2006-10-24 02:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by purpledesteny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My opinion would be to until after the baby is born. There is always the possibility of something going wrong until that time. It's difficult to fathom such a hing, but the truth is one never really knows. If you have someone in mind, and I would think that this is someone who is already near and dear to you that they would accept n matter the timing of the question, but I think it's best to wait.
2006-10-24 02:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by robertm220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you should ask them before. Aren't godparents supposed to be the ones to take care of your children if something should happen to you and your spouse? I would definitely ask them before the birth.
2006-10-24 09:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter... however the decision is usually made after the birth and before the christening. Most babies are christened about 6-10 wks after birth. You have time either way.
2006-10-24 09:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before or after it's really up to you. If you have someone in mind who you feel strongly about you could ask them before but if your stuck between two you could wait until after the baby is born.
2006-10-24 09:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it right after the birth - and make sure you have back up people in case they don't want to (I certainly wouldn't want to!)
2006-10-24 09:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before. Give them more time to think about it. If they turn you down, don't feel bad about it.
2006-10-24 12:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in think after so u can see if they like the baby
2006-10-24 09:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Ywanica ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would wait until the baby is a few months old, to see whether or not they are comfortable with your child, and would make good parents.
2006-10-24 09:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
after I think.
2006-10-24 09:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask before or after. it doesnt matter.
2006-10-24 09:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by esha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋