and he's on holiday with his family.

When I gave the ultimatum he cried and told me i meant everything to him, then asked me the size of my ring finger??

Please help a tormented woman, I don't know what to do.

Only genuine and helpful answers please no time wasters
Thank you in advance

2006-10-28 04:15:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mum is coning to pick me up in about half a hour. My dad sed that i cant see her but he lives in spain. I live with my grandparents and they think my mum is aevil perosn because she split up form my dad 12 years ago.even thought this should not effect my relationship with her but the fact is it does. I am worried about telling ths to my grandparents as the loose it and treaten to kick me out. This wuld be ok but i love my school as the few friendsi have. I usually stay at my mums twice a month but my dad wants it less. she has already set off to pick me up. HOW CAN I TACKLE THIS ???

2006-10-28 04:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family

2006-10-28 04:12:51 · 23 answers · asked by neha sharma 1 in Singles & Dating

u date someone with kids and you no longer see the him or the kids but u miss the kids more then u miss him? do u stay in contact for the kids or just let it go? really stinks to get in a relationship and he has kids and they u miss em and know u cant be there for them or do things with them

2006-10-28 04:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

“Celebrity He-Girl” walks into a chemist and asks the
Assistant for some bottom deodorant to get the rusy old vomit smell out of her hairy pu*ssy. The assistant, a little bemused, explains to the woman that they don't sell bottom deodorant, and never have.

The He-Girl, unfazed, assures the lady behind the counter that she has been
buying the stuff from here on a regular basis, and would like some more.

The shop assistant thinks for a minute, knowing full well that they don't
stock, or have ever sold, such an item. She smiles at the Ugly Bit*ch and says, "One moment please, I will get the chemist."

The chemist looks at the Scary Looking Creature and says, "Can I help you mr…umm miss?"

"I would like to buy some bottom deodorant please," says the Turd.

"I'm sorry," says the chemist, "we don't have any."

"But I always get it here," says the Whale.

"Do you have the container it comes in?"

"Yes!" Said the she-man, "I'll go home and get it."

She returns with the container and hands it to the
Chemist who looks at it and says to the her, "This is just a normal stick of
under arm deodorant".

The annoyed Ugly Transvestite snatches the container back and reads out Loud from the
container, "To apply, push up bottom."

2006-10-28 04:11:36 · 16 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Family