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I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend in some ways. I have to see him everyday at school because he's in all my classes.We ended things pretty bad in the summer, but it didnt seem like a big deal bcuz we were always breaking up anyways. Towards the end of the summer I ended up going over to his house and everything was cool, he told me he stil loved me and we were fine but then all of a sudden when school started back up in August he's been acting like an ***. He's been acting like he cant stand me and cant stand to be next to me but just 2 days before school he was talking to me on the phone...whats up with that???

2006-10-28 04:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Sometimes guys don't know what to do or say. They don't want to hurt you, but they don't really want to be with you either. So, they say things that kind of lead you on. Not to mention, it is a "backup" if he ever decides he needs a girlfriend again.

The best thing is to just move on. Even if you just have to convince yourself into another crush...do it. Get over this guy and move on. It isn't right of him to treat you that way, and if he keeps doing it, he will feel peer pressure to keep it up. Find another guy. Words like "I still love you." are ways to keep you hanging. And, really, words don't show love, actions do. And, his actions are not showing love.

You deserve better, sister!

2006-10-28 04:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by tallnfriendlyone 3 · 0 0

he feels embarrassed inside and projects these felling toward you because of his insecurities , were you his first love? i still remember mine and that was 27 years ago and i still love her deep in my heart but i have many regrets about the things i said and done after we broke up just like what hes doing to you ,,,,,just ignore him and move on ,for he will never truly respect you again

2006-10-28 04:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by blackd010 2 · 0 0

Im sure that he still has feelings for you, he is just acting like that because he thinks that you don't like him anymore. Does that make any sense?

2006-10-28 04:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he has an image to uphold... you guys broke up and his friends think its great otherwise he'd be okay with you ... but breaking up & getting back together is not healthy ... so he may also be telling you that he's done ... no more.

2006-10-28 04:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0 0

Find someone else.

2006-10-28 04:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0 0

sigh. he's young. get another guy.

2006-10-28 04:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0 0

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