2006-10-28 04:12:51 · 23 answers · asked by neha sharma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah
2006-10-28 04:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From personal experience, I say yes, but not in the same way. With one I had the greatest relationship one could ever ask for. The other, I respected and enjoyed her company and companionship. Both had high IQ's and where very compassionate women. Both women knew of the other, indeed enjoyed each others company as well. That none of us ever compromised our relationships spoke well the match. There was never the feeling of competition but just great camaraderie and compassion. Can you imagine how I felt knowing with the primary relationship, I was allowed to enjoy a evening or whatever with the other whenever I wanted as if the other was one of my male friends. Allowed that kind of trust, I never once wanted to compromise that kind of relationship. I am proud I never once did.
I never married either, but I honestly accept, marriage to one or the other would have made a great match.
Perhaps, you can understand with this example, as a child you love your both parents and both sets of grand-parents, as an adult you love your wife or husband, as a parent you love all your children, to deny that you can love more than one person at a time is a fallacy and beyond human capacity.
I do believe: there is a distinction between love and lust, learning this and being respectful might be the problem. By never living a lie, never compromising, has provided me the greatest joy and satisfaction. Never wanting to hurt another human being feelings helped loads too!
2006-10-28 04:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime Cancio (Jim) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but there's a missing element. When it comes down to it, there is the right person. It's not true love because true love can only be with one person. If you're in-love with more than one person then you just don't know enough about both of them. There will be something about these people you will find that presents the right one person for you. Good luck!
2006-10-28 04:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by insomniac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm glad this is semi-anonymous because i have never told anybody this. i have been with my husband for 3 years and love him to death. i admire him in so many ways. but i will always love another man as well. he has been a friend of mine for about 5 years. i made the decision to stop being physical with him a couple of years ago, for the sanctity of my marriage. i only see him around town now about once a month, but i think about him every day and about how different my life would be if i had chosen him instead of my husband. they are two very different men, but i love them equally. i chose my husband because he is more stable. but my heart still flutters every time i see this other man. it is hard, but i take comfort in knowing that a lot of women feel the same way. so to answer your question- yes, we are human and there are so many different people on this earth that i think it is definitely not only possible but very probable that you can love two people at the same time. but you have to choose and when you do, don't EVER tell the one you have chosen about it.
2006-10-28 04:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, I thought it was possible to love 2 different people at the same time because there were differences in them that made you love them in different ways. But after being in that situation I can say that it's possible, but it's not worth it. One of the two people will get more attention than the other and you'll start feeling the weight of trying to carry on two different relationships with two different people and once they find out(it will happen), you might find yourself without either one of them.
2006-10-28 04:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe that you can be in love with two people at the same time. You can definately love love two people, but when you are "in love" no one else is on your mind. Being in love is when the world only consists of you and that person that you're in love with. If you think that you're in love with two people, you probably love one person and are in love with the other.
2006-10-28 04:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it could happy but depend maybe u love a person because she is beauty and other because she has good personal.But maybe u think u love them both but u can only love one. choose the best one , u can go out with both and decised with one is best for u have longterm relationship but because if u love two people u may end of hurt one of them or both. good luck
2006-10-28 04:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Single 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it's not really love.....perhaps more like infatuation.
Or you simply like two people for different reasons. It's happens often during youth.
2006-10-28 04:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You certainly can convince yourself that you are in love with both. If you are honest with yourself and really evaluate the situation you would find that it's not really true at all. There is a difference between love, lust and infatuation.
2006-10-28 04:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell yeah sugar i once was in love with 3 sweet lovin boys it breoke my heart to let one go the other 2 decided to share so it was all good i loved em both with all my heart we even spent nights ogether the 3 of us.
you go baby dont be shy now you is what you wanna be pleasin.
2006-10-28 04:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by spudster 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's possible, but it's excruciating. You will always love 1 of them more. Someone's heart will always be broken, even if all involved say they can handle it. They're kidding themselves.
Hang in there!
2006-10-28 04:18:24 · answer #11 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋