This friend and I have recently gone our seperate ways due to difference, nothing to big, just you cannot be honest with her, or she is insulted and takes everything so personally(which we had 3 recent disagreements, the last one ended things for us). So to make a long story short I tried to maintain some contact with her through email and stuff but no response, BUT recently she had decide that life is to short and we should try and start fresh. She agree to be honest and not take things to heart and will try to be upfront as well. We tried this one time before and when I was honset with her BOOM,, that's it she was done with me !! Help should I try again or avoid the whole thing who needs the headache
2006-10-24 02:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by just wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I should mention that we share a mutual friend who although she won't say it but may feel like she is on the middle and I don't want to ruin my friendship with her
2006-10-24 05:49:10 · update #1
People are creatures of habit. We brush our teeth the same way every day, we put on the same shoe first everyday, wash one arm then the other but always the same. People don't change and if you have fights because of the way she is then she is always going to be that way. I say, since you asked, move on and find a healthier relationship.
2006-10-24 02:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...I mean why not? If things go wrong again, who cares?
Try to be more easy going. Don't care so much. Sounds like you're taking things personally too.
Maybe you two are more alike than you realize.
2006-10-24 02:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you love her, bless her psycho heart, all the best and then... let go! It's not worth the headache, you have said it yourself.
2006-10-24 02:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend like this its not worth it the more i would try it seems like the worse it got..maybe still be aquantices but dont become that close..hmmm well thats just my opinion
2006-10-24 02:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by breannawray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her
2006-10-24 02:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cannot take honesty now - she never will. Move on.
2006-10-24 02:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... sometimes its just not worth the stress
2006-10-24 02:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-24 02:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by roadrage995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your OWN HEART answer your concern....
2006-10-24 02:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by piojita_75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f it move on
2006-10-24 02:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by bighcorleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋