My friend is married and he and I are into each other. He has young children with this woman, but he will not leave her because of the kids. I have voiced my opinion about it and now I am not sure what to do next? Any suggestions?
2006-10-24 02:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by lildew73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
JUST STEP Away.
I know its hard,and your probably confused angry, happy and then depressed. that is what life is when you are involved with a married person
emotional and physically. Sometimes the need to get what we don't have is so great that we tend to for get our own well-being mentally
i poise a question. Ever longed for something you never got ?.... and til this day you still think about it.
but i think this statement is true imagine all the thing that we wanted and got then forgotten about.
you know the best thing for you to do is step away. it such a silly question.
but its a very hard thing to do .
2006-10-24 06:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy alone. He's married. You guys are into each other because you are single, young and have no obligations I take it, as he does...You remind him of his lost (by his choice) carefree life. Don't upset this family, there's young children and no, he won't leave his wife...Honey, you have no place voicing any opinion to this guy, he is married, and I'm sure he doesn't want to pay child support, alimony, have to move out of his house or any of the other fun stuff that goes along with it.Get yourself someone who is single, and has no baggage to carry into the relationship.If you get this guy to leave his wife and kids, they and she will be a part of your lives for as long as you guys are together. Do you want that?
2006-10-24 09:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, leave him. Messing with a married man is the riskiest game one can play. And the result is not always as you want. Especially if he told you he is not leaving his wife because of the kids. You can always find someone else who has no obligations at all. Staying with this guy will bring severe consequences, but leaving him will bring great up comings!!!!
2006-10-24 09:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by meamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really "that into you" he would leave his wife for you- so don't kid yourself he may be saying it's "because of the kids" when in fact he just wants to keep stringing you along so he has a booty call whenever he needs it, and he knows u will be there- waiting for him. Get some self respect girl and find a single man.
2006-10-24 09:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by MamasaidknockUout_1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do! Stay away from married men! What if he left his wife for you...would you really want to hook up with a known cheater? If so, then you deserve what you get! Not only that, you are messing with the lives of children!
2006-10-24 09:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang, what a situation, you usually only see this on tv...i believe that the man should tell his wife what has been going on....then he should get a divorce and be with you..but if you think to yourself, if ya'll were to get married do you not think that he might leave you for someone else he suddenly gets "into"?? pray about it!!
2006-10-24 09:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You are asking for a bad headache here.
2006-10-24 09:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! He is a no good cheat. You deserve someone who will love you and be with you.
2006-10-24 09:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by rosemary H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away as possible....How would you like if the shoe was on the other foot?
2006-10-24 09:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by purpledesteny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like heartache and headache? Move on!
2006-10-24 09:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by tbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋