Here's the deal, I was going out with this girl who is currently deployed to Iraq. I was completely faith to her for almost a year but she never completely trusted me because her ex-husband cheated on her and I guess she figured I'd do the same. Now I had my opportunities but I said no everytime and the next day if my girlfriend called me I'd tell her about it or I'd email her about it not because of fear that someone might tell her but because I loved her and wanted her to trust me. Today was suppose to be our one anniversary, but she's a hypocrite because the whole time that she wasn't trusting me she was cheating on me and now she's a month pregnant. So my question is this, would my body be able to physically withstand the amount of dope I'd have to smoke to even think about taking her back?
2006-10-24 02:25:30 · 25 answers · asked by andre' w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's over, don't ever go back.
2006-10-24 02:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK here is the deal,I n this life as we know it between men and women its no statement should ever be made that I want cheat in the first place because we all do in some form of another.the real question should be did she really love you and you her because this is the key when you truly love someone no one can lure you from her or him.you will always look at other men and women but your love for who you are with keeps you from that final step.Now for her being pregnant is it yours? if this is a question get a DNA test.Put down the dope and make grown up decisions there is another life involved,the baby.when the high is gone!!!!! she will still be pregnant and you will still have these feelings,so deal with it and move on weather its with her or without.trust me when you fine the right mate you will know it !!! so be happy time is short true love is not its everlasting
2006-10-24 02:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ethel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd need a truck to carry all the dope you need. I wouldn't take her back. First she cheated on you and she got stupid and got pregnant in the process. You'll be raising some cheater's baby that's not even yours and she didn't even care that you weren't cheating on her. Leave her on the curb and go for something better.
2006-10-24 02:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by The C man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is certainly not any amount that you would be able to take that would justify taking her back without killing yourself!
I know it may hurt but you sound like a good guy, and she isn't worth your love if she is going to be that way. Just don't get bitter, and somebody will come along for you and you won't even remember the other girl's name!
2006-10-24 02:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that this happened to you but this is somethin only you can answer. Do you love her enough to eventually see past what she has done to you. If you think you do then you can try, but that would mean playing dad to some other man's baby. Are you ready for that? These are things only you can answer and if you say that you can get past it and you love her too much to lose her then stay but if not then just move on.
2006-10-24 02:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it would not be able to take the kick I'd give you in the nuts if you did.
If you do.
I will.
So, don't.
Sorry this happened to you. You don't deseeve this after being so careful and considerate of her and her fears. Lousy way to repay you. And they guys are the pigs.
2006-10-24 02:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, she will have to deal with this guy the rest of your lives, she doesn;t sound like a very nice person to put you on a guilt trip then do this. i realize it must be tough over there but, she should not have made a commitment to you . knowing she was gonna be there awhile . just wish her the best of luck with her new life.
2006-10-24 02:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take her back. She demands faithfulness, yet doesn't seem to understand that means - gasp!- that she might have to be faithful too. Besides, do you really have a relationship anymore? Forget about her.
2006-10-24 02:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, probably not but you deserve better anyway I always say that people with a guilty conscience are the ones always accusing everyone else of what they do. Move on.
2006-10-24 02:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why take her back after all she has done to u?maybe she lied when she said her ex cheat on her,maybe she was the one hwo cheat others and now she got pregnant too?oh..u must leave her
or ur gonna have another man's baby
2006-10-24 02:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it couldn't. Don't let her cheating on you change you. You should be proud of yourself and continue being that type of person. She's what gives us ladies a bad name....you are what gives guys a good name and if you noticed, there aren't that many of you who aren't cheaters or who don't change once they have been in your shoes!!
2006-10-24 02:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋