If you were dating someone and they flirted with someone close to you such as a friend would you get mad?And why would someone do that if they love you?And the friend even flirts back,i have met a lot of girls whose boyfriends are like this and they stay with them?Is flirting just flirting orif they had the chance would they sleep with the person?Does anyone date someone like this or have they and if so what was the outcome of the situation?And what about the friend why would she flirt back if she don't even like him what is up with that???
2006-10-24 03:10:08 · 18 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was younger, yes this would have bothered me. But as you mature and become comfortable and confident with yourself and your spouse/mate, things will not be the end of the world so much. My husband and I have friends that we hang out with quite a bit and we will make little flirty comments in front of each other to someone else, but we know that we are just hanging out having a good time and that there would never be anything from it. You have to be able to trust the person you are in a relationship with. If you can't there may be a problem.
I would also say that no lines would ever be crossed in my relationship and if they were crossed, then things would have to be changed. But I don't think that is a bridge I will ever have to cross.
The important thing is for you to be comfortable with your relationship and if it is something that you are not, talk to him about it and find out why it is happening. Compromise or agree to disagree. Good Luck.
2006-10-24 03:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Peachz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everything ain't about love.
I flirt a LOT. I dont even realize Im doing it most of the time.
And when I have a girlfriend... I still flirt a lot, just because thats how I am. Flirting is fun and harmless.
You need to decide if your man would ~act~ on the flirting if he gets the chance. Thats the big question.
2006-10-24 10:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you flirt a little doesn't always mean that there is going to be sex. It just depends on the intentions of the people involved. My husbands friends and coworkers are forever hitting on me and flirting with me. Every week on our dart league night one of his closest friends tells me all of the things he would like to do to me in bed. All of this happens right in front of my husband and he finds it hilarious! He makes jokes and comments right back to the friend. Why, because he knows that all it is joking around and having a good time. Just because this guy and I flirt doesn't mean that we would sleep together, that would never happen. Like I said, it is all about the intentions behind the flirting. Maybe if you can not accept this in the relationship, then it is time to move on.
2006-10-24 10:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't get your panties in a wad. Flirting is harmless! It's human nature to flirt! If you're dating someone who is a flirt, then just accept it. That's just the way they are. They are still with you, right? Jealousy is needless and unbecoming. If you love a person, love should be based on trust. I hope this helps.
2006-10-24 10:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... sometimes it is harmless and then again sometimes...it's more.. depending on the individuals really and their motives behind an innocent act....
Sometimes flirting is the act of making a man feel please with himself..... more like an ego booster.
Well referring back to your question.... if you are in this situation and it is making you uncomfortable.... then talk with your partner....and explain how you feel.......and if he does not give an answer that fits your perception or expectation... then you need to make new decision with regards the relationship.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-24 10:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion its a question of respect. If you respect someones feelings, you won't go around flirting with someone else. Especially if that someone else is your friend. Ask your boyfriend how he would feel if you would do the same thing. Tell him that if he respects you, he would'nt flirt with others.
2006-10-24 10:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think a good friend should flirt with your b/f. if that should happen to me i will dump both of them as been my friends, because if they can flirt while you are there, imagine what they will do when you are not there. Be very careful and know who your friends are really are.
2006-10-24 10:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by gift 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting came sometimes be very innocent, and other times it causes a lot of trouble. nip it in the bud now if you have a problem with it, let it be known now before it's too late.
2006-10-24 10:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know im in the same ordeal but im the guy and she my girl bestfreind it hard im not going 2 lie cause im a good guy and dont cheat and she the devil in horns showin clevesh and thongs she bi we talk smoke togather but i can c it in her eyes like make a move and its on u no i just put my mind in a better place and bite my lip and know she a woman who just want the showlight on her.look just keep your i on him and her and dont aloud a lot of 1on1 time with each other as a guy tellin u that i fill dum but its like were in the same thing your freind will???????????????? be good to your self and it turn out ok. outtro.
2006-10-24 11:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by WILLIAM S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is harmless, now if the person your dating starts actually doing something, then you would drop him.
2006-10-24 10:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ross B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋