Well, all I can say is that, we're kinda close, I tell him most of the stuff which I can't even reveal to others - including current boyfriend, as things are not going so well for us in terms of future. This friend of mine makes me laugh which I personally value in a guy and he's a sweet romantic kinda type. If you know me personally, your point of view towards me would be that I'm independent with a tendancy to be more interested in cars & success. THOUGH, I really would like it if a guy for ONCE to treat me as girlfriend rather than a friend who is a girl. I dream of a day where a guy would send me flowers for no reason, plan a getaway for just the both of us rather than the whole "posé", meeting me at the airport after one of my trips, secure and care for me. What should I do? This friend of mine fits the category, but I don't wanna ruin é friendship. I'm not pretty and I'm not even in the category of the "type" of girl he fancy. FYI I'm Asian, and we're both horse year. Pls help>
2006-10-28 04:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by phenophiles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think before anything you should get some more self confidence. After that try to throw some hints at him. Try to get a little closer and be open about your feelings without telling him everything. If he reacts positively then tell him how you really feel. If he is a real friend then even if he dosn't like you like that he will still act the same as he did before you told him. Good Luck.
2006-10-28 05:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Damien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes really your friend this wouldnt ruin the friendship. but if u let him know that your flirting with him cuz u do it so much, he'll flirt back if he likes you.
at least thats me.
2006-10-28 12:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by japanese rednek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋