the flame in me and my girlfriends relationship has almost burnt out, what is it that girls like so much that can get a flame goin?
what is it that really turns you, (girls), on?
what is it that you really really like for us to do to you to get things started?
2006-10-24 05:26:17 · 19 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, you really should know what your girlfriend likes.. if it's massages, etc. I think a romantic evening (whatever you two enjoy) could be dinner & a movie or going to a theme park. But you need to get in tune with her likes and dislikes, we can all tellyou for hours of things that work for us, but every woman is different and likes different things..I for one love massages and cuddling, but some women like to role play or even rough housing.. you are the only one who knows what your girlfriend is like, and if you are still unsure, talk to her,, we actually like it when our men show interest in our likes/dislikes.
2006-10-24 05:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Michele A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It starts with love and mutual admiration. My husband and I only have to look into each others' eyes and smile, and we are turned on. When it is right, it just is. I had some problems in my first marriage, but I realize now that a lot of things other than sexual feelings, affect sex. I hope this makes sense. We can't just have sex, if there are other issues going on that are hindering those kinds of feelings. I hope this helps. Best wishes to you both!
2006-10-24 12:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be different for every women. If she is a mom and works then I would say clean the house and get rid of the kids for a night with dinner ready for her when she gets home. Busy lives distract women from really letting themselves feel sexual and loose themsleves in it. If we aren't worried about the kids/cleaning we are more likely to be the sexual hellcat you fell in love with. If she is younger and no kids plan a little weekend just the two of you to reconnect and just get crazy. Some women like a dirty movie and some toys to play fun with and act like someone else. It depends on your girlfriend though.
2006-10-24 12:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by www.lindseysmith.pureromance.com 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her to see a movie she's really been wanting to see take her to her fav place to eat by her a peace of jewelry she's had her eye on or that you think she'll like when you go home have your bed room set up with candels her fav flowers all over the room adn the lights dimed give her a massage make her feel speacil keep telling her how beautiful you think she is cuddle with her hold her in your arms and play her fav song for her things should work from there! have fun! be safe ;)
2006-10-24 12:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well brandon, since im your girlfriend, dont you think you should come to ME with these questions?
is it so wrong for me to NOT want to have sex anymore because maybe i have grown up and feel it would be more special after we have tied the knot?
is it so wrong that maybe since we used to fool around almost everyday in the past that i may be burnt out on it for a while and not want to do anything?
is it so wrong that maybe i still havent gotten over all that youve said and done to me and i dont want to be that close to you right now?
youre a damn grown man. dont get on yahoo and ask other people about our problems when we are the only ones with the answers about eachother.
really now.... think about it!
jessie
2006-10-26 15:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by jess s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wome get tired of just doing it
they like romance before sex, what does your girl really love to do, then go out to dinner and when u get home have some candles around the bed.
2006-10-24 12:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up different positions Use a blindfold. Make your own sex dice, or papers to be picked out of a hat with things like like, touch, rub, kiss, then on the other one body parts. don't be afraid to experament. just remenber to be passoinate but a lil rough at the same time. dont rush things and take your time.
2006-10-24 12:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by nothingbuttagthing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
" A L E R T" must read " I am his girlfriend I think "
You need to be able to complete our sentence before we do. You need to be galant. You need to agree with us always because you really do. you need to understand when we need our space and when sex is not an option. You need not to be a mamma's boy. You need to be a boytoy when we want you to be. You need to be good orally without speaking a word. You need to give us money when we need it just to balance the fact you make more money because we are women. You need to buy us red roses, diamond earings from a reputable store and not on sale. You need to show us that we own your oxygen and can not breath without us.
Ok now, if you can do all that you can reignite that flame. You can have it all!
2006-10-24 12:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Novelty is a big turn on because it is new and interesting. Try to find new things to do- you can find a ton of stuff to try in Cosmopolitan magazine- it has lots of stuff about sex in every issue, or go online or something and look up hot sex tips or things to try.
2006-10-24 12:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence in guys is a turn-on for me. You don't have to be a pro, but as long as you pay attention and not an idiot, you can be an expert in your very own bed with your partner. Communication is the key.
2006-10-24 12:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋