Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Lately, I've really wanted tell my ex that i love him. I still have feelings for him but i've never been in love, i just care for him a lot as a person. I felt strongly when we were together but didn't tell him b/c I was scared but lately I realized that he should know how I feel. So I went to go see him (we stayed friends) and before I could say anything, he told me he's gay and i'm one of the first he's told. I was shocked but decided to tell him anyway b/c whether gay or straight, it's still how I feel and wanted to do what I came there to do- which is to let him know how much I care. I ended up getting really emotional at the time and now I feel stupid because I'm afraid I scared him and that now he thinks I'm just totally in love with him and really dumb and pathetic. I'm happy he's able to be who he is and I don't have any delusions, I'd just like to stay close. Was it wrong for me to say anything if there was no pt? I'm afraid I made things awkward and ruined our friendship.

2006-10-24 06:00:30 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 8 months pregant with baby 3 and he has a "single mother" co-worker (that he admitted is attractive) that he takes breaks with, emails at work and goes out to lunch with on occasions. Now I found out that they have nicknames for each other too. I have never met her but he wants us to get together with the kids and all go to the park, should I be jealous or should I just go?

2006-10-24 05:59:50 · 17 answers · asked by reece 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard that space is a good thing in a relationship but can it also ruin a relationship if there's to much me and my bf havent seen each other for 4 days is this good for the relationship or bad?

2006-10-24 05:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you ever changed your mind about going to court after your spouse was arrested?if so how many of you got charged with contempt of court?

2006-10-24 05:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by Dominica B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need some advise please i went out this weekend and seen my best mate partner with another women should i tell her as she might turn funny with me if i do i seen my mate today and could not even look at her in the face as i felt i was lieing to her although she dont even no as any else been in this situation before

2006-10-24 05:58:36 · 24 answers · asked by lisa h 2 in Friends

K i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of romantic things I could do with my bf to celebrate our anniversary? Like where we could go, what we could do? p.s. we're only 16 therefore no car

2006-10-24 05:58:03 · 5 answers · asked by cherrysours28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, here's the situation. my wife in college had an intimate relationship with her female dorm room mate. he former girlfriend/lover is in town and they have plans to go out on the town... no big deal. anyway, the question came up that if they wound up in bed together again, would that be cheating... she says no. though I don't find it objectionable... kinda exciting actually, I say it is.
also, if the situation was reversed (me and another male... which would never happen...ick!) she says that would be cheating.
her reasoning is because two women together lack the anatomy to have intercourse where as 2 men can, that defines cheating...so which is it?

2006-10-24 05:57:58 · 38 answers · asked by jeep_man129 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a bunch of relatives scattered across the world and would like to send them our wedding invitation although most of them wouldn't be able to make it. I've found this line that's very nicely worded , just right for our situation:

" If you are unable to attend we ask your presence in though and prayer. "

I'm not sure where to place the above line though.

This is how our invitation is worded:
Ceremony
Reception
RSVP
Our wedding website link

Should it be after the Ceremony and Reception paragraph? Or after the Reception paragraph?

What is the appropriate way to do this?

Thanks!

2006-10-24 05:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by lafleurette 1 in Weddings

ive done nude portraits before, would u be okay with an artist like me drawing one of you? (of course, only for adults)

2006-10-24 05:57:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:56:56 · 34 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have not had a serious relationship in over a year. I have not had a date either. I'm afraid of rejection but am otherwise outgoing. Where are the nice guys at and how can I get over my rut?

2006-10-24 05:56:41 · 16 answers · asked by mochalattedeluxx 2 in Singles & Dating

There are obvioulsly issues and acrimony on both sides but isn't she becoming a figure of hate over the viscious and public way she is conducting her divorce to Paul McCartney? After all he was happily married for about 30 years before her. Is it possible he's turned into a monster in 3 years?

2006-10-24 05:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by helen p 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you’re dating someone, and you love them and it’s a good relationship, how much does it matter what other people think? Should you break up if others think it’s wrong, or that you shouldn’t be together? Talking about two adults here. Does it matter if you’re different ages, races, religions, nationalities, etc? If society thinks it’s wrong, does that matter to you?

2006-10-24 05:55:54 · 25 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

I am tired of waiting for some construction guys to come rip up my walls to test around my window and it's driving me nuts. I should've told them no they can't come over. I hate waiting for them, and who knows if they will leave a mess?

2006-10-24 05:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A note for you guys - fly spray is not a turn-on.

2006-10-24 05:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by The Mad Shillelagh 6 in Singles & Dating

So, I have asked this question many times because I still can't get over it. My BF left me to see if he could rekindle his ex's love. She came to him and asked him back. He said he still loves me but he needs to see where they will go. I told him I would wait for him and hope that if he doesn't work out, he will remember that we loved each other. He says he can't come back to me because he doesn't deserve me. They went out for 1 1/2 years and broke up several times during that time. Do you think they will work out? And if not, will he come back to me? I don't want to know if I should take him back or not, just if you think he will come back? And also, how long do you think it will take? It's been almost 3 weeks now.

2006-10-24 05:54:58 · 17 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by suziecab 1 in Singles & Dating

This includes childhood puppy love. . . .please list them by their first name.

2006-10-24 05:53:12 · 27 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just recently dated this very nice girl. she's extremely friendly, yet i feel she was a bit aloof on our first date. i had a tough time breaking the ice 'coz she's quite the silent type and as for me, i was quite shy around her too 'coz i know she does modelling and i feel i'm way out of her league. when we went out with friends, we were the only two who were silent. we sent text messages to each other during dinner (even if were seated beside each other), asking each other if we were comfortable or not. then she asked that i take her home early... i sensed she was bored with my company. so i did take her home, gave her a peck on the cheek by her doorway and headed back to the restaurant where my friends were.

the following day, i sent a text message asking if she wanted to go out. she said she just wants to rest. then i sent two more text messages later that day just to ask if she was alright, and finally to greet her goodnight. unfortunately there was no reply. what should i do?

2006-10-24 05:52:46 · 19 answers · asked by Ricky the Kid 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 05:52:17 · 18 answers · asked by <3HeavenZ AngeL<3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you read what women are looking for in a man on dating services and such they always need a guy to make them laugh!!! Every woman puts this on her list....WHY!!!??

2006-10-24 05:51:58 · 34 answers · asked by kickpedal98 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do they put on really bad smelling cologne and hair tonic? Heck, I know BO is bad, but geez, can't they just take a bath?!?

2006-10-24 05:51:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During arguments my husband tells me that he is tired and done with me and that he will be gone by the end of the month. We end up making up or putting the argument behind us and when I ask him if he really meant what he said he always says that he said it out of anger. Its been said so many times I am beginning to believe it and thinking that he doesn't care or even love me.

2006-10-24 05:50:41 · 20 answers · asked by concern1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please HELP

2006-10-24 05:49:43 · 16 answers · asked by MisterSpyBoy 1 in Singles & Dating

Having the best r/n s/p & loving each other so much, if the girl sudenly stops enjoying the sex and says she is claiming she dont wanna lose this r/n s/p because of the sex, what is expected from the man? LEAVE HER OR LIVE WITH IT?

2006-10-24 05:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by 558 1 in Singles & Dating

on sunday i took my boyfriend out because it was my 21 st
we went to pizza hut
and brought a pizza then he started moaning how long it was taking and then he didnt like the pizza
i was talking to him and he said he could not hear me
then when we got back i went for a nap because i was so them bored
i didnt like the pizzaa aswell but i eat it cause i cost a lot of money
and my dad gave me 300 pound tp spend for my birthday and i lend my boyfriend 90 pound and he reakons i should give him a bit and on my birthday he was moaning i said something like iam sick of him complaining and he pushed me and slapped the door on my face on my birthday
hope u can understand if not please try

2006-10-24 05:49:17 · 38 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend has been friends with this guy for a while you can say that they are friends with benefits.She really doesnt know if he has a girlfriend or not it never comes up in conversation. she told me that he is always wondering if she is sleeping with someone else or if she doesnt call him that she is acting funny. They always seem to see each other at parties and for some odd reason he is watching her the whole entire time that they are there. He wants to know so much about her but never wants to tell her anything about hisself. How should she handle this situation.

2006-10-24 05:48:52 · 8 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Friends

Is your sun shining?

2006-10-24 05:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by Ahlam 2 in Friends

he is cute n good looking.but i hav started seeing him for only abt a month.so i don really know how to start conversation wid him.

2006-10-24 05:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by moti 1 in Singles & Dating