I am talikin to this guy that I just met. He is a really nice guy and I think that if we hung out we would really hit it off. But every time I talk to him he always mentions this other girl. How he really liked her but she is off to college now. I think even if we didn't go out we would still be great friends. I have just been looking for a guy like this for a long time and he is perfect in every way......Do you think I should wait to see how he starts to react later on or should I just give up? I don't want to start fallen for him and then he end up not feeling the same way. I just don't want to get heartbroken.
2006-10-24 03:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by B-Lock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best relationships are usually built on friendship. Be a true friend to him and ask for nothing more in return. If it is meant to be, you will find out and in the meantime you both will have gained a very good friend in the bargain. Sometimes those that you think are perfect at the beginning seem to be less so when you find out all their quirks. Give it time and maybe in a few months YOU will decided that friendship is all that you want. IF in a few months you are still crazy about him, talk to him about your feelings... he may be feeling the same.
2006-10-24 03:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by raewrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl let me tell you been there done that !listen just be straight up with him ask him how he feels .weather this girl he talks about cares for him the same way do not beat around the bush its still early if he says he likes the other girl then you don't have a broken heart later and if he dose have some type of feeling for you then you know and you can start from there don't stay shut girl good men are hard to find .tell him you have some feelings for him and see what happens don't let him just slip away with out doing something as simple as letting him know either way you come out knowing more than you did before go girl get your man and let home girl stay at her little collage .
2006-10-24 11:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be his friend and be there for him. Any relationship starts off as good friends. In the meantime, get to know him and see what he's all about. In a few months, you'll find the answer. If it was meant to be, it'll happen. If you're still crazy about him, talk to him about your feelings. Who knows? He might feel the same way. If you still want to be his friend, be his friend. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-10-24 10:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still getting over her. Let him talk himself out. Ask about her and it will show him that you care, then, focus will turn to you. Don`t try to change the subject every time he brings her up because he`ll think you don`t care and wouldn`t want anything to do with you. Be sensitive, listen and care. watch how he`ll start fading away from her faster and turn towards you. This also opens his heart for you to see how he feels for you. It works. Trust me.
2006-10-24 10:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dicari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I persnally wouldnt "do" anything. I would be there if he needed someone to talk to and offer your opinion if need be but I would feel it out before I made any decisions on anything. Id also realize that no one person is perfect. Be yourself first and foremost . Good Luck with it though.
2006-10-24 10:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Robyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run, run just as fast as you can in the other direction. There is someone out there for you and you don't need to settle for second hand goods.
2006-10-24 10:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by JOYCE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like right now he just needs a friend.
2006-10-24 10:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE,
IF YOU DONT THINK HE IS INTERESTED THAN DONT THROW YOURSELF AT HIM... GIVE HIM SOME SPACE AND TRY TO GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HEAD ITS PROBABLY BETTER TO STAY FRIENDS CAUSE THAT'S PROBABLY WHAT HE NEEDS RIGHT NOW.....
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-24 11:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋