watching the bachelor yesterday and he said that...im 26, and for some reason i have given up on men and dont think i wil ever find someone. I was cheated on and treated really bad. I feel like as i get older the less i trust .....but then i heard the bachelor say that (kinda corny) and i was like maybe there is someone there for everyone,,,but some people nvever find it...is what meant to be meant to be?
2006-10-24 02:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by Yenny V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my girl, First of all those reality shows are for people who don't have a life and need a deversion.
Make your own life and forget about T.V
Here's my story.
The love of my life died at 38, I was 34.
When we met I thought he was a jerk, because I didn't trust men. My first husband deserted me and our 3 month old son is the reason why. But this beautiful young man understood why I was so cold and distant, and he was patient and didn't give up.
When I told him I was inlove with him, he said he knew we would be together for ever, the first time he saw me.
When he died, I thought I would never find anyone again, because he was my life.
I was a single Mom and raised the kids, basically by my self, But twenty years later, when the kids grew up and left home, I finally was really alone and cried for my love again.
I needed the same thing I had before, but everyone told me it was a once in a lifetime thing, and not all people find the first time.
They were WRONG!
I joined a telephone dating service only because my good friend hoodwinked me into it.
Boy did I learn a lot about men. I learned to be open minded and how to weed out the good from the bad, with my computer, and alot of gut feelings. Actually met some nice people over coffee dates.
That's how I met the second love of my live.
He doesn't look like the first one, but he has the same "Sick"
wonderful personality, who also lost the love of his life a few years ago.
2006-10-24 02:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is someone for everyone, though it won't be that magical, never have an argument, everything will be perfect, ending that we are all looking for. Every relationship requires some work!! Just remember, love will come along when you least expect it....don't look for it, but don't run from it either.
Good Luck!
2006-10-24 09:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's ONE person for everyone. I think you find someone you just "mesh" with (haha clueless) and they fit to become your soulmate. Soulmates aren't just out there. You find a person you like and you both conform to fit each other. Not by completely drastically changing, but little things-you have to compromise in a relationship.
2006-10-24 09:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 19 i met this amazing guy i'd been in love before and i thought he was 'the one' and when we broke up I thought i'd lost it. That i'd always remember him like that. But i fell in love again, and with a wonderful man. There are good men and women out there. It is just really finding them. There are bad too. just gotta roll with it, and wait for the good ones.
2006-10-24 09:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody was born to have the so called soulm8. For others being old maid is a matter of choice and for others it was there destiny. whether its a choice or not it's always a matter of how we deal with our past relationship.
2006-10-24 09:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by raki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe that there is someone out there...for everyone...its finding them that is the hard part!!
2006-10-24 09:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Studmuffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not stop looking for love
it one of the most important purpose of life
what meant to be is what you want to be
u are the boss of your destiny
2006-10-24 09:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you keep looking then you'll find the right person. But that's just my opinion.
2006-10-24 09:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by iluvcascada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so.....I think that from the start something would click betwenn you and that person but it's up to you to make it work and to decide whether thats it or not
2006-10-24 09:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tom R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is always somebody out there for the right person.
2006-10-24 09:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋