my friend has been friends with this guy for a while you can say that they are friends with benefits.She really doesnt know if he has a girlfriend or not it never comes up in conversation. she told me that he is always wondering if she is sleeping with someone else or if she doesnt call him that she is acting funny. They always seem to see each other at parties and for some odd reason he is watching her the whole entire time that they are there. He wants to know so much about her but never wants to tell her anything about hisself. How should she handle this situation.
2006-10-24 05:48:52 · 8 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well coming from being the girl in that situation...She has to go to him and explain how she is feeling! As hard as it is, If you ever want things to be more, or continue a friendship after the benefits she should just call him on it...What does she really have to lose, He could have a girlfriend and she doesn't know, It could be the best thing for her to do he may see that she is interested and things could progress if that is what she wants:)
2006-10-24 06:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is really bothered by it than she should address the situation. Whether she believes confrontation will push him away or not, she is a person with fellings too. She doesn't have to be a B about it, but firm enough so that he knows the matter is important to her. If he cares about her feelings and respects her than he will be willing to talk about it.
2006-10-24 12:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Noreef 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to keep safe distance before she gets to know him reasonably. Try finding about him by talking to comman frenz, parties are long enough to know each other, tell her to ask him what she would like to know.
2006-10-24 13:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be careful with him maybe she should ask someone else about him and maybe she should try and stay away from him a bit because he seems very obbsesive she needs to sort this out now and if he dosent leave her alone maybe she should stay away from me completly good luck 2 er x
2006-10-24 12:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u kno my ex was like that and now we are not togetha(of course ex:)and thats why he talkn bout he need some space but it kills me to b with a jealous azz person i don't like that, your friend should try to talk bout it first but if that do not work then she need to just do wat he claimn shes doin ACT FUNNY!
2006-10-24 12:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should stop having sex with him cause it sounds like he could be possesive.
2006-10-24 12:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems a lil over obbssessd
2006-10-24 13:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by ~sexy lalabear~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...
I have a friend like that guy...
2006-10-24 12:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋