ok, i am married, but my wife is termal cancer patient ,her nurse asked me over for dinner and whatever...?

Question

it's been a long time since we have done anything,(like 19months) am i wrong for even thinking about it???

Answer 1

Absolutely! My Dad had to endure exactly what you are for over a year. He was SO lonely. But, you are married to that poor woman who is dying from cancer! Stick to your vows and love your woman until the final day.

Answer 2

Yes, you are. Right now you need to be there for your wife. You're obviously lonely, so be careful of starting a new relationship at this time. You're vulnerable, and under a lot of stress so you want to use caution when making any decisions. If the nurse would like to have lunch or dinner at the hospital, that would be acceptable, but you need to avoid any intimate settings at this point.

Answer 3

all i have to say is this..... to every one of you that said it's ok for him to be thinking this .....every one of you could not be more wrong you marred your WIFE cause you loved her and she was the one person in the world you wanted to be with for the rest of your life ............ your Question makes me very mad ...what the F*** are you thinking ..... are you ******* dumb she is your WIFE !! and she has cancer all you should be thinking is how you can be there for your WIFE !!! do you remember saying through sickness and health when you said ((I DO )) ......well this is that time this is a time in her life where she needs her husband the most .... and you are here thinking about some damn nurse its called be a real man and say HELL NO !! AND YOU ARE WRONG TO BE ASKING you are here to help my (wife) not to come on to me ...* get a new nurse *....you are so wrong to even ask this question on here ....... cause that's just shows you have been thinking about what this nurse has asked you .... ya you maybe a little lonely but suck it up ...put your self in your wife's place and look out her eyes and how would you feel ...

Answer 4

I think that this so called nurse is taking advantage of a bad situation.No you should not go to her home because you know what will happen.YOU have got to have more respect for your wife and yourself. If you were to cheat on your wife you will never be able to face yourself. Just think of it this way, what if it were you that had the cancer? What would you want from someone that you loved.

Answer 5

It's not wrong. It's totally understandable. You are in a very difficult, stressful situation. However, it would not be right to have an affair (if that is what you are considering) under these circumstances. You would be doing wrong to your wife, to the other girl and to yourself. I am not in your shoes, so who am I to tell you what to do, but I would say you should just acknowledge these thoughts and feelings you are having and then CHOOSE not to act upon them. Don't push them away though, give them a place in your closet of thoughts and feelings and close the door on them... for now. Take care, my friend.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Well if you wonder why "bonnie" answered your question with so much anger is because i am her fiancee and i have colon cancer. The fact that you would even give this a once of consideration shocks me! She pledged her life to you as in " til death due we part!" Honor her and give her the respect of dying knowing that her husband was always true to her! You are not the one with the time limit.... she is! Remember you still have to shave and look at yourself in the mirror!!

Answer 8

hell yes your wrong for thinking about it. Your wife needs you more than anythiing right now and all your thinking about is some skank nurse. How could you betray your wife like that? your an @ss for even thinking about it. Think in your wifes view how bad she will take it that her husband of howerever long is just now cheating on her because she has cancer and her nurse is hot. i bet shes not hot shes just some ugly blonde dits right? jerk

Answer 9

NO, you're not wrong for THINKING of it. You're normal, you're lonely, you're scared, you're horny, you're human.

But you would be wrong to pursue it. Through sickness and in health, remember?!

Are you just looking to get laid? Or are you longing a relationship? How do you think your wife would feel?

I haven't been in your shoes so I can't even imagine what you're feeling. But you can't do anything that would hurt your wife. She'll pass and forgive you but you have to live w/ yourself. Be patient.

Good luck dude and sorry about your wife.

Answer 10

Yes. I think it's very disrespectful of you and your wife's nurse. You should stay with your wife until the very end, just like your vows said. After that, your life's decisions are up to you.