I really dont kno if im a virgin i was with my ex boyfriend 7th-8th grade i was in his house alone and we took our cloths off and he put his penis...well he tried to fit it in but only the head of the penis whent in and out and it hurt so dats as far he whent because it hurt but i didnt bleed or anything am i still declared a virgin?
and then 2 years later 10th grade i met my new boyfriend whitch i love alot and when i was alone in his house i told him i was ready and he inserted his penis in me whitch was kind of hard to get it in it took a while to get it in because it was so tight he had to use saliva and when it was finally inside (it whent in completely ) and we had sex even if it was kinda slow because it was my first time it hurt so much i teard a bit and yet i still didnt bleed i just want to kno to whitch boifriend did i lose my virginity to. and was i a virgin after my 1st boifrend?
2006-10-24 03:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by question911plz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Virginity van be classified two ways. Either when your hymen is broke (pop the cherry) or when you are no longer considered pure. The first is objective, it either has or hasnt been broke, in which case you lost your virginity in 10th grade. Purity is subjective, meaning that its up to you when you feel you are no longer pure. Since the head was already inside you, some might say that you pretty much experience sexual intercourse even if it didnt last long and he didnt go very deep.
Either way, you are definitely not a virgin anymore. All women dont neccesarily bleed, I know I didnt, when you lose your virginity.
And as a side note, even if you didnt ask for it, if you have to ask whether or not youre a virgin, that may mean that you might not be ready for it. Im not trying to insult your maturity or judge how much you care for your boyfriend, but you dont need to sleep with every guy that you have feelings for.
Women above the age of 21 please say if you agree: There will one day be a guy that you really love and care about and wish that he was your first instead of whoever was your first. High school is a time to experience and learn what relationships are about, not what sex and giving head are about. For example, would you say that you loved the boyfriend you had in 8th grade more than the boyfriend you have now? The answer is probably no because now you are older and more mature than you were then and have a better understanding about what love and relationships are about. And TRUST ME, at your age, there will definitely be someone else after this bf that you will truly love and this guy will end up being just another guy! The probability that this guy is THE ONE, is close to zilch! At this point you've already lost your virginity but that doesnt mean that you should just continue sexin. Look further than just today and be more cautious of who you have sex with. Your virginity is the one and only thing of yours that cant be reversed. Giving someone your body, is quite a sacrifice, and just any ole guy doesnt deserve it.
2006-10-24 03:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by ericasj22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a penis goes into your vagina you are no longer a virgin. Girls dont always bleed after thier first time either. So you were not a virgin when you had sex with the second boyfriend.
2006-10-24 03:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun. technically you lost your virginity with your first boyfriend back in the 7th and 8th grade I believe. When the head or any part is in, its intercourse babe, be careful with who you sleep with. its not safe out here anymore. Want advice, even though you didnt ask. practice absintence for now on because sex is sex, an you have to realize that. the guys you were with knew that too. you lost your virginity with your first boyfriend. Good luck and stay in school. God bless.
2006-10-24 03:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're no longer a virgin you had intercourse you would be able to desire to get used to having intercourse after the 1st time they think of they gets greater so do exactly it then in case you opt for brake up with him and discover yet another guy to have intercourse with that has a smalller penas ok properly it is all i've got been given for ya
2016-10-02 21:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a penis enters you, game over. personally, though some would say you lost it to the first guy, i'd have to say the second. I had a smiliar experience, we tried, and it wasn't going in, so we gave up. but, since we didn't have sex, and it didn't go it, i was still a virgin... at least in my eyes.
2006-10-24 03:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once your BF put it in you you were no longer a virgin. You don't necessarily have to bleed to not be a virgin.
Looks like you lost it young.
2006-10-24 08:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second time did it
2006-10-24 03:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by staggerlee1944 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well. i would say after the first boy i thik u r stilla virgin. but since 2ND guy but it all the way in you are not a virgin.
2006-10-24 03:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to lose your virginity, you need to lbreak your hymen. Your 1st didnt do that. your 2nd one did.
2006-10-24 03:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually lost your virginity with your first boyfriend even tho he didn't break your hymen....He had penetration of you....
2006-10-24 03:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋