I have a boyfriend that wants me all to himslef. When I go out with my friends he gets mad. Then asks me 100 questions of what we are going to do that night. He also calls me off the hook. Should I brake up with him? or should I stay with him and not hang with my friends anymore? i am so confused.
2006-10-24 03:37:09 · 23 answers · asked by lil duce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends all the way... your bf might not be next to you in a couple of years...
True friends are hard to find...
Stick with your friend... you'll never go wrong...
Hey... there's always another fish in the sea right... meaning... your bf is not the only boy... that you meet and fall in love...
2006-10-24 03:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy the Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should be more important but don't let him end your relationship with your friends. He sounds like a control freak. If you cut off all ties to friends of family, when he treats you wrong (beat you or something) you won't have anybody to turn to for help. The 100 questions and calling you constantly he is checking up on you, he may think you are cheating or with another man.
*Now that I really think about kick this control freak to the curb.
2006-10-24 10:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little piece of advice guys always come and go but a good friendship can last a life time. Does he have friends who he hangs out with? You should try to explain to him that before you guys were together you had your friends, let him know that just because you take time to go out with them every once in awhile with your friends doesn't mean you care for him any less or don't want to be with him. Its healthy to have relationships outside of your love relationship. Depending on you history together if he still doesn't understand or puts you in the position of choosing... then maybe you should evaluate who your with. Someone who would make you chose between them and your friends really don't care bout your feelings.
2006-10-24 10:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by h0n3y_l1ps_27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just said this in my last answer. Two words; CONTROL FREAK!!! This guy wants to own and control your every move, and that is very unhealthy. When my wife and I were dating, we realized there were times one needed that time with their friends, and we allowed the other to do so, and we still do even now!! This guy sounds very insecure, and if you let him get away with it now, he will be a real bastard to live with if you two ever committed to each other down the road.
It is very healthy to have other relationships when you're dating. Friends help you see things in a proper perspective. I suspect this guy doesn't want you to have friends, because he knows what they will tell you, and doesn't want you to be able to think for yourself. I'd drop this control freak right now if I was you honey! You sound like to nice of a girl for such an insecure jerk.
2006-10-24 10:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your friends are going to always be there for you(if they are true friends). In my experience never choose your bf/gf over your friends. Sounds like to me that he don't trust you or he don't trust your friends. If you don't have trust in a relationship then you have nothin. So my answer is NO don't break up with him but tell him that you love your friends there going to be there when he leaves. That him making you choose between him and your friends is not right. It puts you in a position that you don't want to be in because you really care for them both. He knew what he was getting into when yall started talking.
2006-10-24 10:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by B-Lock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cna't isolate your self from your friends you will be very miserable..ok here's what i think you need to go...invite him along if he goes then he knows that there is nothing to worrty about cuae u ain't doing' anything and if he doesn't go and then tries all that crap u just tell him that he had the chance to come with you and he didn't so it's his own fault and stop asking questions...or make it a point that when you go out with your firends the first place you go is to see him and then that way he knows that you love you and weant to be with him and thats your not up to anything..or even half way threw your night with friends call him just to say hi and that you love him and tell him what yu are doing .worked for me hope it works for you. but don't get isolate youself
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-24 10:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a social life outside of this relationship. He obviously doesn't. I say, hang out with whoever you want, whenever you want. He'll just have to deal. But I'd never pick a guy over my best friend, personally.
2006-10-24 12:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating a control freak, and you really need to consider whether you want to be with this guy!! No man should ever ask you to give up your friends!!! If he cares about you, he will care about your friends and famiy! Do not give up your friends! They will be there a lot longer than he will be. Move on! Find someone who excpets you and everyone who is important to you!
2006-10-24 10:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real best friend wouldn't make you choose. She would understand. On the other hand, if your guy doesn't want you hanging-out with your friends, you have to wonder!?!? Is he really that in-love with you, or is he just insecure??
2006-10-24 10:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only gonna get worse, if he's clingy now then years down the road your going to find yourself not even going out with your friends b/c he'll freak out on you! You need to get away asap he's only going to make you lose all your friends and have no life!
2006-10-24 10:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pink Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋