is it a real bondage.
2006-10-24 02:26:57 · 24 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
JUST LIKE THAT OF A DONKEY:if you are a man.BEWARE:
2006-10-24 06:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by agni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly most say this.
I DO NOT BELIEVE this "Bondage" is a fair statement.
I got married this July and have been having a blast ever since! You connect like never before to that person you marry. Way more than when your dating. I have a love inside my heart, so very strong, now that Ive been married, to my husband. Every person, whether they admit it or not, what to have a relationship. One that you feel taken care of, safe, and can lean on your spouses shoulder. They are there for you! Yeah, you get in some fights, (who doesnt) but the great part is that you get to make up in the end (kisses and Hugs ect.) Oh, Yeah, I LOVE MARRIAGE LIFE!!! Its FAR from Bondage!
2006-10-24 14:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life after marriage depending on who you marry is ever changing and work continues everyday on making it the best in the world.
Marriage is only bondage if you see it that way.
Love the person that you are with and it will be one of the best relationships that you have in the world
Forget the marriage vows they will be broken set up in your own mind that you want the relationship to work and it will
2006-10-24 09:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on compatiblility, understanding each other's needs, ability to give and take for both parties. It must be a balance affairs and cannot be one sided, else the boat will also go lop-sided and overturn eventually.
It will be a real bondage if you have all of the above and it is like two halves evolving into one whole, harmoniously.
Do not take things for granted after marriage else it will end up a very sticky scenario. Think twice to say 'i do' else hard time to undo.
2006-10-24 09:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Always Can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does depend how hard you are both willing to work at it. There has to be love, trust, compromise, patience, and honesty. If you do these things and realize that no ones marriage is perfect, then you at least have a chance. Marriage to the right person is like a roller coaster. You will have the most AMAZING ups, but then there are also some pretty steep downs. But not to worry, it can be worth every second!!
2006-10-24 09:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Speedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry the right person, marriage is neither a real bondage or dull. When you marry the right person for you, you have a lifelong partnership that you should find comfort in. Someone that "gets" you. It's fantastic.
2006-10-24 09:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is one of the things in life.
It depends on each and every individual couple.
living or leaving is in your level of sharing and caring.
Nothing shall be taken as a real bondage, because nothing is permanent in this world.
Everything is timely relationship.
2006-10-24 12:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not as if heaven or hell has broken on you, its just an addition in your other relationships, if you are a good son and brother or daughter and sister etc.....most likely is that you would land in being a good husband or wife also.
According to me every relation is a bondage.
2006-10-24 09:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by ram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a real bondage and an exciting long journey
2006-10-24 14:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by kitty jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is great, if you work on it. No more butterflies, lots more responsibility.
Key to a good marriage is a good date once in a while.
Be giving and willing to receive.
2006-10-24 09:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good if you make it good. It's dull of you don't. You have to work on it as if you were still dating. I like the security of it and knowing my husband will still be around tomorrow, next year, and will likely be there to finish raising the children with me. It gives the relationshipship a boost--where you really have to trust each other.
2006-10-24 09:39:04 · answer #11 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋