I am seeing a great guy that I like for about 2 weeks. I know he likes me but we want to take things really slow. I met another guy who is really nice too. I like the first guy more but I think he might be seeing other people. Am I supposed to NOT tell them about eachother? Should I date the other guy anyway eventhough I like the first one alot? I have no strings to either one. I just feel like maybe its wrong. I am so clueless at this dating stuff, please help.
2006-10-24 02:15:55 · 15 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not wrong if you haven't promised one or the other that you're in an exclusive situation ...
I wouldn't tell them as in details, but if they seem to be really in to you, don't string them along
sign their praises while you do tell them how great they are, and unless you have a talk and both agree its exclusive both it's assumed the both of you do go on other dates
that's only fair
and the biggie, as you clear the air I would set parameters if either party is sleeping with others, as in protection.. they're their own person but since you're in a open door situation condoms are a must
best wishes to you
2006-10-24 02:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as long as you can keep them both pleased then I don't see what the problem is. As long as you don't make a commitment to either one of them it's just considered dating. If you ever make a commitment to one then you have to leave the other one alone. Until then have fun and date all you want.
2006-10-24 02:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only ok if everyone involved knows and is ok about it all. THe reason why you're feeling like something is wrong is because sooner or later you know someones going to get hurt if you carry it on. No strings attached doesnt last very long.
2006-10-24 02:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't made a commitment to either one, and they are free to date others as well. As long as both guys are clear on that, you shouldn't have any problems. I would suggest that you not sleep with them both, or even one of them, until you know you have an exclusive relationship. If you find yourself veering toward one of them, you may want to back up off the other and explain why if he should ask.
2006-10-24 02:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT AT ALL!!!! i say date them both, i mean you never know what you might be passing by, even though it seems like you which one you like. Either way if there's no strings attached, then theres no harm done. NOW if one were to ask you if your seeing other people, U should be honest.
2006-10-24 02:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by carly7529 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's OK to date more than one person as long as all of the people involved know it. Be honest and let them know that you do not want to be in a committed relationship and really just want to date. Good Luck.
2006-10-24 02:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can, but it will get confusing. Sooner then later you will need to make a decision - you can't keep stringing them both along.
2006-10-24 02:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong unless you implied to one or both that was exclusive. Once the committment of exclusiveness is made...then yes it's wrong...
Just don't sleep with both of them.... that could get nasty.
2006-10-24 02:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's NEVER wrong, you haven't made a commitment to either one of em, have FUN! When you're done with them, HOLLA AT ME!
2006-10-24 02:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally not cool. Stop playing with our hearts, dude please. It's either that guy or the other guy. Don't lead us on any longer
2006-10-24 02:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋