Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

I am eary 20s and I have been dating with middle of 30s man for months. we are looking forward to being together forever. I have never been a mum and I am looking for the answer how to respect his children. I will never wish to make them unhappy because, thier dad (my BF) will marry me. his children is 10 and 6, boy and girl.

2006-10-24 02:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Her employer has found out about some things and may let her go. What can she do?

2006-10-24 02:39:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 02:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have had a very stressfulrelationship for the last 2 years. My husband thinks he can hang out to all hours of the morning. 8-9 am getting home to me is unacceptable. There are always different women calling him all hours of the night. Since I have reconnected with my friend I sometimes come home at crazy hours too. I tell my husband what goes around comes around. I really want to be with this other person. Please give me some honest feedback. I am in the process of making a major life decision and would really like to have some impartial responses.

2006-10-24 02:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by kay kay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this girl for about 10 years now, and I've always had a crush on her, but I was married at the time, and never said anything to her, but we have always kind of flirted with each other. I want to start dating her, but the problem is she is sort of extended family. She is my cousin's spouse's sister. I worry that if it doesn't work out, that there are going to be hurt feelings within the family. Should I ask her out?

2006-10-24 02:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by InTheGroove 2 in Singles & Dating

like a s...t , b...h ,manipulater etc, and how do you judje as to who is what

2006-10-24 02:37:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for almost 6 months, pretty much from the day we met we haven't left each others side.He moved me and my daughter in with him after about 1 month.He acts likes he loves me. He includes me in all his furture plans,even talks about the house he is going to build me, and jokes(I think) about marring me, he has given me control in his business and life, tells me he can't live without me, he has taken me and my daughter on expenisive vacations, he bought me a car, he praises everything I do, brags about me to his family ect...but he won't say I love you to me. He says it's because I hound him about saying it. but I've only made metion a few times.
He can't even sleep without us totally entertwinded in each other.He tells me he isn't like others and he isn't a mushy guy, and repeatly has said..."IF I didn't, would I act like I do,and do the things I do" I've been married twice and this guy shows more love to me then both husbands put together.Why won't he say it.

2006-10-24 02:36:39 · 21 answers · asked by Ember F 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a long distance relationship, and we used to be like we can take on anything. make it through anything. what we have is so special. but it's been so long, it's started to go bad. he wont talk about us in that way, he says it hurts. That i should be there so we can DO those things instead of say them. but because we dont say them, i cant see it happening. he makes me cry all the time, says it's my fault we dont share the way we used to because we should be together by now. i just cant see moving over there to him while we are not talking tenderly to each other. just 'come or your going to regret it forever. that you'll have messed it up forever' there is another guy who's being sweet and supportive (as a friend but he wants more) part of me thinks maybe what i have with my bf is gone, and i should go for this new thing. but on the other hand i still love my bf as much as i ever did.

2006-10-24 02:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 02:35:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriends mom feels she needs to be included on everything, including halmark holidays like sweetest day. i feel that day is only for sweethearts, hence, sweetest day. i called her to wish her a happy mother-in law day, (another halmark holiday) she blew me off, because i did not call her on sweetest day, or send her something. i don't feel i should have to deal with it every time she cops an attitude about something so petty, maybe i'm wrong, i just do'nt know any more.

2006-10-24 02:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by maria v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 02:34:09 · 13 answers · asked by uncle billy 1 in Friends

went out for a month took it slow cuddling.I was his first kiss and he was very passionate with me but we kept our clothes on.took me home early,car ride spazed out saying he has no idea what he's doing and is confused but I told him he was a great kisser.He tried to cheer me up the whole ride home but I was quit then when I kissed him good bye on the lips he "really" kissed me I back away and cried and said I didn't want to confuse him anymore. I called him that night and told him again I am sorry and he said to give him a few days and he'd call, he never did and I left messages he never called me back. a month later online(new s/n) he told me he wasn't feeling my chemestry which was total bs.Our last date was Jan 22nd.this summer I saw him and told him I don't hate him,he stared at me and said he had 2 go.saw him 2 night ago and I swear he said hi to me but I looked away last night I saw him again,he was running 2 his car but he kept looking at me.next time I see him what do I say?

2006-10-24 02:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by lakersfan_4life1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 02:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by uncle billy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:32:28 · 12 answers · asked by arshi 2 in Friends

Suppose a man and a woman are dating, and each date, they split the check. If both people are okay with that, is the guy cheap?

2006-10-24 02:32:05 · 26 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

hey i havecome from a very well of family,now i have a girlfriend who says i have girlie hands please help me

2006-10-24 02:31:58 · 5 answers · asked by blackavaritia 3 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE AN EX WHO I WAS WITH FOR A LONG TIME...HE WAS MARRIED AND I DIDNT KNOW AT FIRST. NOW I LEFT HIM AND I AM IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP FOR 8 MONTHS NOW. MY EX KEEPS EMAILING ME WITH DETAILS OF MY LIFE RIGHT NOW THAT NOONE KNOWS. HE KNOWS DETAILS!! I WANT THIS TO STOP AND HIM TO TELL ME WHO KEEPS TELLING HIM EVERYTHING..SO I CAN MAKE IT STOP. WHAT DO I DO. ITS GETTING OUT OF HAND AND STARTING TO FREAK ME OUT!

2006-10-24 02:31:25 · 26 answers · asked by Angeleyes 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a dream that my guy was laying next to me "naked" then he left my side to lay next to another female?????i woke up UPSET!!!!! was i wrong to think this dream is telling me something

2006-10-24 02:30:28 · 25 answers · asked by Gemini 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by darkangelnightly 1 in Family

my b-day was yesterday and although i had celebrated it all weekend with my family and my boyfriend...i still expected it to be nice. however, my boyfriend totally blew me off once he got out of work. he picked a fight with me for no reason, just so he could get off the phone. then when i was trying to call him...his phone was off the hook and giving a busy signal for about 3 hours, and his excuse was that he did it on purpose because he didn't want to hear me fighting and yelliing or even worse crying. he hasn't even called to apologize or nothing and i am just so upset and have been crying all night. we have been together for 1 yr and 9 months, and he ruined my last b-day too...UGH....what do i do...

2006-10-24 02:27:07 · 35 answers · asked by butterflykisses03 1 in Singles & Dating

is it a real bondage.

2006-10-24 02:26:57 · 24 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's been a long time since we have done anything,(like 19months) am i wrong for even thinking about it???

2006-10-24 02:26:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The good friend is out of the picture, but dont want to hurt his feelings even though he is moved away, and dont want to possibly loose the friendship with the woman by asking her out. Aghhh!

2006-10-24 02:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

This friend and I have recently gone our seperate ways due to difference, nothing to big, just you cannot be honest with her, or she is insulted and takes everything so personally(which we had 3 recent disagreements, the last one ended things for us). So to make a long story short I tried to maintain some contact with her through email and stuff but no response, BUT recently she had decide that life is to short and we should try and start fresh. She agree to be honest and not take things to heart and will try to be upfront as well. We tried this one time before and when I was honset with her BOOM,, that's it she was done with me !! Help should I try again or avoid the whole thing who needs the headache

2006-10-24 02:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by just wondering 2 in Friends

Here's the deal, I was going out with this girl who is currently deployed to Iraq. I was completely faith to her for almost a year but she never completely trusted me because her ex-husband cheated on her and I guess she figured I'd do the same. Now I had my opportunities but I said no everytime and the next day if my girlfriend called me I'd tell her about it or I'd email her about it not because of fear that someone might tell her but because I loved her and wanted her to trust me. Today was suppose to be our one anniversary, but she's a hypocrite because the whole time that she wasn't trusting me she was cheating on me and now she's a month pregnant. So my question is this, would my body be able to physically withstand the amount of dope I'd have to smoke to even think about taking her back?

2006-10-24 02:25:30 · 25 answers · asked by andre' w 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do they say hurtful things just to make you hate them even though they care about you and dont reall ywanna say those hurtful things

2006-10-24 02:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 02:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my lover after when my husband who was a nasty person decided to become nice again. But now, he has reverted to his old self and i find myelf missing my lover. Today is his birthday and i have been thinking whether i should call or send a message to him to wish him Happy birthday. Am i wrong in feeling this way? He has not called me ever since we broke up. Actually, he was the one who stopped calling me first but when i ask should we break up, he said that he never said he wanted to break up with me but he is busy and will call when the time is right. What does that mean? What should i do?

2006-10-24 02:24:22 · 14 answers · asked by angelheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it really a sickness or just a hump she has to get over i really want to help her get over it but everytime i try it slips right out of my hand. and i dont know the words to say when i try to talk to her PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 02:24:11 · 4 answers · asked by Sharnice O 1 in Family