He says he would have liked alot more, but it never happened. He seems distracted by her at times and it really bothers me. I have confronted him but his expression was hard to analize. His phone records etc... wont show anything because she lives so close he could just go over to see her in a few minutes. I wouldnt end the relationship if he was as I have comitted a sin that he has forgiven me for. I just need to know. Any sensible answers are appreciated.
2006-10-24 03:08:47 · 6 answers · asked by bg_queen05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Based on your comment about him being "distracted", I would say that there is more than just a friendship here. I am friends with males and have been for many years, however, I have never found them to be a distraction to my relationship.
2006-10-24 03:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was best friends with a woman for 13yrs. with out sex. Than found my wife was screwing around an left her. After 4months my friend put it to me, it was nice but I lost the feelings I had for her as a close friend and we slowly faded away from each other. I wish I would have kept my d ick in my pants cause I lost a friend I loved very much. It was one time a friend should have stayed a friend an not a sex partner
2006-10-24 10:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by play dough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - research plato's story on the split-aparts. when you realize that the spiritual connection and friendship is more important to you than the sex, you can make it work. the physical attraction can confuse the situation, but keep this in mind. . . a best friend can last a lifetime (and beyond) but good sex only lasts ____ (you fill in the blank). which was more important to you yesterday, what is more important to you today, and what do you think will be more important to you in the future?
dream, believe, soar and achieve - words of willow
2006-10-24 10:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and women can just be friends, with attraction. but if he is thinking about her more than you then their is a problem. it's his job to make you feel good. I dont know about him with women but if i am crazy over a guy i can only think about that one guy.
2006-10-24 10:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-24 10:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by St♥rmy Skye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is talk to him.
2006-10-24 10:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋