Dated this guy Then we were at a friends house and they asked how long we've been dating And we never had a DTR then we left and as we were driving he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend said yes Then we would go camping boating ext makeout sessions were better. A few months later we were on a 4july date with his group and he set his friend up with this girl who was his1 on myspace . but he was always talking to her when here he is supossed to be on a date with his GF! I talked to my bestfriend who was also on the date and i was pissed then his friend talked to him and I dont know what was said but after when I was driving he asked me if it would be ok if he could date other girls I said it would be hard then we got in this talk and said its over he asked if he could still date me kiss me ext that night he told me he loved me and that he loved dating me we stoped talking and why if it was so good would he end it so fast? if it ment anything to him wouldnt he still talk to me??
2006-10-24 05:23:52 · 10 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it hurts him to talk to me???
What could have made him end things when they were so good. I miss him do you think he could miss me
2006-10-24 05:25:51 · update #1
We go to the same college now and our appartments are close...we both dont date anyone else and he is starting to talk to me
2006-10-24 05:34:02 · update #2
I am 19 he is 22 the girl was just visiting here... they are friend but dont talk and she dosent like him at all
2006-10-24 05:43:21 · update #3
Honestly, he wants to be a player. He likes you and wants to be with you, but he wants to have fun on the side too. Don't even settle for that, if he really cares for you, then he would want to be with you and only you. Those others girls wouldn't matter to him, so if he can't just be with you, then he is not worth being with at all. He will always try to get you back, but I hope you find a more deserving guy to be with.
2006-10-24 05:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a young guy who needs to grow up. He doesn't want a committment because he wants to explore other girls. But at the same time he wants his cake and eat it too. If you are not okay with this, then move on. He certainly is and can care less about your feelings. Find a guy who is ready to be steady...not a playboy who thinks a girl can be a puppet.
2006-10-24 12:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound harsh but can't you use punctuation or capitalization? I couldn't even follow what you were asking in your question. Try reading someone else's question that is written like yours and you'll understand what I mean.
In answer to you're question (from what I could sort out), he may not be ready for a committed relationship yet. Take it slowly. What's the big hurry anyway?
2006-10-24 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems pretty obvious that the girl actually had feelings for him and he decided he wanted to pursue a relationship with her and still keep you around as a backup in case things don't work out with her. You need to forget him because now you will always be that backup girl in his mind and never his number one like you deserve to be.
2006-10-24 12:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre all very young? If any guy I wanted to date exclusively wanted to date other girls, I'd say go ahead. But dont expect me to wait around. That would basically end it for me...why doesnt it for you?
2006-10-24 12:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is out of his frigging mind. I can barely follow what the hell happened. Ignore the tool, and find yourself a real man.
2006-10-24 12:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't really understand what really happened besides the fact that he wants to date you and someone else? i think you could find better and forget about this guy.
2006-10-25 22:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by m i s s e d d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have you and play the field. You will need to figure out what you want to do.
2006-10-24 12:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me he already had another g/f while he was dating you. and when you wouldnt give him what he wanted. he moved on to find one who will.. good luck
2006-10-24 12:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by bullfrog112491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys r too impulsive!
2006-10-24 12:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by san 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋