Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Thanks to all for the advise on approaching the ladies en mass. I tried it and while it wasn't perfect, it went well. Well enough so even though I had to leave to be at work early in the morning, I asked one lady for her number and she gave it to me.

I called it yesterday and yes, it was her number. I recognized the voice and the name was the same. It went to v-mail but I did not leave a message. Yes, I also called from a business phone (not mine) so she most likely wouldn't have known it was me.

Still, I call back later to the same number and I get a male voice over the phone. I ask for the lady and the male voice demands to know who I am. I tell him that I was someone who met the lady and I name the place and that I asked for her number and she gave it to me.

He then says, "She's busy", and hangs up.

Any thoughts? Should I even bother calling back?

2006-10-24 03:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

was he being deliberately mean?

2006-10-24 03:14:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I understand being shy. This guy like me and I knows he knows I'm into him to. Why hasn't he just ask me out? He knows the answer is "yes". Guys, I need some perspective.

2006-10-24 03:14:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i first started my relationship with my boyfriend, i was really happy that he was a man of little words. we feel comfortable not talking, but just enjoying the company of each other. but years past and i realised i am craving for a companionship that allows me hours of chatting, common dreams and goals. is it that my needs have changed or i no longer want whatever i used to want? and can the commitement of love alone hold the weights of long term relationship?

2006-10-24 03:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha T 2 in Singles & Dating

all guys look at hair, face, wieght, breasts size legs, things like that. it is a fact and then we go to personality things like that. my question is, what do girls look at first. and ya cant say personality because there is alwasy that one thing that gets u to talk to that guy... so what is it?

2006-10-24 03:13:07 · 26 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:12:46 · 9 answers · asked by era 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The first nite i met my GF i was introduced by her friend which we were F-buddies for almost a year. The i was introduced to which is now my GF is beautiful and i never thought I'd have a chance with her. She left the party we were at and I expected never to hear from her again. That nite me and and my F-buddy ( which is the girl that i just met, good friend) fooled around. Go figure the firl that i met called me up siad hey lets hang out so i forgot about wat happened that nite and now 4 months later i find out she knew somethin about it after a month but now is all pissed about it. she knew the way me and her friend used to be. Am i in the wrong and is there a reason she should be mad at me. The way she sees it is that she came over to meet me that nite and i should've never did anything with her friend. I see it as i never was gonna see her again so y not have a good time.

2006-10-24 03:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by j_dbas_jr 1 in Singles & Dating

Im seeing this guy and whenever whe are cuddling he always rubs, kissess, etc my stomach.. i have read/heard that when guys do this that they subconciously would want you to be the mother or there children.. is there any truth to this????

2006-10-24 03:12:08 · 15 answers · asked by jadelibra 1 in Singles & Dating

THE THINK IS MY GIRL HAS A FREIND WHO COOL AND IS OUT THERE IF THE WOMAN AND MEN AND COMES ON 2 ME IN A WAY SHE DONT WANT TO LOSE HER BESTFREIND BUT I DONT WANT 2 LOSE MY GIRL BUT AT THE SAMETIME I WANT TO GET WITH HER 1 TIME WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-24 03:11:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were dating someone and they flirted with someone close to you such as a friend would you get mad?And why would someone do that if they love you?And the friend even flirts back,i have met a lot of girls whose boyfriends are like this and they stay with them?Is flirting just flirting orif they had the chance would they sleep with the person?Does anyone date someone like this or have they and if so what was the outcome of the situation?And what about the friend why would she flirt back if she don't even like him what is up with that???

2006-10-24 03:10:08 · 18 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Singles & Dating

He says he would have liked alot more, but it never happened. He seems distracted by her at times and it really bothers me. I have confronted him but his expression was hard to analize. His phone records etc... wont show anything because she lives so close he could just go over to see her in a few minutes. I wouldnt end the relationship if he was as I have comitted a sin that he has forgiven me for. I just need to know. Any sensible answers are appreciated.

2006-10-24 03:08:47 · 6 answers · asked by bg_queen05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 03:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the past 4 months I have been dealing with a progressively dibilitating pain issue that my doctors have been, so far, unable to diagnose. It has caused me to be unable to perform the most mundane tasks such as standing, walking, driving, etc. I can no longer even cook, do laundry or clean my house. The problem is: neither my husband nor our granddaughter who lives with us while attending college or our children who live within 45 minutes of us have offered to help me. I have always been a strong, independent person who has kept this family up and running. Now I need them and they don't seem to have the time or see the need. The house is a mess, the gardens are in a deplorable state and I can't do anything about it. I've asked, begged, pleaded for help. Nothing seems to work. I feel like ripping their heads off, but that's not my usual style. I'm at my wits end. Any suggestions?

2006-10-24 03:08:17 · 14 answers · asked by Rembrandt11 3 in Family

Please give me Corny / Dumb / Clever / Funny pickup lines

2006-10-24 03:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by johnnysmit 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately my husband can't get it up. He blames the pills his phycologist have given him. He wonders the streets at night for the same reason he says. I am really honest and try my best to help him in anyway. I woke up this morning and my anti-virus was disabled.... I don't check up on him because I trust him....and that is the truth....Anyways so many live sex chats and video saved themselves to my computer.....

I am so discussed and hurt because he can't make it work with me...
All I feel right now is.....that I don't ever want to have sex with him....because he betrayed my trust..... please give me some advice.....so that I can talk to him this afternoon.

Thank you!

2006-10-24 03:07:05 · 24 answers · asked by clair 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted something before but I want to get specific so here it is....

At my store I see couples come in everyday to buy something. Suddenly, the girl will start to look at me look and smile. This happens all the time with different people.

Why would a woman look at me this way when they already have a man?

I don't believe they are going to act on it since I can tell she is commited to her partner. But I want to know why women get attracted to other men. Can a woman decide to not get attracted to other men? Is this even possible?

Lady's I would like an honest answer....

2006-10-24 03:06:40 · 35 answers · asked by giovanni g 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in a National Youth Service Corps Transit Camp, which is about 10 hrs drive away from my home, so also are many University graduates from other parts of the country and we will be in the camp for the next 1 year for the compulsory National Youth Service. There is this lady i admire so much, although many guys have been asking her out and she is always telling me about their advances to date her. Unknown to her, i adore her as well and will like to date her for possible marriage. How do i tell her i love her ? wont she categorize me with other guys who have been disturbing here ? Plz advice.

2006-10-24 03:06:04 · 8 answers · asked by alextayo 1 in Singles & Dating

We've only been going out for a month and a half so I don't think diamonds count.lol.

2006-10-24 03:05:57 · 20 answers · asked by Taco Bomber Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

we have chatted for months and have seen eachother via cam and pics. but we live so far apart. should i save up and get a plane ticket to go and meet her in person?

2006-10-24 03:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by empangeniguy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:04:18 · 1 answers · asked by tonya s 1 in Family

Everything was fine the week before, we were in touch as usual (we usually txt each other everyday) and we're very close. She txt saying how she couldn't even touch another bloke when she went clubbing on Saturday. Said she didn't know what was going on with herself. When I asked her to meet up this evening for a quick drink she said no. Then she said she wasn't sure when we'd meet again and that she'll get in touch. I asked what the matter was, she told me that she's got a lot on her mind and don’t want me to contact her. We didn't argue or fall out over anything.

What’s going on with her? This has really surprised me!

Advice greatly appreciated

2006-10-24 03:04:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-24 03:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by Mary7 3 in Singles & Dating

all so a sense of humour and loyalty

2006-10-24 03:03:31 · 22 answers · asked by michael b 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:02:12 · 6 answers · asked by Cheshire Cat 6 in Singles & Dating

i try being jealous like when the x calls but i just can't, im not a jealous gf is that bad?? i just make funny comments about her calling but that's it!!!

2006-10-24 03:01:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got married and i am already having thoughts of leaving him for my ex!! what to do? would a baby help things out?

2006-10-24 03:01:24 · 27 answers · asked by what 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can guess some of the traits that I should be looking for in a good husband but what about others? Can you help me?

2006-10-24 03:01:08 · 13 answers · asked by Stasia 2 in Singles & Dating

My Dad has 2 other kids- I'm the oldest, and they're all with different women. My parents don't get on. This became pretty clear when I was younger, so I dealt with it, and moved on. I'm a lot older now, I'm doing things I thought he'd be proud of, and yet he never says anything good about me. I thought I was beyond the stage where it mattered- but recently I decided to make more of an effort, but . . He says really horrid things about me sometimes, refers to me as a child, tells people he thinks I dress like a prostitute ( I Don't he's just really conservative), and none of his friends knows who I am, they just know that I am my mother's daugher, n my mother is power mad b***h. It angers me because I know I'm better than he makes out- but I want him to acknowledge it . His idea of a compliment, was I am 'domesticated' whilst my younger sister is not. I really want to confront him about all this- but I kno frm experience he will only try and tell me it in my head. Any Advice?

2006-10-24 03:00:09 · 16 answers · asked by sassedangel 2 in Family

he says hes always been in love with me ever since high school. he said that if i knew how hard it was when i got married, he was the best man.he also lived with us after we got married . he tells me it was so hard for him seeing me get hurt by my husban but he couldn't say anything since we both were his friends. what should i do. i love him but can't see myself with him in that way. i mean hes wonderful but i don't want to hurt him or myself. so what should i do? please help.

2006-10-24 02:59:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How would u react if the girl u'e inlove with soo deeply sent u a message saying she doesn't love you anymore and is gonna move on , and then calls you 5 days later to see you?

2006-10-24 02:59:29 · 21 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating