We have a long distance relationship, and we used to be like we can take on anything. make it through anything. what we have is so special. but it's been so long, it's started to go bad. he wont talk about us in that way, he says it hurts. That i should be there so we can DO those things instead of say them. but because we dont say them, i cant see it happening. he makes me cry all the time, says it's my fault we dont share the way we used to because we should be together by now. i just cant see moving over there to him while we are not talking tenderly to each other. just 'come or your going to regret it forever. that you'll have messed it up forever' there is another guy who's being sweet and supportive (as a friend but he wants more) part of me thinks maybe what i have with my bf is gone, and i should go for this new thing. but on the other hand i still love my bf as much as i ever did.
2006-10-24 02:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Flash backs!!!! Eww I have been there before and it really is the hardest thing ever! My bf let me move clear across the country on y to tell me when I got there that he wanted to marry me and to start a family with him......he never came to get me and I waited for 2 years! Be very careful because if you are not, this will drag on forever, and it is really detrimental to yourself! You have to decide if you love him enough to move out there! If you do, then go, don't question it! Right now feelings are dwindling away because they are only just words, you cant feel the really power of what is being said or the lack there of! If you truly love each other, your feelings will always remain in your heart. On the other hand, if you are considering another relationship, don't do it for the wrong reason because this new guy will never replace the one that you are longing for! You can always move back....good luck!
2006-10-24 02:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarely work! I would say move on and see what else is out there for you. If you and your bf are meant to be, it'll happen in the future (I assume you're young). Just have fun now, otherwise you'll resent him this whole time because you've wasted what could be a great time in your life!
2006-10-24 09:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I was in the same situation as you are now. I know it is tough and things seem like they are fading away, but take heart that this could mean something greater for you. I discovered in my past experience with a girl in a different state, is that time takes its toll on us, and it tries its best to steal all hope and love we have. The fact that you cannot see one another is the most difficult thing, so that finally took its toll on me, and I had to break it. Now there were other circumstances than that and more hurtful stories, but that is laid to rest. If you believe that things are falling apart, and that he is treating you like this, then I would prayerfully consider ending it. May God grant you peace and triumph over this ordeal.
2006-10-24 09:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question. Walk away from the bf, you have stronger feelings for the other guy. Don't deny it, its the truth.
2006-10-24 09:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the nightmare of long distance relationships. If you can't see yourself moving for what you call 'love'. Then its not really love now is it.
Go with the other guy.
2006-10-24 09:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running after mirage.
2006-10-24 09:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such thing as love only lots of care and infatuation
2006-10-24 09:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by chexmix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋