I live in a National Youth Service Corps Transit Camp, which is about 10 hrs drive away from my home, so also are many University graduates from other parts of the country and we will be in the camp for the next 1 year for the compulsory National Youth Service. There is this lady i admire so much, although many guys have been asking her out and she is always telling me about their advances to date her. Unknown to her, i adore her as well and will like to date her for possible marriage. How do i tell her i love her ? wont she categorize me with other guys who have been disturbing here ? Plz advice.
2006-10-24 03:06:04 · 8 answers · asked by alextayo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously not. If she is telling you about other men trying to be with her then who is she talking about you to. You are the one she confides in, and she is obviously comfortable talking to you and sharing her feelings right? So sound like things are good, but I dont know details so I will just say, if you have known her 6 months or more tell her, otherwise wait a while to find out really. Just remember it may be uncomfortable for her to hear that you love her if guys havent even dated... then again it might be the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to her. good luck
2006-10-24 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer very customarily. my dad used to inform me daily. (however he is useless). my mother tells me. my sister tells me. infrequently different household individuals do ........ or a freind does, however that sort of affection is special than romantic love. And even in that cirumstance, i have no longer heard it customarily. I am no longer instructed "I love you" very customarily. I am no longer instructed "I recognize you" or "Thank You" very customarily both. Hugs are not traditional both. And even though i am the sort of individual of whom is slightly at ease and that i do not must pay attention it daily, each as soon as in a at the same time it's satisfactory to understand that i'm cared approximately and liked. But I consider the word turns into typical after a at the same time and loses it is that means if used TOO so much or within the mistaken context. Like while i man performs the "I love you" card simply to get you to do him OR a pal or household member performs the "I love you" card simply considering that they desire some thing from you. Not each person is like that, however a few are. And the word does lose it is credibility and that means after a at the same time of getting used improperly in such instances. I attempt to allow the men and women in my lifestyles realize that i care approximately them customarily. I regularly say "Love You!" or "I Love You!" however that is simply considering that that is the way in which that i'm. I've regularly been like that. I like men and women to understand that they're adored and cared approximately. And that it's precise, as i anticipate not anything in go back. I am sorry you've gotten had such terrible instances. I realize the sensation, suppose me. I can present you a hug! ---> ?hugs!!? And i'm hoping it will get bigger. Just considering that SOME men and women to your lifestyles have handled you prefer crap does not imply that you're. You deserve as so much love and admire as the following individual. Don't accept not up to the quality. LOVE YOU!!? ?????
2016-09-01 01:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by polka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well -don't jump straight in with the 'love thing' - just ask her out for a date and see where it leads - you need to know how she feels about you before you consider marriage!
2006-10-24 03:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she speaks to you on a regular basis, then ask her out for coffee or something to eat. Obviously she thinks differently of you if she is telling you of their advances, it may be her way of trying to get your attention. DO NOT tell her you love her just yet, you may scare her since you don't have a relationship at this point.
2006-10-24 03:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her u love her but go for it and ask her out if u tell her u love her she will get freaked out and it could end ur freind ship so just have faith and ask her if she wants to go to the movies with u
2006-10-24 03:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by babi boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get to know her better and start spending time (alone) with her and actually dating and talking on the phone before you can think about telling her you love her.
2006-10-24 03:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time is when you feel that mushy heartaching feeling in your heart.
2006-10-24 03:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tell someone you love them when you feel it, and you say it in any language they understand
2006-10-24 03:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋