I have been single for about 7 months, i just cant seem to find a decent guy, all thats going through my mind is that i need a boyfriend! any advice?
2006-10-28 05:06:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would love to give you some male company email me baby
2006-10-28 05:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, Bless your heart honey - you'll find you somebody - but it's better to be alone for the right reasons than to be together for the wrong reasons. You know i've tried to be with someone in a romantic way just to get away from the loneliness & it didn't work because my "girlfriend" could pickup on the fact that I was looking for companionship & not love...So it's ok to have friends for company ....but finding that decent guy for a boyfriend is something different- which you might have a hard time finding ( there are plenty of jerks around)...but a decent guy is worth waiting for! Just remember that you're ok just as you are & you don't have to be in a relationship to be complete...ok? My heart goes out to you and I hope that you find the love that you so rightly deserve! ....wishing you the best...bye bye
2006-10-28 12:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should evaluate why exactly you feel you NEED a boyfriend. The most important lesson you can learn in life is to learn to love being with yourself - and how to make yourself happy. If you dont, you could end up being one of those women who when they have the unfortunate (but increasingly likely in todays world) of getting divorced at 35 or 40 - your whole life will fall apart because you've never learned how to be on your own and be happy by yourself. Take the time to just learn to go to a movie alone or go to the mall alone and explore your great qualities and that way when you meet a great guy you'll be better ready to have a lasting and happy relationship where you do not ever rely on another person for your happiness, instead they supplement it.
2006-10-28 12:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is to be patient!!
7 months isnt as bad as you think.
You shouldt 'need' a boyfriendbecause it sounds like you will just grab one regardless. Dont be so hard on yourself and let love come to you.
Make the most of other things in life, and do them now while you are single. Someone will come along, and you'll have been glad to wait for him!!
I dont know what else to say here, but best of luck!!
2006-10-28 15:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie hang in there, you will find that special guy that your looking for. The one who makes you feel special and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Not sure your age or area but I am single and if nothing else here for a chat if you'd like.
2006-10-28 13:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are feelings of being lonely. Boyee don't I know about that.
Get sexy [hair, nails, makeup, clothes the whole nine yards] and go out tonight and have some innocent fun.
The attention you will get from the men will feel that void;
the b/f will come later.
2006-10-28 12:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you dont need a boyfriend. Sure they are fun little toys to have around, but do they ever stay long and do everything right? Just go with the flow and keep L-I-V-I-N. Thats my motto. itll happen if its meant to.
2006-10-28 12:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop looking, he'll turn up. Relax. Having a boyfriend is not the b-all and end all of life.
Why don't you try some dating sites?
2006-10-28 12:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is stay single until you find the right guy...Don't make rush decisions that you might regret later on
2006-10-28 12:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by AG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not the 'be all and end all'........ Get yourself some friends, get out and have a good time, eventually you find that 'someone'.
Men can sniff out a desperate girl at a thousand paces and all he will want is a good time.
Attractive girls are those who are relaxed and having fun.
Good luck x
2006-10-28 12:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by sugar blonde 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋