Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

I really have a lot of feelings for this man. He is great to me and great to my son, but there is a huge trust issue. I give him all sorts of freedom. He can do whatever he wantsHe drops me off at work and has my car all day and picks my son up from school then picks me up. He usually goes to a friends house at night and comes home accusing me of having someone over. I dont know what to do . I dont want to loose him but i cant live with the constant accusations

2006-10-24 05:33:54 · 36 answers · asked by Teri M 2 in Singles & Dating

My gfriend had a past full of promiscous dates, SERIOUS cheating. OK. She says she is in love with me. She told me her past. She told me many things of her past and i felt proud of her confidence. She said she wanted a family with me. We're both 29 y/old. She is a very grown up person and confessed me that she wanted a change in her life with me. No cheating, no lies, no secrets. BUT she keeps on tracking down her ex's on myspace once in a while (not big deal); she is extremely secretive with her email (if i enter into the room she minimize all the windows until i leave - big deal); she got HIGLY upset when i asked her about her password. I gave her my password to my email account 'cause i feel that i've nothing to hide so, if she feels any kind of doubts (humanly reasonable) she can get in. I can't say i've had any sign of cheating, but i don't understand that EXTREME PRIVACY POLICY. is that correct in a serious relationship?

2006-10-24 05:33:21 · 14 answers · asked by Jose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i give up i tell u!

2006-10-24 05:32:58 · 39 answers · asked by lost 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, first of all i know you don't know me so you have no idea what my feelings or his are so you will give me the normal advice ..move on and blah blah blah. well, I got mad because some girl tryed to make me jealous ..we broke up but got back together then i got jealous about a girl at work so we broke up then got back together then this last time we went to great escape so i asked before we even went if he could come over after and he said no because it would be late well he said probably not. Then his friend asked and he said yes and said i could go but i just wanted to go back to my house and be alone ..(not like that either) So i ignored him alot after that and we tryed to talk on the phone and it felt like he didn't care so i cryed and got more mad. Then that night he broke up with me. People say it's not over for good but he says it is. He won't talk to me. How can i get him back and make him understand it won't keep happening? We are perfect together and hardly ever fight.

2006-10-24 05:32:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my neighbor who is 13 years old, has been spending a whole lot of time with a guy who is a whole lot older than her- he's 20!!! He's at her house every day!!! he used to be friends with my brothers but not as much anymore. i was also kind of friends with him, and he is a little immature. anyway, people have asked them what is going on, and they claim that they are just friends, but i just have this feeling that they are just saying that so no one gets worried......and so now no one really seems to think the age difference is a big deal, not even this girls mother! what do you think?

2006-10-24 05:32:20 · 16 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seems like young girls these days are having sex like rabbits with no concern for anything. How long do you usually wait to give up the goods? Do you have other "rules" to abide by before you give it up?
(Btw, guys, please feel free to answer this one as well)

2006-10-24 05:32:07 · 35 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 in Singles & Dating

her and her husband spilt and she act's like im choosing him over her.She's still with a married man her cousions husband.her husband convinced her she dont need a lawyer but then he tells me something diffrent. this hole thing is making me sick to my stomach and i cant change it. any clues to how to get past it. with no smart elic reply

2006-10-24 05:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by furby_lost 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been dating 3 months and dont get impression she likes me...she wont meet my mates,dead short and to the point on texts.i have to allways arrange what we do where we go an then ask her i dont know what to do because ive been mates for 3 years before hand and i think she has a great personailty! Heads cabbaged

2006-10-24 05:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent seen her since 1991. She is now 24yrs old with 2 sons. She was married to Timothy Gilstrap of Dallas,TX. She probally lives in Houston, TX.

2006-10-24 05:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by Vincent P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this girl at work, do I just try playing it cool and hope she comes to me, or do I approach her...and if I do what do I say? I know she does have some feelings for me.

2006-10-24 05:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by abcde_s 2 in Singles & Dating

When she was going out with her boyfriend she used to tell me about their problems and whenever me and her were talking together she used to say 'you better go cause I don't want him to see us together' whenever he was around. Once I said I liked someone to see what she would say, and she said 'they aren't good enough for you'. I asked her best friend (my ex) to ask the girl who she liked at the moment and the girl said 'I don't like any boys at the moment because I'm still getting over my ex' and she told my ex that I am a 'really good friend'. Any advice? how long should I wait? it's been three weeks since they split up. Am I in the dreaded 'friend zone'? if so, how can I get out?

2006-10-24 05:30:11 · 5 answers · asked by guillemots21a 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i need to do, i have kids from another relationship do i have to change my name on their birth certificate, what about passport, etc
(i know peple will say things about my bad spelling im sorry my first language is spanish i try my best)

2006-10-24 05:29:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw him at work this summer(my ex) and let him know I don't hate him.he stared at me seemed shocked and said he had to go.Now I've seen him a couple of times recently but he's been with his dad.Last time I swore he said hi to me but I jus looked down and didn't say hi back cuz I wasn't completely sure. it seemed like his dad and him were looking back at me as they were leaving the store.then last night he ran into the store to grab something quickly and ran back to his car but while he was running he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted to say hi but was afraid of rejection or something.he's a shy guy,I was his first kiss and g/f,seemed we went 2 fast and he freaked out didn't call me again. my best friend(straight male) said he sensed the my ex just didn't have enough time 4 me with school and work.so he pushed me away. he's started his 4th year so he's almost done, could he be rethining things and want to get back together or hang out and see where it goes?

2006-10-24 05:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am very angry, shaking and close to tears...but im trying hard not to cry...i have a lot of work to do so i need to calm down.
Any ideas on how i can do that...what are thoughts about people being useless and the need to go on a head with life that i can think of and go on ahead

2006-10-24 05:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Now, I can plug in a porno and have a masturbation marathon day of it... but that's only like 2-3 times a year... I'm more interested in a man's point of view... my bf masturbates 2-3 times day EVERYDAY... even the days we have sex. That can't be really healthy. Yes, I know I should've posted this on health... but with such a great group of people here, I figure why not...

2006-10-24 05:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:26:24 · 16 answers · asked by J P 1 in Family

the flame in me and my girlfriends relationship has almost burnt out, what is it that girls like so much that can get a flame goin?
what is it that really turns you, (girls), on?
what is it that you really really like for us to do to you to get things started?

2006-10-24 05:26:17 · 19 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Singles & Dating

Could you please tell me if I am ugly. Sometimes I think I am good looking and am confident, but sometimes I think I must be really ugly. Could you please tell me. Here is a picture of me at my space. www.myspace.com/butlerjulie

2006-10-24 05:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

I know scented products are banned from some public places. But there are many other places where a few people seem to drench themselves in scent. Many of these scents make me choke.

How do you convince a co-worker or a neighbor, for example, that this is a real problem, when you have already asked to them not to wear perfume around you, and they don't take it seriously? They act as though I'm the one who is being difficult. Maybe I am being difficult? What do you think? What can I do, if it's not possible to avoid being around them?

I put this in the family category because I think it's similar to negotiating in a relationship, and I know there is lots of wisdom here, judging from the answers I've seen.

2006-10-24 05:25:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Today is my birthday. My man celebrated it on last Saturday because he had to go out of town to see his son on my day. He had very little to do as far as the party because he just brought a cake to a party that was going on for my bro-in-law. He gave me 100.00 to do my hair and purchase a shirt. This is all ok. The morning of my B-day he read me the card after I asked him to. he gave me roses in a cup of water I spilled. This messed up my morning... am I asking too much to still want to be treated special on my B-day. Just with sweetness and affection. I love him and did not complain but before you could not pay him to give me roses in a cup. He gave me the card and said well, it's not a new car but... He did purchase a new van for me just a month ago so I let that one go. I just want to feel special. his words were all wrong. and felt the things makes everything right. What do you think ???

2006-10-24 05:24:28 · 12 answers · asked by mita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey I was just woundering because me and my boyfriend are going through a long term relationship. his in diego and Im in idaho. if you guys every went through long away love how did you deal with it? what did you do?. and how far were you?, cause Im trying to tell him were not the only ones.

thanks
Oh his in the military.

2006-10-24 05:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by allie laught alot 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dated this guy Then we were at a friends house and they asked how long we've been dating And we never had a DTR then we left and as we were driving he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend said yes Then we would go camping boating ext makeout sessions were better. A few months later we were on a 4july date with his group and he set his friend up with this girl who was his1 on myspace . but he was always talking to her when here he is supossed to be on a date with his GF! I talked to my bestfriend who was also on the date and i was pissed then his friend talked to him and I dont know what was said but after when I was driving he asked me if it would be ok if he could date other girls I said it would be hard then we got in this talk and said its over he asked if he could still date me kiss me ext that night he told me he loved me and that he loved dating me we stoped talking and why if it was so good would he end it so fast? if it ment anything to him wouldnt he still talk to me??

2006-10-24 05:23:52 · 10 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:23:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 6 years now. When we first met, we both drank on occassion. Though he was never an acoholic by any means, he chose to refrain from drinking for religious reasons. I still have a cocktail or a glass of wine every now and then and come from a family who drinks occassionally.
3 yrs ago when he decided to stop drinking he slowly began imposing his views on me. To compromise, i stopped drinking at home and don't keep alcohol in the house. My inlaws live overseas and r VERY influential. They are also here visiting for 1 month. As a kind gesture my parents decided they would come visit the inlaws for a couple days. My husband tells me that my family must refrain from drinking in OUR home out of respect for his religion (same religion..i don't practice though). The situation has led to an "ultimatum"..i must choose between my family or him. Y can't he just turn a blind eye to it for 2 days? Its embarassing for me. I don't want to hurt my family

2006-10-24 05:23:20 · 25 answers · asked by Petra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, the movie. did you like it? what thoughts did you have after watching it? and what's your opinion, did those things really happen or was it all just in his brain? (it wasn't very clear to me if they were real or not, but i must admit i missed a few minutes of the movie, was there a part in which it was clearly explained?)
cheers

btw, yes, wrong category for this question, i know ;)

2006-10-24 05:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by lady xanax 3 in Singles & Dating

who exercise have tighter cha cha's than those who dont?

2006-10-24 05:22:47 · 18 answers · asked by Jackie P 1 in Singles & Dating

i can be talking about the most stupied thing in the world and she dont care.....all she wants is to here my vocie.. is that good???

2006-10-24 05:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... Just so everyone who didnt know... My grandmother is 98 in her right mind. My dads brother ( bobby) put her in a nursing home because she fell.. But didnt hurt herself. ( They just didnt wanna take care of her) The power of attourney is my dad and his brother and sister. Bobby is a very mean man. He will not let my grandmother go in her house to get her stuff or nothing. And she crys and crys over this. My father is meeting a lawyer today. What Im looking for is things to bring up will talking to the lawyer? Are there all day care takers??
Does medicare pay for it? My grand mother just wants to die at home. Is the elderly mental abuse?? Could bobby in any way go to jail for this?

My grandmother put the house in bobbys name ( My dads brother) and Bobby put it in his wifes name... My grandmother did not know about this... How could that happen?

2006-10-24 05:22:01 · 5 answers · asked by glhauser2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Uses his big hands to grab your hips while you are bent over? Uses his big hands to squeeze your bre@sts while he is kissing you?
Uses his big hands to pick you up, pressing your @ss against the wall while he bounces you up and down on his manhood?

Basically, do you like to be man-handled ?

2006-10-24 05:21:59 · 24 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you and your spouse participated in a sexual adventure ex: a three way. And if you did, in what way was your marrige affected.

2006-10-24 05:21:38 · 25 answers · asked by the one who knows 2 in Marriage & Divorce