her and her husband spilt and she act's like im choosing him over her.She's still with a married man her cousions husband.her husband convinced her she dont need a lawyer but then he tells me something diffrent. this hole thing is making me sick to my stomach and i cant change it. any clues to how to get past it. with no smart elic reply
2006-10-24 05:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by furby_lost 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im not siding with either they are both i the wrong but there are two kids. Do you expect me to let her move in and bring her friend i think you are wrong for even suggesting it. She may stay here i will get her an attoreny but i wont condone adultry.He did not sleep with anyone yes he was wrong for the computer but he did not s;eep with anyone so i geuss my morels and the ten comandments are wrong when it says tough shall not commit adlutry,
2006-10-24 05:53:07 · update #1
i think its wrong to side with your son in law. you should stand by your daughter. even though she is very wrong. her cousins husband. nice! if she commited adultery and her husband is going to bring it up in court, she should have an attorney. if they have nothing to fight over, then she doesnt need an attorney.
2006-10-24 05:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and stay out of it. It's a no-win situation for you. Support your daughter in whatever way you can. And any time there is a divorce, there should be a lawyer. good luck to you.
2006-10-24 05:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is a big girl now. She literally made her bed and now needs to lie in it. I'd say keep out of her business unless she asks you directly for advice. Tell her that you are not taking sides but that she needs to figure this one out on her own.
2006-10-24 05:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by your daughter, not matter who you think is right. She is your family. It may be hard, but that is the right thing to do.
2006-10-24 05:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her deal with it. I know you want to help and care about everyone involved but you should stay out of it.
2006-10-24 05:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just be there for her and let her make her own decision.
2006-10-24 05:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry and get it all ironed out there.
2006-10-24 05:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by romulusnr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it...that's your daughter...you had her ...but that doesn't mean you agree with what she is doing....just respect her..tell her that she is wrong for being with cousin-in law....
2006-10-24 05:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to her about and see what you can do to change how she feels?
2006-10-24 05:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE GOT SOME ISSUES. I THINK SHE NEEDS SOME COUNSELING. GOOD LUCK AND REMEMBER, YOU DID NOTHING ITS NOT UR FAULT.
2006-10-24 05:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by donnies_sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋