Why can life be so hard at times?

Question

Why are there so many problems in life, and who could help me though these problems?

Answer 1

Life is whatever you want to make out of it. Take it and run with it. Get the most out of it that you can because life's short.

Life is never easy. No one ever said it was. And nothing worth doing is ever easy. It's all an experience, a million lessons to learn and knowledge to gain.'

Answer 2

To re-iterate some of the previous comments, without lifes problems, you will not fully know the joy of the good times.
I once heard a saying that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results. Similarly, NOT doing certain things and expecting things to suddenly change, is also illogical.

Most of the time, the reason that we say that something is a problem, is because of some negative facet to a life occurance. What seems exceedingly difficult for people to understand is that this negativity is in our own minds.

You can chose whether or not an occurance upsets you, or does not upset you. You can chose to use an occurance as a growth opportunity, or not. You can choose to have a postive view of life, or not to.

Even a major catastrophe can be used as a definitive point in which take a new direction in life.

I've found that understanding spirituality, (not to be confused with adhering to any particular religion), helps in understanding this, and developing a process for dealing with life on life's terms.

Happy destiny.

Answer 3

Problems maybe big or small depending upon your perception. If you look at a problem as small, no matter how big it is, it will become small and if you look at it as big, it will become big. In short , it is our perception that makes us react. Look at these "problems" as challenges to be solved to make you stronger and to develop your personality and everything will change. Remember , Life is 5 % of what happens to you and 95 % how you respond to it. See the glass as half full instead of half empty. A positive attitude will surely change your perception of things. Good luck!

Answer 4

Find the closest Christian Church, and attend the next Sunday or Wednesday night service, Your problems will seam smaller, your life will fall into perspective,
PS
All the answers are in the Bible

Answer 5

Problems are there to help us grow..... just because we become adults we aren't magically all grown up.....

God can help you through the problems.... that too is why they're there.... He creates the problems to invite us into relationship with him.... sounds a little cooky but tis true.

Answer 6

Life is what you make it, old clique, but true. If you always do what you've always done you will always get what you've always got. Life is a sh*t sandwhich and everyday you must take a bite. Move forward and set obtainable goals to better your mental health.

Answer 7

well, i'm going through tough times myself, but it seems that all the things I go through, in the long run I'm able to reach back and teach others either what not to do, or what they can do to get through it. For me, this is an unwanted helpful long drawn out process.

Answer 8

difficulty creates value. If everything was easy, nothing would be worth doing. Difficulty values reward. Life may suck sometimes, but it sure beats the alternative.

Answer 9

Yahoo Answers is here to help your problems!...What are they?

Answer 10

that depends on the problems, what kind of help are you seeking?