Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

should a guy or girl start off the kiss??

2006-10-28 05:13:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I am always the one doing everything for my boyfriend and I never get anything in return....ex. he is a football coach and i have sat out in the cold rainy games every friday night and can't get even get him to go shopping with me for a few hours today! Why can;t he just give a little?

2006-10-28 05:13:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHY is it that women always want to change a man after one or two years into a relationship? does this mean that she wish you were someone else? or does it mean that the person she fell in love with is no longer desirable to her?

2006-10-28 05:12:10 · 24 answers · asked by blackd010 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend only tells me that she loves me when I say it to her. I have told her not to say it if it can only be a mechanical response. She claims that she does love me. But I could go weeks and never hear it from her unless i say it first. Isn't that typically a guy thing, not to respond unless told? Does she expect me to just take it for granted that she does? I'm not so insecure that I need to hear it every second....but once in awhile it is nice to hear.

2006-10-28 05:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a good night sleep shes always snoring what do I do

2006-10-28 05:11:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently ive been pursuing some girls but i found out that theyre interested in smart assholes or dumb assholes and that most girls just want to find someone whos a big jerk... but im a nice guy who is on Student Council has all A's taking college dual credit courses in high school and i try not to be a jerk to girls.. how come i cant get a girlfriend.. but complete assholes can manage to get the girls i like to go out with them !?!? help please....

2006-10-28 05:10:24 · 15 answers · asked by yangkai90 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think you can be in love with someone get married , and five years later your not in love anymore and regret ever doing so. cause i don't love my husband anymore after five years and we have a kid together and i'm only staying because of the kid. he don't know this it would kill him. he's a nice guy , works veryhard ,loves me . but i'm not feelin' him anymore i just want to be free to think about me. am i going through the change of life or being selfish. i cook 7 days a week, i wash ,clean,i have unwanted sex .and i have my son with me 24/7 while he works two jobs to pay the bills.we have no family near by or friends that will baby sit .so we have not gone out in three years.and i'm tried. what would you do???????

2006-10-28 05:09:38 · 31 answers · asked by ladytee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have recently discovered from a close relative that one of my parents and their siblings were sexually abused as children by a distant relative for an unspecified period of time; im unsure of what to do considering the fact that my parent obviously didnt want me to know this and i dont know how many other people knew, know or should know.
my dilemma is whether I should openly confront the elephant in the room, exposing pain and abuse that has been seemingly forgotten, or pretend i still dont know anything, taking my own feelings of betrayal and new understanding of past events to the grave?

2006-10-28 05:07:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

arrange the above words for me

2006-10-28 05:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was a girl on the train today showing loads of cleavage (I mean loads and its a cold grey day not summer). I sat opposite but for fear of being rude just stole little glances now and again. Should I just have enjoyed the view without any concern. After all why would she dress like that if not to attract guy's attention?

2006-10-28 05:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for about 7 months, i just cant seem to find a decent guy, all thats going through my mind is that i need a boyfriend! any advice?

2006-10-28 05:06:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well at my friends party he was there and he asked me to play basketball, but i had to leave and i really didnt know him and he was all where are u going,, were not playin basketball? but that was a long time ago. Last night i had i had my first middle school dance and he came upto me, HE KNOWS MY NAME! ( i didnt think he would know my name cause he's in seventh and im in sixth grade , we really dont know each other) does he like me? IF HE DOES, HOW CAN I FLIRT WITH HIM?

2006-10-28 05:05:19 · 6 answers · asked by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend and her boyfriend have just split up and she's really cut up about it any ideas on what to do to cheer her up?iv tried a few things but need some help now!

2006-10-28 05:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by steff w 1 in Friends

2006-10-28 05:04:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to like someone from another race

2006-10-28 05:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by da ndn dude 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother explained everything about the birds and the bees and when he was done explaining my nephew looked up at him and said in a stern voice: Ok Dad, I get it, so Mom and you only did that twice, once for me and once for my brother...
Any funny stories you'd like to share?

2006-10-28 05:04:02 · 4 answers · asked by White 7 in Family

2006-10-28 05:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by hawaiisurferw1234 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 05:03:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this girl Jenna in the economics class and I really like her and I dont know how to ask if she wants to go out . Any advice please

2006-10-28 05:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by driverx14 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently moved to Maine, I have since found out that the KKK and the Free Masons terrorized my mother and her parents to the extent that they had to leave the town that they lived and worked in all because they were White Canadian Catholic. Mom and my grandparents have since long passed away, I have recently found out this information due to the internet and living relatives. Franco-Americans still get harassed, not to the extent that they did back in the 20's and 30's but never the less it still is very prevalent. Should I be angry? Should I just chalk this up as ignorance ? Or should I stand up and protect my heritage by voicing my stance?

2006-10-28 05:02:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok hears the story, i brock up with my b.f cuz i heard mad things and he was gonna breack up with me 4 some other chick, so i brock up with him but im still n luv with him. we been going out 4 like 6 mounths. seeing him with that other chick kills me. i cant stop thinking bout him as much as i try i cant get him out ma mind.i sill like him O.D, and i kno i luv him cuz i never really cry ova a boy and he's the one i really drop tears 4. everytime i c that he's happy with that girl i cant do nothin but think bout it,then i end up crying, i just want 2 get him out ma mind. what should i do??????

2006-10-28 05:01:17 · 10 answers · asked by baby_face 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy ive liked forever asked me out yesterday. we went to the dance, i pecked him on the cheek and last slow song i kissed him. he seemed to like it.. was i wrong to do it? im worried if i misread him and he didn't like it.. but his friends said that he wanted to kiss me. and i think we where ready.

2006-10-28 04:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

we got married in 1999 , we have got t 7 yrs old daughter also, she is 4 yrs elder than me. she is torturing me mentally and got me sick, i'am not able to do my work of day to day life

2006-10-28 04:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by sachin464 1 in Marriage & Divorce

shes realy nice to me and i like her but i dont want to end this relationship. please someone help me.

2006-10-28 04:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay .. let me tell ya the situation .. i've been dating this guy for about a month now and have got really strong feelings for him.. he's in the last year of education and he came to this country purely for education ... he's told me he loves me and wants me to wait 8 months until he's finished his education .. and he says that if i wait he'll propose to me .. problem is in this 8 month break-up i've been told to not get with any other guys if i do then me and him are OVER .. what do you reckon i should do .. MOVE ON or WAIT THE LONG 8 MONTHS????

2006-10-28 04:58:03 · 34 answers · asked by *~Ciara~* 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i had a boi friend of 7 months and we broke up n two days lata he went out with my friend after he told me that he was goin into highskewl n so he was afriad that he was gonna cheat on me well than why did he go out with my friend in the same grade? n then he keeps emailin me sayin he wants to be my friend but i dont because he hurt me so bad n he is so mean to me lately so then i dont talk to him ne more because me n my friend were talkin to my ex. n my best friend cory on the phone n i asked him if wen we broke up if he still had feelings for me n he was like no because he never liked me so which means that for all that seven months he never liked me n he always told me off the phone i luv u but i guess he never meant it... so i guess my question is should i be mad at him friends with him wat idk wat to do??????/

2006-10-28 04:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, all I can say is that, we're kinda close, I tell him most of the stuff which I can't even reveal to others - including current boyfriend, as things are not going so well for us in terms of future. This friend of mine makes me laugh which I personally value in a guy and he's a sweet romantic kinda type. If you know me personally, your point of view towards me would be that I'm independent with a tendancy to be more interested in cars & success. THOUGH, I really would like it if a guy for ONCE to treat me as girlfriend rather than a friend who is a girl. I dream of a day where a guy would send me flowers for no reason, plan a getaway for just the both of us rather than the whole "posé", meeting me at the airport after one of my trips, secure and care for me. What should I do? This friend of mine fits the category, but I don't wanna ruin é friendship. I'm not pretty and I'm not even in the category of the "type" of girl he fancy. FYI I'm Asian, and we're both horse year. Pls help>

2006-10-28 04:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by phenophiles 1 in Friends

So by accident I sent my ex bf 1 e-mail. 2mnths after we brokeup. And he still hasn't deleted it yet. Why? And he showed my best friend who he has a crush on he showed her the e-mail. It was an invetation to myyearbook.com. And then apparently I heard from my other friend that he called me a F*cking B*tch and he never wants to speak to me again. B/c I hurt him. And then he says I'll delete them 2night. And I could hear him. I was 2feet away from him and I could hear them. Then my best friend and I were reading the e-mails my new bf sent me and my ex bf looked at me and he looked jealous. He brokeup with me. What the hell.

2006-10-28 04:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

If a girl comes up to you, and says that she likes you, and you don't. what do u say to her? without being rude? in a smart way.

2006-10-28 04:56:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 04:56:31 · 3 answers · asked by Yadnus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships