Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

2006-10-24 02:23:39 · 2 answers · asked by Singaravelu B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

On saturday he told his sister that we were getting married, she was happy for us and asked if her daughter was going to be a bridesmaid we said yes (me and his sister hate each other, so does he and his sisters boyfriend) so we rang back last night to ask the little girl to be a bridesmaid but his sister said to him that his neice cannot be a bridesmaid for us now that she has had time to think about it.......im mad because it isnt about his sister, its his neice who we would like but otherwise im fine about it. His parents wont get involved although if it was the other way round they would.......and he contacted his neices dad (his sisters ex) and he said to me that he would sort it out and that she would be a bridesmaid......but i dont want him to now because frankly i dont want all the stress and trouble........i figure if his sister wants to be like that then fine f**k off and dont have anything to do with us........but he wont have it.....what do you think

2006-10-24 02:23:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

been seeing a guy i met at a club a couple of times. i'm keen, but he says he doesn't know if he's ready for the commitment of being bf and gf, and says he needs time to think about it. You think this is for real, or bulls**t and i wait fo r someone who is really keen on me?

2006-10-24 02:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This year is my first Christmas living with my boyfriend and obvisouly I want to spend it together, but we both have our families to be with with as well. How can we decide on when to visit whos family with out one family thinking we choose one over the other. Also my family is on the Isle of Wight and his is only on the otherside of town. Any advise would be great.

2006-10-24 02:22:45 · 21 answers · asked by JBird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and ask you "what are you thinking"...........what would your response be?

2006-10-24 02:22:35 · 12 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love the job I am at and I am going to move up the ladder soon. But yet my husband want me take a job working 60-70 hrs a week when all I have to work now is 35-40. There is a huge differrence in the pay but I have 3 girls 8-9-12. I am offended that he would suggest this to me. I have a hard enough caring for them now. I work 8 hrs a day, come home cook , clean help with homework, take them the dentist and doctor run errands for him, pay the bills (with his check and mine) He make 15$ hr. He says we will get ahead faster. Oh well my kids come first, when they are grown and out of the house, then cool I had already set my mind to work after they are out of the house but until then I barely have time to breathe now as it is. What do think? I told him that he is wrong for suggesting that. He said do what you want to do. Am I being inconsiderate of us getting ahead in life sooner than later?

2006-10-24 02:21:34 · 16 answers · asked by jjkk 3 in Family

What is a guys/girls idea of the perfect date? And how it differs from what women want!!!

2006-10-24 02:21:29 · 3 answers · asked by Jewelz 2 in Singles & Dating

watching the bachelor yesterday and he said that...im 26, and for some reason i have given up on men and dont think i wil ever find someone. I was cheated on and treated really bad. I feel like as i get older the less i trust .....but then i heard the bachelor say that (kinda corny) and i was like maybe there is someone there for everyone,,,but some people nvever find it...is what meant to be meant to be?

2006-10-24 02:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by Yenny V 2 in Singles & Dating

She wants it. I don't!!!!!!!! But in my heart I no its over. I want to cry all the time now.

2006-10-24 02:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by skipper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 02:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About 18 months ago, I started seeing this guy I worked with (big mistake I know). Anyway suprisingly enough we managed to keep things going for a while. We ended it recently cos I moved away. But I can't stop thinking about him. I hate it.

We went through so much, and now I'm not even there to tell him, that I want to take this thing onto a next level. The basis of our 'relationship' was never love or anything like that- we were **** buddies (sorry 2 b crude) who suddenly developed feelings for each other. He made it clear from the beginning that I wasn't what he was looking for in a relationship- which was fine, cos I felt the same way. But things have changed and I keep wanting to tell him that!
I used to think he might feel the same way- but last weekend I found out he linked up with someone. I know this is slightly baffling- but I'm at so much of a loss. Will I ruin everything (including our freindship) if I tell him, or will I just be humiliating myself?

2006-10-24 02:20:06 · 10 answers · asked by sassedangel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And whats your slant on keeping things from the past.

2006-10-24 02:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex cheated on me with my best friend! I have a chance to do the same but at the same time i really like this guy would it hurt to do both or is it wrong.

2006-10-24 02:19:21 · 18 answers · asked by leacolenorth 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is married and he and I are into each other. He has young children with this woman, but he will not leave her because of the kids. I have voiced my opinion about it and now I am not sure what to do next? Any suggestions?

2006-10-24 02:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by lildew73 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got a problem is tht my girlfriend is not been able to spend time with me.
I mean whenever I tell her to go out she always tells she cant due to this reason or that.
I know tht her reasons are genuine are are for real, but then I can’t get over it.
It really bugs me out as it happens always and I wonder if I would be able to countinue this way. Talking with her will also wont help much, so please you guys tellme what to do?

2006-10-24 02:18:51 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

Given the minority is always suggested ( as was on TV last night Monday) that they are being ostracised, why do we also feel threatened by this word Muslim?

when other religions protest, why do we not see words like
" Behead them" or "Kill the infidel" on their placards, why ? why?

A hate we have never seen before apart from in Muslim countries, is now upon us.

"The Vail!" I find this most distressing, as do many of my friends, they are seperating themselves from facial recognition on their own terms, and we cannot or must not object.

I have every respect for those who come into this country and settle within our laws.

We have freedom of speach, or do we?, this is not so these days, to speak out even in jest could surmount to one's execution.

This is very sad indeed, a sad day for a people who have fought for this freedom.

I judge this in it's context, and to feel threatened by a single word, is almost beyond comprehention.

Sad indeed, very sad.

2006-10-24 02:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by tom c 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 02:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:16:11 · 30 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing a great guy that I like for about 2 weeks. I know he likes me but we want to take things really slow. I met another guy who is really nice too. I like the first guy more but I think he might be seeing other people. Am I supposed to NOT tell them about eachother? Should I date the other guy anyway eventhough I like the first one alot? I have no strings to either one. I just feel like maybe its wrong. I am so clueless at this dating stuff, please help.

2006-10-24 02:15:55 · 15 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

:)

2006-10-24 02:15:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a guy at a club, i know not a very good start. Begged me to give him a chance, to prove that he isn't like the other guys i have met. I give him a chance but he has a son so i walk away.

I end up getting back into contact with him and we met up and had fun. He came to the club i was at the next night and we had one of those amazing nights that u have with a person you click with.

The next week and a half we talk everyday on the phone. I decide to invite him to my graduation ball, 2 weeks awat. He books a hotel room, a really nice one. We have an amazing night.

Now monday has come. I ask where is this going and he says he isn't ready for a relationship and wants to be friends. I'm like why has he gone to all this effort for a friend. would u agree that no matter how good a friend a person was you wouldn't go to these lengths.

Everyone is thinking it was just to get me into bed. I can say it wasn't because of that as he knows that isn't my style and i made that clear

2006-10-24 02:15:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it to early for a 16 and a 17 year old to get married even if there posotive there in love?

2006-10-24 02:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Singles & Dating

Well shes 13 and I think shes going through puberty shes NOT the sweet little girl she was last summer... I think I saw the change coming but Im just not sure when it fully came.. she use to be into girly stuff, like cheerleading and stuff like that, but over the last month shes been wearing dark make up Ive caught her smoking and then recently she left her email open and I wouldnt have read it but something caught my eye it was about her recently sleeping with a girl!
I took her to school this morning and I asked her was she into dating the same sex, she said no, she continually disrespects my mother who gives her, her all being the single parent she is, I take care of her also, but Im in college.. my mother was married twice my father is in my life and hers isnt.. I try not to abuse her but shes been so out of control the other night I found myself choking and slapping her around because she was being really rude to our mother I know this isnt right but she needs to be disciplined

2006-10-24 02:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean only a friend and not a boyfriend

2006-10-24 02:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by aarti 1 in Friends

Why are there so many problems in life, and who could help me though these problems?

2006-10-24 02:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Master Vigeant 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 02:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by purpledesteny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 02:12:54 · 21 answers · asked by dundalk11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship with a man from England for the last 6 years, I live in the US. I have visited him many times - he is single and I am divorced. We have had many problems over this time and always we worked things out. He has been with other women during this time and each time he came back to me. His words were that he needs me in his life. I have just returned from visiting him and with 1 hour left to the vacation, I discovered that he was seeing someone else again. After a week of fun, we parted not speaking. I must admit that I sensed a problem because he seemed to be texting too much and being very careful with his phone. He did admit to seeing someone and when I got on the airplane, we just said good bye. My question is, do I try to get back with him and if he does call me, do I resume this relationship? He is almost 50 and I am in mid 40s. I really need some advice as to what to do. We would always talk each night and sometimes twice a day. Did he use me?

2006-10-24 02:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by irishME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She extensively plotted to put own mother in bad situation so court would award her guardianship of (little known) 13 year-old half-brother, who called wanting to come live with mother and leave custody of abusive father in Missouri , all so she could get Michigan money for having him to help pay for her newly acquired house. She went to pick son up for mother, supposedly as a favor, because mother didn't have good running vehicle, came back with son, moved to hide him from mother and alienate him until she could get legal guardianship. The mother had been working up to 3 jobs and spent thousands of dollars and shed millions of tears during the past 7 years, in order to gain custody of her beloved son while living in Missouri so she could visit him all she could, and recently moved to MI . Father's attorney good friends with MO judge. Plus she said she'd watch her other grown brother's dog while he spent a couple months in jail, and she had the dog fixed without him being aware.

2006-10-24 02:10:10 · 1 answers · asked by babeboomer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships