I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend in some ways. I have to see him everyday at school because he's in all my classes.We ended things pretty bad in the summer, but it didnt seem like a big deal bcuz we were always breaking up anyways. Towards the end of the summer I ended up going over to his house and everything was cool, he told me he stil loved me and we were fine but then all of a sudden when school started back up in August he's been acting like an ***. He's been acting like he cant stand me and cant stand to be next to me but just 2 days before school he was talking to me on the phone...whats up with that???
2006-10-28 04:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's your ex for a reason. Just don't give up the goodies to him. He'd just be using you. Move on and quit wasting mind time on him.
Or, be his friend and let him be yours if that's want you want.
2006-10-28 04:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he just wants the attention. He's got you on a leash and you're holding on to it yourself, he doesn't even need to drag you along. DItch the guy and if he really does care about you anymore then he will come back to you ready for a relationship. But don't worry yourself about it. He probably isn't worth it. And besides, you're young, there are so many amazing people out there. Don't let him ruin your happiness just cuz he wants your attention in private. If he can't hold your hand at school, it's a sure sign he isn't gonna stick around.
2006-10-28 04:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by spiceywolfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, the ball is in your court.
1) Stop running behind him. Guys hate that sh*t!
2) Treat him like he doesn't exist!
3) If he comes back to you (on his own; without any prompting from you) then the relationship was meant to be.
4) If he doesn't come back to you; then love somebody else!
2006-10-28 11:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he found something out that you did? i don't know the whole story.. but if he is treating you bad i would stay away from him if he doesn't want to tell you what the problem is. There is alot of other boys in high school maybe you should go out with one of them. Mayb he will start talking to you again...if you show u don't care how he is treating you
2006-10-28 04:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by miarae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,Beautiful.
I'd suggest you rid of him for being a jerk.
If you two ARE friends,-and ARE civil,-you wouldn't be receiving such disrespect.
(Call him up and ask him "What'S up? with the "harrassment"?")
If he gives you excuses,-then you'll know he does NOT deserve to be in any way to be a part of your life.
If you were friends,-"friends" do NOT treat each other in such a way.
He will only keep on doing on what he's been doing if you LET him.
Respect yourself and he should too.
2006-10-28 04:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He found someone esle that he has a eye on.Your break ups got to be to much for him.That stuff gets really old no matter how much someone loves you.I suggest you move on.Start looking for a new bf because it looks like he already has.Good luck
2006-10-28 04:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already informed his buddies of the breakup and has to put up a front for them for his ego. Let it go. If he feels differently later, after playing the field, he may want to come back to you.
2006-10-28 04:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex boyfriends! they're always like that!.just ignore him and move on i dont think he cares about you because he's acting like an a** in front of u.u can also ask him why he's acting like that? if he doesbt want to tell u.move on. ;) there a lot better guys that him.
2006-10-28 04:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wheee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just puttin' up a front with you during school. Maybe he's doing this for all of his guy friends...if you think you have a civil friendship with him, maybe just call him and ask him whats up.
2006-10-28 04:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some self respect and move on. What sounds healthy and normal about anything that you wrote above?
2006-10-28 04:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋