I saw him at work this summer(my ex) and let him know I don't hate him.he stared at me seemed shocked and said he had to go.Now I've seen him a couple of times recently but he's been with his dad.Last time I swore he said hi to me but I jus looked down and didn't say hi back cuz I wasn't completely sure. it seemed like his dad and him were looking back at me as they were leaving the store.then last night he ran into the store to grab something quickly and ran back to his car but while he was running he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted to say hi but was afraid of rejection or something.he's a shy guy,I was his first kiss and g/f,seemed we went 2 fast and he freaked out didn't call me again. my best friend(straight male) said he sensed the my ex just didn't have enough time 4 me with school and work.so he pushed me away. he's started his 4th year so he's almost done, could he be rethining things and want to get back together or hang out and see where it goes?
2006-10-24 05:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would we know that? You need to say hi to him, and ask him. Looking at someone could mean a lot of things. Talk to him.
2006-10-24 05:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to seem mean and you won't want to hear this but I think that you are first off reading too much into stuff. If he is rethinking getting back with you, then you should remind of the things that you know he liked about you. But don't get all crazy about it. Just chill and be cool. Ya know play the hard to get game. Men always want what they can't have! Secondly if he did ditch ya for work and school what makes you think he is worth your time? you can find someone better than that who will MAKE time for you and make you happy. Your choice really but if I were you I would play hard to get and then if he does come back make him show you why he is deserving of you taking him back. Good Luck!
2006-10-24 12:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Texasdream007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just say Hi and smile the next time you see him. Don't duck your head and go the other way. Maybe even carry on a short conversation if the situation presents itself. Maybe a - "it's good to see you - how's it going" kind of thing. Don't pressure him. In fact, don't even acknowledge the fact that you dated in the past. Treat him like you'd treat any friend you hadn't seen or talked to in a while. If he wants it to go any further, he will let you know. In the meantime, go on about your life - don't sit around and wait on him to make up his mind what he wants to do.
2006-10-24 12:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Renee S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing any guy would be trying to tell you. He wants to do you but isn't sure how to pull it off without getting entangled in your neurotic issues. You're reading too much into simple coincidence. I guarantee if you just go sleep with him, you'll both feel better and stop with the juvenile crap.
2006-10-24 12:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is busy living his life and is worried about a confrontation, that is why he seems so wary.
He obviously was not ready to get involved with you or anyone else. His mind is elsewhere, so you have better forget him and quit reading things into this...It is not going to happen....
2006-10-24 12:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him out... Patch things back and see how things goes... I am also wondering how do I get to shy type guys... Maybe u have the answer on how to get them....Tell me if u do.... good luck...
2006-10-24 12:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell how he really feels,these sightings are vague and you are trying to read a lot into it.If you have unfinished business,wrap it up,then see where this situation goes,if anywhere.You should look ahead,not back.Good Luck
2006-10-24 12:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on already! Shy guys are a waste of time.
2006-10-24 12:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I htink that you should say hi next time .... put your pride aside,,, things will go from there... once you break the ice then is going to be more easy for him to come to you,,, amybe he thinks that you are mad at him,, so talk to him,,
2006-10-24 12:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well first of all...i do not have a brother...and second of all...i said nothing about anyone being molested...i clearly stated that a boy choked a chicken, (a real chicken) to death, for food.... so you can stick your little comment right up your dumb @ss!!!
2006-10-24 12:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Father Martin Louis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋