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if im 32 - which i am - would it be wrong to date a guy who is only 25? i know its ok for men to date younger woman but people frown when its the other way round. why?

2006-10-24 03:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Roo 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i see nothing wrong with it....my husband is 11 years younger than me and we make a pretty good pair if i do say so myself!!!!!

2006-10-24 03:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 1 0

Our culture has always been slanted towards the male view This has been changing over the past 30+ years. Men were view as the providers and leaders and the women were view as caretakers of the home and supporters of men. In the 50's, 60's an average worker with or with out a High School Diploma could buy a house on one income. If a women did not want to marry and have children they were frowned upon (spinsters). Men were in control of Jobs, and finances. Women were locked out of the job market or were allowed to work low paying Jobs. (Women were the majority of the Elementary Level teachers and nurses, so those jobs were under paid). Men believed that because they were in control and they deserved more. A below average looking man would expect to date an above average looking women. If a man married a younger women it was view by society that he must have been very successful. If a man married an older women he was either a gold digger (Did she have money from a divorce or deceased husband?) or a failure. These cultural view were not based on facts but on views of people in power (men). Because of economic and cultural changes these opinions are changing. It is very difficult for a one income family to buy a home. Men are sharing what would have been considered womens work. Because men are getting more involved with the raising of their children and doing chores around the house they are showing an example to their children. Women have been fighting their way into the higher level jobs. More political positions are being won by women. There are more and more older women marrying younger men. Women tend to mature faster than men and they still have a longer life span. Society has not yet completely accepted equality for men and women, but the gap is closing slowly. Because of many changed

2016-05-22 06:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

32 really isnt very old. What's the difference between 32 and 25 these days?

I think if you meet a guy and he makes you happy, you should give it a shot.

I'm 27. I've been dating women in their 30's and older since I broke 20. I like dating more mature women with less personal baggage and more relationship experience... not to mention more experience in the sack. *wink*

2006-10-24 03:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0 0

Why should you even care if some idiot frowns. They can kiss your "you know what". You are over the age of 21 and can do as you please. Age is a state of mind. My sister has been married to her younger husband for over 30 years now and age difference has not made him any less miserable than any other married man. So he is a few years younger? So what? Live your life and enjoy your happiness and quit trying to please the rest of world; they are usually not happy unless they are unhappy about something anyway.

2006-10-24 03:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0 0

Go for it, my man is 15 years younger!!

2006-10-24 03:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i am 39 and my bf is 28.we are so in love and i don't think age has anything to do with that.we have been living together for 5 years and no one has treated me or him any different than before we were a couple

2006-10-24 04:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by justmecat69 2 · 0 0

Sure, go for it. My 50 yo wife dated two 19 yo guys and had so much fun she almost missed her flight home.

2006-10-24 05:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0 0

more and more women are dating younger men... if it makes you happy i say go for it!

2006-10-24 03:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles_n_ar 2 · 1 0

go head girl date him if calebraties can do it why not you don worry about what the world says

2006-10-24 03:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0 0

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