I HAVE AN EX WHO I WAS WITH FOR A LONG TIME...HE WAS MARRIED AND I DIDNT KNOW AT FIRST. NOW I LEFT HIM AND I AM IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP FOR 8 MONTHS NOW. MY EX KEEPS EMAILING ME WITH DETAILS OF MY LIFE RIGHT NOW THAT NOONE KNOWS. HE KNOWS DETAILS!! I WANT THIS TO STOP AND HIM TO TELL ME WHO KEEPS TELLING HIM EVERYTHING..SO I CAN MAKE IT STOP. WHAT DO I DO. ITS GETTING OUT OF HAND AND STARTING TO FREAK ME OUT!
2006-10-24 02:31:25 · 26 answers · asked by Angeleyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this guy a total idiot? If he's married, you could destroy him by telling his wife, unless she's wised up & left him. I'm no expert but it sounds like house/phone/car are bugged, he has hacked into your computer and is possibly following you around with a camera. He won't tell you who he knows, if anyone. He's enjoying being in control by playing the cat to your mouse. Get the professional help of a private investigator, computer person & lawyer. Fire an e-mail back to him saying he is harassing you, you have a restraining order and are keeping a copy of all correspondence/contact to give to your lawyer. Do it all, then spam his e-mail address. Believe it or not, I had to do something very similar to my EX-husband & EX-mother-in-law. They just wouldn't leave me alone until I threatened them separately with lawsuits. Be strong, take courage. YOU are in the right here.
2006-10-24 02:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has access to your email, or mail. You need to keep an eye out, get a camera and keep it on your mail box, and change email addresses. Also, you need to get a restraining order. Another thing to do is have the neighbors keep an eye on your house, or apartment while your gone. And tell your new boyfriend.
2006-10-24 02:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you ahve reason to be "freaked out." Tell him straight up to leave you alone or else. "Or else" as in a restraining order. Tell him you are not interested in a relationship with him anymore and don't tell your mutual friends (with the ex) details about your personal life. Could be one of them shelling out information. Try not to stress though. Just let him know you want nada to do with him.
2006-10-24 02:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just totally ignore whatever he sends no matter how much it freaks you out, eventually if he receives no response he will get bored and quit trying to make contact. You can always tell him to stop or you will let his wife know. I would also avoid telling details of your life to anyone who knows the both of you. At least for a while.
2006-10-24 02:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him firmly via phone of email to stop bothering you and in reality harassing you, grow a backbone!!! Then tell him if it continues you are going to get a restraining order and it will not be anything pretty!!!! Good luck and have a wonderful day!!!
2006-10-24 02:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes stalking you. Change your email address, and your phone number so he cant get a hold of you. Just ignore him and see if he stops. If he doesnt, he's being a drama case, get a restraining order. He's a freak.
2006-10-24 02:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RECORD EVERYTHING!!!! wether it be on paper (like what time he calls), on a tape recorder, or on email or text messages. Keep everything and take it to the police station!!!! They will help you!!!
You could also start making up lies, telling your friends different ones, and wait to find out which lie he hears then you will know which "friend" of yours that is telling him.....just make sure you remember which lie you tell which friend!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-24 02:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the ex knows ur present relationship and the present bf is giving all the details to him. Probably u cannot trust either of them. Better to avoid both.
2006-10-24 02:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't believe that he is freaking you out.you are excieted by his actions,you would have taken his emails to the police by now because he is stalking you.there is nothing cute about this stop it now!!!oh yes when a man spends a few hours of important holidays with you and never takes you to his home you know he is married.
2006-10-24 02:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that e/mail and get a new one so he can't email you anymore or block him and change your number everything or you can just call his wife and tell her what he is doing I am sure she would put a screeching halt to that.
2006-10-24 02:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋