She wants to have sex 4-5 times a week, and if I dont do it often enough, she will do it with random guys. She says she was sexually abused by her father when she was young. Also, we live like 40 miles apart. How can I help her get over this problem so she wont go soliciting sex when she's horny and I'm not around?
2006-10-24 03:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by RamontheGreat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand the problem. She wants to have sex and you don't? Weird. Give it to her all the time. Move in, quit your job, make films, whatever. Enjoy it.
2006-10-24 03:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by BDP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the Q i'm posting back to you? how can you exactly stand your girl who is having sex with other guys? what's on your mind? are you stupid or what? you could have dump her but because you love her and that's why i don't see why you can let her have her way to have sex with other guys? i think your girlfriend is an nymphomaniac and because she claimed to have suffer from sexual abuses by her dad when she's young, thus it gives you more reasons to bring her to seek a professional consultation from a doc. advice is either you ditch her, or else make sure she doesn't do that again & go see a doc. also let her know, living so far apart is out of your own will and that doesn't give her the reasons to have sex with others, I believe no one likes their partner to betray them, so don't make yourself suffer!
2006-10-24 03:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello number one thing is prayer. And also you have to do your best to talk to her i believe there is a communication problem b/w the both of u. Three pls try and spend time with her.
Everytime you want to make love to her spent time with her she will change, just spend enough time with her.
Let her know there is HIV and STDs, AIDS.
Thanks
2006-10-24 03:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help her unless you have a Phd in Psychology. Your friend needs psychological help - nothing you say or do can help her promiscuity, she knows she needs help and if she hasn't sought help - you need to move on.
Although people with mental disabilities need love too, if you're not up for the challenge I say once again move on before you catch something, er like AIDS.
She is not your girlfriend.
2006-10-24 03:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, and maybe suggest therapy. If she is bent on having sex so many times a week regardless if ur there or not, ask her to invest sex toys.
2006-10-24 03:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her see a sex counselor and buy her a dildo. Better that she have sex with a toy than strange men. Next question how do you know you are her boyfriend and not just one of her sex partners?
2006-10-24 03:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump her if you know shes cheating why are you still with her? Shes a nympho. She needs to seek counseling and maybe if she gets help and cleans herself up maybe u 2 should or could hook up later. But move on find a girl near you.
2006-10-24 03:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by littlemama 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs a therapist she has some serious issues and there is nothing you yourself can do for her except to be her friend when she needs someone else to talk to besides her therapist
2006-10-24 03:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Trekfuel80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some mental problems from her sexual abuse. She needs help.
2006-10-24 03:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop this chick. man up and drop this chick cuz thats just an excuse for her to bang other guys, why would u want to worry about that anways. if she loves you this wouldnt be a problem. DROP THIS CHICK NOW!
2006-10-24 03:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋