How would u react if the girl u'e inlove with soo deeply sent u a message saying she doesn't love you anymore and is gonna move on , and then calls you 5 days later to see you?
2006-10-24 02:59:29 · 21 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(wants to see you to talk about the breakup)
2006-10-24 03:09:20 · update #1
That would leave me very confused. She would rip out my guts by telling me she didn't love me and she was moving on, then confuse me by wanting to see me again.
I don't think I would see her.
2006-10-24 03:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by InTheGroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to make this sweet and short but I have been through many of similiar situations and I can tell you that it has messed me up somewhat emotionally. I hardly trust a woman now and it is because women who say they will do things and not do these things end up doing the complete opposite on both of her words. So it boils down to a woman who is not mature enough to be honest and is probably younger and not ready to be with a guy even though she thinks one day she is but the next few she isn't because of some ridiculous excuse. But then again that is young love at it's best and at it's worst. All I gotta say is don't come to me 5 day's later unless you gotta REALLY GOOD explanation as to why you did what you do and I MAY forgive you and still be with you.
2006-10-24 10:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch! I've been in a situation like this before and all the guy will be thinking is "she's obviously realized she still loves me so I'll meet her and get her back" if you don't want to get back with him then just make it obvious but try not to hurt him because even if you don't love him anymore he still has feelings for you and he's bound to be hurt already so if your meeting him to try and remain friends then you might want to leave it a bit longer before you meet why don't you just text him and call every now and then for a week or two then arrange to meet up that way you can slowly assure him its only going to be as friends, good luck
2006-10-24 10:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by perkinsdamion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have walked away after she sent the message and never had contact with her again. I don't believe in letting someone treat me like that a second time.
2006-10-24 10:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still be in the deeply hurt, dealing with it stage.
Depending on how I felt at the time, and how she was acting, I might see her again.
2006-10-24 10:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her to spend some time alone and not talk to me again until she has her head screwed on straight and knows what she wants.
2006-10-24 10:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think she is a very confused young lady but would give her another chance to see if she really does like me...
2006-10-24 10:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no one else and does not love you therefore is using you till she can find someone else. However, if your in a gay relationship then It is always going to be that way.
2006-10-24 10:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have already moved on. She wanted a quick fling and there ain't no coming back.
2006-10-24 10:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would not get the date. if she moves on, my standing rule is she can never come back. There are no second chances. not anymore.
2006-10-24 10:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋