Me and this guy have had a crush on each other ever since i started hanging with my dad three summers ago. The tradition is i come to see my dad and end up with Jusitn alone. So i got the bright idea to move down here and thought it would be like that all the time. My dad is best friends with Justin's dad and better yet my dad lives with justin. I live with my grandpa. Anyway we had sex and the next day he told me he wasn't good enough he wanted a better life for me than 6 kids and a worthless husband. We haven't really talked since. I was at one of my dads famous partys and decided to take a ride in justins truck. I crashed it! Now i think there will never be an us. oh yeah and he's dating my best friend. I want to crawl under a rock and die!!!
2006-10-24 03:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by Kayla E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They weren't together when we had sex. My dad told me he liked her i love him and want him to be happy so i introduced them.
2006-10-24 08:38:35 · update #1
Did you have sex with him while he was dating your friend? If so, that something that you shouldn't have done. He wanted some booty and he got that from you. I hope that he doesn't do that to your friend either. Justin is not the love of your life and you will find somebody out there. I know this hurts but if he continues to have sex with you, he'll keep on using you and using you until he gets tired of you. In the meantime, focus on the most important things in life and heal your wounds. Go out there and meet new people and once you find the love of your life, Justin will not mean anything to you anymore and that special someone will not use you for sex. Stop sleeping with him and move on girl. Let this be a lesson learned so you won't repeat your mistakes again. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-10-24 03:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break them up, you are not going to be the only one to get hurt. Best case scenario, he feels the same way you do, and you get him back. But at a price.....you WILL most likely lose your best friend. Worst case scenario, he has moved on, is over you, and now has feelings for you friend. In that case, you will still lose your best friend, and if you don't lose him all together, it will be incredibly awkward between the two of you. To top it off, you will feel like a creep and regret the decision for the rest of your life for what you've done to your best friend. IF they don't work out, you might approach her with the problem after a reasonable time. It's still not good to go after your best friend's ex, but since she has already broken that code, I think it's acceptable....but only if their relationship ends without your interference. If you want to keep them both though, keep your distance and let it play out naturally. If you are truly meant to be with him, it will work out in the end. If not, this could just be preparing you for the person you are truly meant to be with. Try getting some distance from the situation. Don't hang out with them as much, and instead try hanging out with other friends you don't get to spend much time with. A little distance might make the situation atleast a little more bearable. Just try to remember that whatever decision you make, you will have to live with, so make sure you are committed to consequences before you do something rash.
2016-05-22 06:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if he is dating your best friend you shouldn't have had sex with him or even been going out with him and he shouldn't have cheated on her with you. Friends don't do that.
It also sounds like you're pretty young so you have many years to find the "love of your life". Yes, it's hard and you're sad right now but it will get better with time.
2006-10-24 03:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you confused crush with lust. And ( sorry if this hurts) Justin got just what he wanted from you and now you are nothing but a trophy. Life is cruel and love can be crueler, time to grow up and move on
2006-10-24 03:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by evel t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a story out of Jerry Springer Show!
2006-10-24 04:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does your friend know how you feel about this person? Maybe you should consider telling her how you feel! Then if she doesn't realize how much you love that person then she not really your friend she doesn't truely care about the way you feel. So then if and when you tell her and she does respond to the way you feel then she is your friend and she values your friendship
2006-10-24 03:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by destinyangel911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAME on you. The absolute worst thing a woman can do....
sleep with her best friends boyfriend.
The woman who did that to me once....is lucky I didn't kill her.
2006-10-24 03:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break it to you but it sounds to me like your a booty call. and so is your friend so i think you might want to talk to her.
did you have sex while you friend was dating him?
2006-10-24 03:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by rooney8dabom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her.
friends need to tell friends how they feel every once in a while
2006-10-24 04:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋