Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

I am talikin to this guy that I just met. He is a really nice guy and I think that if we hung out we would really hit it off. But every time I talk to him he always mentions this other girl. How he really liked her but she is off to college now. I think even if we didn't go out we would still be great friends. I have just been looking for a guy like this for a long time and he is perfect in every way......Do you think I should wait to see how he starts to react later on or should I just give up? I don't want to start fallen for him and then he end up not feeling the same way. I just don't want to get heartbroken.

2006-10-24 03:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by B-Lock 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 03:38:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a nineteen year college freshman quite new in my faith. I am struggling to overcome a past filled with dissappointment, hurt, and pain. .. I had a very lonely and troubled childhood. I have trust issues, and am struggling to find faith and strength in the Lord. I know that God is always there, but I need prayer that I will continue to turn to God for strength and guidance on what to do. I want to build my faith and have a strong relationship with Christ. I want to discover my beliefs and try to figure out why I believe what I do. I am from an agnostic/atheist background, and I need help in my newfound faith! Please also pray that God will give me the strength to trust in him to provide for things such as tuition and every day needs. I am trying to pay my own tuition, but am struggling with health problems and depression which currently prevent me from working. PLEASE BE WILLING TO PRAY and feel free to leave any prayer needs that you may have.

2006-10-24 03:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and this guy have had a crush on each other ever since i started hanging with my dad three summers ago. The tradition is i come to see my dad and end up with Jusitn alone. So i got the bright idea to move down here and thought it would be like that all the time. My dad is best friends with Justin's dad and better yet my dad lives with justin. I live with my grandpa. Anyway we had sex and the next day he told me he wasn't good enough he wanted a better life for me than 6 kids and a worthless husband. We haven't really talked since. I was at one of my dads famous partys and decided to take a ride in justins truck. I crashed it! Now i think there will never be an us. oh yeah and he's dating my best friend. I want to crawl under a rock and die!!!

2006-10-24 03:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Kayla E 1 in Friends

i know i know the best way to know is if i ask me but i have tried i really have except i cant. i will tell u in a minute. anyway i kissed this guy a few nights ago and on that night he onli had the one glass of beer and when we embraced[b4 the kiss] he didnt pull away until like after 3 minutes anyway's i positioned my lips infront of him and im pretty sure when our lips touched he didn't hesitate at all. anywho we kissed and the next day when i asked him about his thoughts on what happened that night he was like i was drunk but to me he didn';t seem dreunk to me anyways he went on to say that we both knew it wouldn't have worked out and then weeks later his friends started teasing me about how I had kissed HIM i mean it was a two way thing and his friends kept asking me whether i liked him like a thousand times. what could he be thinking? and when i say he told his friends i mean like 15 of them including all the details uno whether we used tongues. guys girls men women pliz pliz he

2006-10-24 03:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by crazybonita24 1 in Singles & Dating

I really dont kno if im a virgin i was with my ex boyfriend 7th-8th grade i was in his house alone and we took our cloths off and he put his penis...well he tried to fit it in but only the head of the penis whent in and out and it hurt so dats as far he whent because it hurt but i didnt bleed or anything am i still declared a virgin?

and then 2 years later 10th grade i met my new boyfriend whitch i love alot and when i was alone in his house i told him i was ready and he inserted his penis in me whitch was kind of hard to get it in it took a while to get it in because it was so tight he had to use saliva and when it was finally inside (it whent in completely ) and we had sex even if it was kinda slow because it was my first time it hurt so much i teard a bit and yet i still didnt bleed i just want to kno to whitch boifriend did i lose my virginity to. and was i a virgin after my 1st boifrend?

2006-10-24 03:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by question911plz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy still want to be with her and talks about a future someday.

2006-10-24 03:37:15 · 22 answers · asked by young at heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend that wants me all to himslef. When I go out with my friends he gets mad. Then asks me 100 questions of what we are going to do that night. He also calls me off the hook. Should I brake up with him? or should I stay with him and not hang with my friends anymore? i am so confused.

2006-10-24 03:37:09 · 23 answers · asked by lil duce 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by mrfrosty 2 in Weddings

A friend and I recently became involved,we have always had feelings for one another,she finally admitted to having feelings for me,and I said I did as well,she cried and asked me why I didn't say anything earlier,she is engaged now,and says she has fell for me and wishes she could find a way to be with me,we have spent a lot of time together,but she keeps it a secret,nobody has a clue we are involved even though they see us together all the time,because they know we are friends,I told her I can't be with her anymore,I should have never got involved,but I always loved her,in my mind she was cheating on him the moment she confessed her feelings for me,but she has not left him yet,now I feel as if she just used me for a fling until she gets married,I told her I do not want to be second best and I refuse to share her, the problem is if she does leave him will I ever be able to trust her,will she do the same thing to me?Why did she agree to marry if she wasn't in love and is not happy? help

2006-10-24 03:36:14 · 36 answers · asked by JEFF A 1 in Singles & Dating

to bed? do you change it up or keep it the same throughout the year?

2006-10-24 03:35:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so you see her once, you see her twice, you invite her for coffee, you realize her eyes are blue, was that a dimple? she loves Sci-Fi just like you, she smells sweet, you could get used to sweet...

2006-10-24 03:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by bryankanale 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and living together for 6 months. He left a couple days ago. He came over last night, we had a great talk and even made love, now this morning he tells me that he is having doubts about us. Told me that I need to change who I am or it wont work? He thinks that I am needy because I dont like to be left out, thinks that because I dont have a past interest that I have no goals. I believe that if someone truley loves you than they would accept you for you? Is my line of thinking correct here?

2006-10-24 03:34:08 · 38 answers · asked by Beckie . 1 in Singles & Dating

let us say hypotheticaly we were in a relationship and i said it would turn me on to degrade you and you said how? and i said that lets do it in front of the toilet and when im about to lets say give you my dna i wanted you to stick your head in the toilet would you do it? or would you be so blinded by rage you would throw me out of your house? thank you in advance for your time in answering my inane questions and no ive never done this i read a book where one of the characters did this

2006-10-24 03:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I moved to a state where we have no family or friends. We moved into a really nice neighborhood, but the majority of the people there are in thier 40s. We are both in our mid 20s with no kids. We don't drink and don't really like going to clubs (yes we are sort of lame). We have been trying to connect with people but all we get is soft commitments from people to do things that never turn out to be anything. We are sick of dealing with the non serious people. Where could we go or what could we do to get some reliable friends? I need you serious advice!

2006-10-24 03:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Paka 2 in Friends

2006-10-24 03:33:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was taught that is to be full of yourself. But then those same people hurt me. If I had loved myself more than them, I would have left them sooner...

So is it ok to love yourself most?

2006-10-24 03:33:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf loves jewlery, we've been together for 2.5 years. I've never gotten her a ring b/c I've been afraid of the interp. I don't want to propose at this time. I want her to have a nice ring though b/c she is so special to me. i worry how it can be done without seeming like an engagement ring. any thoughts...

2006-10-24 03:33:07 · 32 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend's birthday is next month....please i need some ideas!!

2006-10-24 03:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am asking the guys this question, would you have just said you were too busy

2006-10-24 03:33:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kirks Folley 5 in Family

2006-10-24 03:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if im 32 - which i am - would it be wrong to date a guy who is only 25? i know its ok for men to date younger woman but people frown when its the other way round. why?

2006-10-24 03:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Roo 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you think? i have know this girl for some time no and am unsure if she likes me. she stares at me sometimes. she seems to get really excited when she sees me and always comes up and talks to me and waves. she will often talk about relationships in general to me, and ask me if i am going here or there (when she is going to go) i know she likes guys with hair that isnt short but isnt real long (shagy) and i told her i was going to get a hair cut and she told me i shouldnt. when we see each other at school (seinors in hs) and we are going opposite ways she will turn around to walk with me and talk. the other day she also said to me:you are like the only person.. that i can keep a steady conversation going .. and not run out of intersting things!! (she said that online) we talk almost ever day online and at school, usually about nothing but we end up talking for hours.

2006-10-24 03:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by bigbob33 3 in Singles & Dating

i 've found some friendz in my new campus who seems much closer.how can i find true friends frm them

2006-10-24 03:32:00 · 14 answers · asked by rehna 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 03:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by john k 1 in Family

MEMORIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 03:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 16 and hes 14

2006-10-24 03:29:38 · 27 answers · asked by skittles 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:29:32 · 19 answers · asked by ditzylea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been wth my parner 10 yrs and at 1st was great but from wen my daughter was born i havent been happy, we have argued, split up, numerous times but i have always stayed because of my daughter, but few weeks ago her behaviour started to change while we were goin thru a bad patch, she wouldnt sleep, wouldnt go to school was very clingy towards me. I realised this was wen we were rowing (my partner will neva leave the arguement until she is out of the house)
i decided enough was enough, i didnt think i cud eva do it but i am leaving i am renting a flat i just i havent told my partner yet he gets very angry and i am soooo frightened by wat he will say in front of our daughter that im gona get her out of the house and either leave a letter so i can get out before he kicks off or tell him straight how it is.
He has told me that if i eva left he wud take her away and make my life hell, i know this wudnt happen as i am the carer and he works long hours just scared tho big style help

2006-10-24 03:29:27 · 28 answers · asked by jjp 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a friend named Steve Lathrop that I havent spoken to in years. He would be about 35 now and I heard he might of went into the Service. He used to live in Tracy California.

2006-10-24 03:28:46 · 1 answers · asked by arreis 3 in Friends