The first nite i met my GF i was introduced by her friend which we were F-buddies for almost a year. The i was introduced to which is now my GF is beautiful and i never thought I'd have a chance with her. She left the party we were at and I expected never to hear from her again. That nite me and and my F-buddy ( which is the girl that i just met, good friend) fooled around. Go figure the firl that i met called me up siad hey lets hang out so i forgot about wat happened that nite and now 4 months later i find out she knew somethin about it after a month but now is all pissed about it. she knew the way me and her friend used to be. Am i in the wrong and is there a reason she should be mad at me. The way she sees it is that she came over to meet me that nite and i should've never did anything with her friend. I see it as i never was gonna see her again so y not have a good time.
2006-10-24 03:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by j_dbas_jr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay as a woman I can totally see where she is coming from, I mean she came over expecting something to spark right? nothing did I guess so she left. The I can see your side, she decided to leave its not like you told her to and inside you really wanted her to stay, but when she left you got the idea that she wasnt diggin you so you did what you always do with your buddy.? K! She kinda has a right to get because she wanted you to hang with her and you with her friend, but shouldnt she be mad at her friend too? However, she did know that you two were like that and did stuff together so she should have been smart enough to stick around and make the other friend leave. HA! Obviously she did something to make you think you would never see her again so its really not your fault, she was just sending mixed signals. So just tell her, she left, you thought you would never see her so went on with your normal life.Her fault she left and her fault for making you feel like you werent good enough at the time. The point is is that she knew about you two and the status "bed buddies" case closed. She will get over it any way.
2006-10-24 03:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off ~ let me tell you I am a gal. And, I think you are right! Yes, believe it or not, I said You are RIGHT. Unless you and the gal you were introduced to had hit it off and you felt that there might be some indication from her that you would be seeing her again, you were a free man to do as you please. Until there is an actual date, conversation or something that confirms an interest you should be able to fool around with whomever you please. She knew about you and her friend. So, she needs to step back and think about how totally ridiculous she is being. If you and her friend hadn't been fooling around, then how did she think you two knew one another?????
2006-10-24 03:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing was ever stated that you two were in any way committed to one another....you pretty much have freedom to do whatever you want until that is determined. She can't be mad at you for something you did in your past that was prior to your relationship. Sounds to me like she's trying to see how far she can go as far as pushing you around. Don't let her walk all over you, if she does it now..it will happen again. State your side of it, be done and move on....if she can't handle it, maybe it's time you moved on as well.
2006-10-24 03:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you type like a 10 year old, go get some lessons on how to speak right and spell better and sound like you are older than 10. No rudeness intended but too many of you people on here don't know how to spell or talk in complete sentences that sound good.
2006-10-24 03:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you've been kidding yourself if you've been thinking that the girl didn't already know what was going on between your "F" buddy and you. Girls talk. And we talk A LOT
Second, you had no commitment to this other girl. Can't understand why she is upset about something you did with someone else the night you met her.
2006-10-24 03:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually a good sign. It means she really likes you. Mention to her that you were not expecting such a great girlto be interested in you. You were being a little self conscoius, and you are sorry. Obviously remind her that you are fully committed to her and want it that way.
2006-10-24 03:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by BDP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really u didn't do anything wrong if u 2 weren't dating... she should just get over it and leave it in the past... if she likes u then she shouldn't worry about what happened that night she should just think about the future u 2 will/ could have.
2006-10-24 03:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Shortie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you dating this girl or committed to the one that is mad you 4fooling around? then she has no beef if you weren't.
Hey.... righteousness1983 maybe you need to see a teacher about YOUR grammer. lmao
2006-10-24 03:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by regg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you can't choose between the girls. have a break and think it over first, before you decide on a course of action.
2006-10-24 03:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she should be mad at you for things you did BEFORE you were commited to her.
2006-10-24 03:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋