Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

At first it was rocky but once all the mistakes were on the table everything got wonderful, but here lately every time we have a disagreement she throughs the past in my face. I gave up all my old friends to stay in this relationship but God forbid one should call on the phone wwIII starts. Is this fair to me? Will she ever forgive me for my wrongs? Am I doomed to bebeat over the head for my past for the rest of my life? Confused!!!!

2006-10-24 03:28:39 · 15 answers · asked by Steve A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I never asked my husband to quit drinking. He did it on his own after our 9 year old son told the kids in the dressing room that his father is an alcoholic. He is not an alcoholic. My problem is for 17 years I have been in love with "Dave" the drinker. Now I find he is boring and he never, and I mean never wants to do anything. I am bored .... very bored. My husband is moody and hardly even talks to me any more. I feel like I dont even know him anymore. When he looks at me all I can see is hatred in his eyes.....what am I to do, I never asked him to quit. We have been married for 12 years this November ...... any advice.

2006-10-24 03:28:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have sexual feelings for my gf and she is 14 and i am 16 how do i till her i am going over to her house on the 31st of october

2006-10-24 03:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 03:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by michael b 5 in Family

long story short! LOL- I am in love with a great guy! we have been together for over a year. we took a break a couple months ago to get our stuff together (college, life etc) well while we seperated, this guy who i know from work really started pressuring me to get with him. but i didnt. He has told me he loved numerous time. He even knows that me and my man are back together. he still insist on talking (which is cool, you can never have too many friends right (he is also friends w. my roomates so were all tryin to be adults here) Anyways. last week was my 20th b-day and i didnt expect a gift from him, well he called and asked what kind of jewelery i like, then white or yellow gold.. i told him he didnt have to but he insisted. Then here lately he has been talking about buying a corvette and getting rid of his RS Camero. He wants to GIVE it to me. (cause my car is a POS & I do need a new one) Weird part..my man said to take it, he said i could sell it. what should i do? IM SO CONFUSED

2006-10-24 03:26:09 · 20 answers · asked by gracin_angel 3 in Friends

I have been this doctors' patient for 4years now and he has been divorced for 2years now. Recently he called and asked me to pick up his kids from their coachs house and keep them at mine until he get back from his trip. Just last week I was in a financial bind and I called and asked him for some money and he gave me $400. During Christmas he buys presents for my children and also for their birthday's.

2006-10-24 03:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by NEET29 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, but he doesn't wanna date me because he wants to stay single. He said we could be friends with benefits but i don't really wanna do that. I think he likes me and my friends say he does but I don't really know what to do!! He invites me over to his house but i never go because i know where it'll lead to and then i'll probably regret it because i only do that kind of stuff if i'm in a relationship for awhile. I really care about him and I've told him a lot of times but he still says he doesn't wanna date cause he wants to be single! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 03:25:54 · 17 answers · asked by Shortie 1 in Singles & Dating

please give your email Id

2006-10-24 03:25:03 · 8 answers · asked by nishok j 1 in Friends

It is agony, please do not suggest KY Jelly and taking it slow! I am not a virgin by quite a long way but this is excruciating and It not only makes me feel like it is tearing but afterwards my insides and kidneys fell like I have been kicked. A is OUT and so is O as it is too big a girth for that...Should I move on.. I always wanted a BIG one but it is 8 1/2 inches around the shaft and a little longer than that. Do not bother posting "Ooh send him round" or "I wish" I have had more than most and this is so upsetting..

2006-10-24 03:24:17 · 43 answers · asked by JoyDivision 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 03:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He wanted sex as I predicted. And yet, I didn`t. When he showed up at my door, the feeling of uneasiness left me. Now, I feel like I want mre and he is willing to give.But, I don`t love him. It was just a...a thing. Should I cut it now or let it go on? I`m really torn.

2006-10-24 03:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by Dicari 1 in Friends

went out in Jan 4 1 month over winter break.We took things slow, went out 2 dinner,watched movies at my house(I'm 24,he's 22). George never had a g/f b4 busy wit work and college.after a month he finally made a move and we kissed which turned out 2 some passionate kissing and touching(clothes on) after that he spazed saying he didn't know what hes doing,told me I didn't do anything wrong,not 2 regret anything.he never called me after that. a month later he told me some bs that he wasn't feeling my chemestry(not sure if he meant how I reacted upset about him being confused of liking me after what happened).I did confront him this summer and told him I didn't hate him,he stared at me and then said he had 2 go. 2 nights ago I saw him and I swore he said hi 2 me but I looked away cuz I wasn't sure.last night he ran in2 the store 2 get something quick came out running and then he saw me so then he looked kinda unsure but like he wanted to say hi to me,he kept looking but went 2 his car.

2006-10-24 03:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering if older guys who are ugly can be players because i cant handle it thats why i want to be with an ulgy old man not rich or anything just an average ugly old dude i want to know if a guy that fits this description gets alot of chicks thanks

2006-10-24 03:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by grace07 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who i've been with. I decided i didn't want to go out with him cos of personality differences, i don't think i'd be happy in a relationship with him, so it's not going anywhere. but every time i see this guy the hormones kick in and i end up being with him. any suggestions to help me restrain myself next time?

2006-10-24 03:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants to have sex 4-5 times a week, and if I dont do it often enough, she will do it with random guys. She says she was sexually abused by her father when she was young. Also, we live like 40 miles apart. How can I help her get over this problem so she wont go soliciting sex when she's horny and I'm not around?

2006-10-24 03:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by RamontheGreat 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, we have been married for 8yrs., have a 3 yr old son now & are pretty stable & happy people. Well, I caught him talking on some s#@ internet site -OK. Just talking right?? Well, now he is interested in meeting up w/her & letting her ride w/him on his motorcycle--(The one that I bought for him past spring -In my name)!! I am seeing RED! One thing to talk online, but to meet up w/a W^H0$^^ & ride MY bike! & probably bring home some Disease too.
When I confront him -he says it is my fault that I didn't loose the weight after having our son. It would be OK for him if he could just put my head on another woman's body, b/c he loves me but wants a thinner woman...
Needless to say -he has to go!
But, is it truely worth it to break my vows to myself, God, and my ideals b/c I can't deal with this lame s**thead?
My son, it breaks my heart that he will have to grow up in a broken family. And I've never loved anyone else but my husband. How do I find the strengh to stand up for myself and what I know is right & what is wrong when I love him??

2006-10-24 03:20:44 · 38 answers · asked by MOTO Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 03:19:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it because of the high testosterone levels? Is it that they feel they need to be complete pricks to look good? Is it because they feel they can say what they like with a screen to hide behind? Any ideas?

2006-10-24 03:19:19 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 03:18:27 · 13 answers · asked by kelliejo0875 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 03:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by dannygwenz 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do. My mother in law hates me one day and loves me the next. She tells me not to ask her to babysit my kids, and when she finds out I asked someone else to do it, she gets mad that I didnt ask her. I dont agree with some of the things that she does (drinking and driving, smoking with my kids around etc.) I told her that I dont want my kids around the smoke and alcohol, and she gets mad at me and tells me I dont know what Im doing as a parent. My husband isnt my oldest sons father, and last year after 3 years together, she said she doesnt consider him part of the family (he was only 7 at the time). She has repeatedly done horrible things, like telling everyone to eat before my wedding because I wouldnt have enough food for everyone! She made life miserable for me, and I forgave her because of my husband and my children. Now things have been good for a while, and now she is doing it again. I dont know what to do! Help please!!

2006-10-24 03:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by holly w 2 in Family

2006-10-24 03:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy for awhile. We never got into a relationship with each other even though I really wanted to. What is the saying? He's just not that into you? Anyways about three weeks ago he told me he couldn't go out with me/be with me/see me because he was in the process of trying to hook up with someone else. As if life can get no worse he was rude about it and hurtful like I don't have any feelings. Anyways about six months ago we sold a car that we had both fixed up. I got the check in the mail about a week ago. It is in my name. So here is the dilemna. We have not spoken since the tense departure I don't want to call/text/communicate or speak to him just for the mere principal. I refuse to let him think I'm finding any reason to talk to him and i'm tired of making things easy for him. My friends say to hell with him he doesn't seem concerned about it since he has not even mentioned it so keep it and be merry. What do you all think?

2006-10-24 03:16:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im at work and the day seems to be dragging. I dont need anyone replying to this saying you "should be doing work"

2006-10-24 03:16:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im chatin 2 a guy. I just know him thru chatin.. But I really like him. he seems honest and really nice.. But Im really afraid of friendship thru chatin.... but dis way, its worse cuz I think I love him... he's an american....Im just really nervous and dont know wat 2 do now... I've been chatin 2 him for 2 months... I really like him but my friends say dat I shouldnt trust him dat much...

2006-10-24 03:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In getting to know me . (After all, you can never have tooo many friends ) . I know most of you don't know me .... but you could get to know me ... .
If you want to be my friend then please send your e-mail address to me for me to contact you .

2006-10-24 03:15:18 · 10 answers · asked by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 in Friends

I would like to know the address/phone number/email of a person. Is it possible to find out only with the car registration number?

2006-10-24 03:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by Vijay 2 in Friends

There's a girl I like and she knows that I like her. We're in high school and I always walk her to class. Is it okay if I hold her hand when I walk her to class, to show that I'm serious about having a relationship with her?

2006-10-24 03:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

I am picking up my sweetheart tomorrow night at the airport. I was thinking I would like to pick up something sweet to give him when we meet. Like when you bring flowers for someone. But.....to be honest, I don't think he'd be too hip on flowers..........any ideas???

2006-10-24 03:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by tinkerbella 5 in Marriage & Divorce

went out with a guy on a date, i told him after that i wasn't interested in anything romantic, but would be happy to still be his friend. He is still messaging and calling me several times a day. How can I tell him gently that once every 2-3 days is sufficient?

2006-10-24 03:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating