Im chatin 2 a guy. I just know him thru chatin.. But I really like him. he seems honest and really nice.. But Im really afraid of friendship thru chatin.... but dis way, its worse cuz I think I love him... he's an american....Im just really nervous and dont know wat 2 do now... I've been chatin 2 him for 2 months... I really like him but my friends say dat I shouldnt trust him dat much...
2006-10-24 03:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know your friends are right though! You have to be careful of who you do chat with of course you may think that you know him well enough but keep in mind there are things that you don't really know and that is something that you my friend must keep on your guard.
It is okay to like an online friend because I have and he is a terrific guy, but I have to be leary of him because I don't know everything about him or what he is really like.
See that is the downside of talking to people online they can show you a picture of themselves (so they claim) and the can say all kinds of stuff, well believe it or not almost 90% of all people believe what is said to them and it is mainly women who fall into this trap. Be honest with yourself for a moment wouldn't you like to know what this person really is all about? Instead of talking to him online? Well I can answer you on that and the answer is Yes!
The person that I talk to lives thousands of miles away and yes he is nice but I take my time to answer and ask lots of question about him before anything else is to jump off.
Bottomline be careful and listen to your friends, it is always good to listen to somebody instead of not listening at all.
Word of wisdom "It is better to listen to a patient person rather than a fool who doesn't"
Good luck and God Bless :)
2006-10-24 03:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us have instincts, we are after all part of the animal kingdom, much as some would like to deny. These instincts have been dulled by society and years of neglect, but are still functional. If you have an instant dislike to someone there is usually something behind it. Your subconscious or "instincts" are giving you a warning that something about that person is not right. The same goes for positive feelings towards another person upon first meetings. If you trust your instincts more and more they will become stronger and more reliable as time goes by.
2006-10-24 10:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by sandgoanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey how do even really know for sure who he is?? Chatting can be exciting, but only for some time... be careful about the information you give out. The whole idea of falling in love with someone who u have not seen might sound very romantic, but believe me, its just a illusion!
2006-10-24 10:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you gotta be careful! Especially with a guy, i am a guy so I kinda know how it works, and if it's over the net, I highly doubt you're the only girl he is chatting up! Unless he can really prove to you that he is sincere, don't fall for him! Besides, if you look for someone closer it will save you alot of heartache!! Good luck;)
2006-10-24 10:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personalities click, that is a good thing, but you need to be VERY careful! People can make you believe things that aren't true, when you aren't face to face. Maybe you should meet him! If you do, make sure it is in a very public place and DO NOT go anywhere alone with him---you never know! There are a lot of freaks out there! Again, BE CAREFUL!!
2006-10-24 10:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl DO NOT trust a man!!! You just have to know men and never trust a man with your heart. You should only trust GOD with that. You will most of the time get let down. Just don't expect anything and you will be fine. Love if you want with no expections and no conditions.
2006-10-24 10:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. You are infatuated with the idea you have in your head of him. Love takes more than chatting electronically. Love is soooo much more.
Ask him to meet, at a public place. See what you think then and take it SLOW. No, you can't trust everyone in this world.
2006-10-24 10:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, the heart deceives you and blinds you to the truth! It gets you into a lot of trouble! Why do you think there is and has been so much misery out there between couples?
2006-10-24 10:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw fair Chloris walk alone,
When feather'd rain came softly down,
As Jove descending from his Tower
To court her in a silver shower;
The wanton snow flew to her breast,
Like pretty birds into their nest,
But, overcome with whiteness there,
For grief it thaw'd into a tear:
...Thence falling on her garments' hem,
...To deck her, froze into a gem.
2006-10-24 10:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be afraid of ANYONE that you meet chatting. Why don't you step away from the computer and go meet someone that is real. Too many freaks out there...
2006-10-24 10:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋