on sunday i took my boyfriend out because it was my 21 st
we went to pizza hut
and brought a pizza then he started moaning how long it was taking and then he didnt like the pizza
i was talking to him and he said he could not hear me
then when we got back i went for a nap because i was so them bored
i didnt like the pizzaa aswell but i eat it cause i cost a lot of money
and my dad gave me 300 pound tp spend for my birthday and i lend my boyfriend 90 pound and he reakons i should give him a bit and on my birthday he was moaning i said something like iam sick of him complaining and he pushed me and slapped the door on my face on my birthday
hope u can understand if not please try
2006-10-24 05:49:17 · 38 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i should give him some money not lend it but it not he birthday or iam wrong
2006-10-24 05:51:06 · update #1
he really made a horriable birthday for me and he slamed the door
2006-10-24 05:52:49 · update #2
question about abusive yes he has hit me nmore then once
he asled to lend the money for the ophone bill what the onle1 out of 2 bills he pays
he reconks that he spent 4oo pounds at christmas
and he think that he should have a bit of my birthday money
2006-10-24 06:02:46 · update #3
I understand that you need to get your money back and kick him to the curb. You do not deserve to be treated like that. Move on even without the money.
2006-10-24 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think its about time that you found a new boyfriend,
Its your bday money and your day he should be grateful to spend the day with you doing things that you want to do, So that the day is special for you.
As for giving him your bday money or lending it no way would i have done that.
But also if he is violent towards you at all dump him there are many more boys / men out there that would know how to treat you.
Did he buy you a present???
tell him if he wants to stand any chance of keeping you then he has to stop being so selfish, and that if he ever hits you again you will walk straight out.
I have attended women before that have been beaten by there husbands as ambulance personnel its not a pretty sight, and often you then find out that it happens on a regular basis,
Don't let yourself become a victim of this abuse get out while you can.
2006-10-24 06:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dump the loser. If he can't even be bothered to make an effort on your birthday and spoiled it for you then he has no respect for you or your feelings. That is not likely to change. Oh, and he owes you £90, that was your birthday money and he should not have asked for it.
Just another point, this time he pushed you and slammed the door, how long is going to be before he hits you?
2006-10-24 05:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you will remember your 21 st birthday for all the wrong reasons. I suppose you are living with this bloke -please don't call him your boyfriend because he is not your friend at all, you are just his maid and meal ticket.
One suggestion- with this type of guy never, ever tell them you have money. Also, obviously, don't show them your bank statements, and never have a joint account.
You need to think about how to disentangle yourself from him, there are plenty more guys out there and some of them are even nice.
2006-10-24 07:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tertia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds REALLY nasty. He doesn't deserve you. A decent guy would have treated you on your birthday and NEVER would of pushed you or slammed the door in your face. Get the money he owes you back and ditch him. There are better men out there for you! x :)
2006-10-24 05:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by katem1992 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Guys are in many ways like girls, there are so many different types.
You wouldn't have a girl friend that treats you this badly. Why have a boyfriend like that !
Good boyfriends are not only for sex, kissing and cuddling. There job is to be supportive caring, look after there woman and be there special friend.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 06:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a day when he is supposed to cherish you and be a romantice he was behaving like a 10 year old that alone should tell you something and u haven't mentioned if he got u any gift let alone told u happy birthday. the fact that u're 21 shows that u still have a lot to learn jus don't take no bull **** from him and stand up for yourself. if he get on then don't u think he will do it in the future.....And giving him part of your birthday gift like its his bd too....somethings in life you are meant to keep to yourself and that was one...........please don't let him take advantage of you............
2006-10-24 05:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by tutsie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! ur b/f is selfish,
1, he should of taken you out on ur birthday!
2, he shouldn't talk to you like that on your birthday, and do the things he did,
3, and you shouldn't of lent him your birthday money..
i think you could be being taken for granted somewhat!!, and could possibley be happier without him, although that is your choice.
start standing up for urself, otherwise all will get worse and more expensive!
2006-10-24 05:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you should not give him money. he should be giving you a present on your birthday not taking the money your dad give you to spend on your self. he sound like a real big. as for pushing you no one should put up with that. find a new boyfriend that not a selfish pig. good luck x
2006-10-24 06:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm having trouble getting past the fact that YOU took HIM out for pizza on your birthday. This dude is a real loser!
2006-10-24 05:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lynda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋