Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

for two years off and on. he is 14 years older then me, and works a lot. we first started off as friends with benifets, but in the last 4 months it turned in to something more. im starting to fall for him and not sure how he would respond to that if i tell him. he travels a lot for work and we see each other about twice a month, so that makes it hard. im not sure if i should tell him how i feel or of i should just keep being a friend with benefits.

2006-10-24 16:26:36 · 2 answers · asked by ang. 4 in Singles & Dating

We dated 5 years ago and just got back in touch. I am just hesitant, because he got out of a relationship 3 months ago and I don't want to be the rebound. Do you think he is flying me out because he cares about me and wants a relationship or because he wants a booty call? Keep in mind that we talk everyday for hours and he seems really excited about the trip, like he has everything all planned out. I live halfway across the country, so this is a little crazy for me. The only reason I can't see it being a booty call is because he wouldnt need to fly a girl out, he is gorgeous and because we talk so much. What do you think?

2006-10-24 16:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by carolyn k 1 in Singles & Dating

so he is 14 and i know he's not suposed to date until he's 16. and i really like him, but respect him enough that i won't rush anything. he's acting strange lately. i just found out about his religion and now he's imposing the mormon religion on me! he's talking to me about it ALL the time, and i'm tired of it!!! what should i do?

2006-10-24 16:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am Brazilian, he's American. We met up in Florida and married up there 5 yrs ago (no kids). We lived up there for 5 yrs and in Aug. this yr we moved down to Brazil, which he had agreed to. Now he just went back up there to work (over the road truck driver) last Thursday, and he keeps saying he will come back, but each time we talk he says different dates. He didn't want to find work here or even give it a try learning the language. He said he went up there to make money to support me. But he has always been flirty with other girls even when we were living up there, he had online profiles on dating sites, he was addicted to pornography, and our relationship was most of the time difficult. I don't want to go back living up there because he said I won't have to work, I will stay home. Does it seem like he wants to keep me at home to do his crazy stuff? Do you think I can believe him when he says he will be back in 4 months?

2006-10-24 16:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy and i are in our early thirties and i opened up with him about some emotional baggage i have been carrying since fifthteen yrs. old. He opened up about his, but i felt he became a little distant with me when i shared mine. did i mess up??? Should i have allowed him to believe i had no problems and everything was ok? what do you think i did to our relationship?

2006-10-24 16:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a co-worker of mine and I was just wondering.

2006-10-24 16:24:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a first timer posting a blog. I need some advice. I recently discovered that my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years. I grew suspicious of his late hours at work and I discovered this information by checking his cell phone records. It appears that he was calling these strippers compulsively. He has spent thousands of dollars at the strip joints. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. He has expressed that he is very sorry and that he will not continue these activities. He says that he did this in order to escape from his worries at work and in life. I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. I want to forgive him, but I don't think that I can get past this. I know that he didn't cheat on me emotionally, however, his addiction to strip bars made him emotionally and sexually unavailable. What should I do?

2006-10-24 16:24:02 · 21 answers · asked by CCalias 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if one partner has a higher sex drive than the other, should the one give in, just to try to please the other? does it work or just feel like they are going thru the motions?

2006-10-24 16:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by head_banger_yyc 4 in Marriage & Divorce

After I have had time away from my ex it is always so great to see her again, but then she starts getting all clingy and emotional, smothering me. She starts lying and I just end it and walk away again. But she is always planning and waiting for me to come back. She always buys me stuff trying to compensate and I don't like gifts because I know it represents her hard work and time. Anyone else had a similar situation.

2006-10-24 16:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the deal? Is that all they think about for real? I'm beginning to wonder if that is all that ever matters to them. I love to make love, but I also love to do other things with the man I love. I just can't help but wonder though if he cares about anything else. I feel I know him well, but all the guys I meet makes me second guess if we ever really know a man.

2006-10-24 16:23:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you arrived you found the front door open the bottle of wine and a trail of red rose petals leading up my stairs . you follow the rose petals up to my bedroom and open the door and there i was laying there all but naked except i was wearing my swimming goggles and snorkel with my flippers on my feet what would you do ?

2006-10-24 16:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by jac 5 in Singles & Dating

she did not even invite me to her house to celebrate.she called me 1;30 in the morning to take her to the hospital with ashma.she called me to fix her tire while i was at work.am i being taken for a fool?

2006-10-24 16:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont want to upset or hurt her eventhough i still love her i have other temtations for other girls?

2006-10-24 16:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live in California but she wants to move to Nevada. We have joint custody (both legal and physical), can she just leave? And if we go to court, will the court let her? Whats the point of joint custody if she can just get up and leave?

2006-10-24 16:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by GrafikArt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is "going out" with a girl that lives in a different state. He is 15 years old and has never met this girl. He talks to her on the phone and emails her. Those are their only two sources of communication. No one likes that they are going out, even his mother, although he says that he "loves" her and wants to be with her forever. What do we do? How can we explain this to him and he needs to move on?

2006-10-24 16:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by jacob6493 1 in Singles & Dating

ther is this hot girl i like and i need some good edvice on i could i get her or how she could notice me. i need this i like love her.

thank you for your time and thank you . my god bless you all!!

2006-10-24 16:19:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 16:18:24 · 21 answers · asked by AMM-CA 1 in Friends

The reason is because they do NOT plan to marry again anyway. This is understandable reasoning. Why go thru it and lose property and money? The marriage is suppose to be over but the spouse wants the person to come back. Is this too risky?

2006-10-24 16:18:05 · 19 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

She said that she was going to see her best friend,and then I caught her red handed with her ex boyfriend eating lunch together. I forgave her, but then yesterday i caught her lying to me again. Should I break it off with her?

2006-10-24 16:17:58 · 29 answers · asked by bowie s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 16:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by kcjsunny 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I spent 6 hours withon Sunday kept telling me how French girls were special to him, witty etc..(I am French), then he asked me where he could meet them...Then when I asked him how many he had invited to his party he said, only one (which is me). Is he flirting with me or he is just a teaser?

2006-10-24 16:17:41 · 3 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Singles & Dating

I' ve been separated almost four months and I can't get him out of my mind. I still have a relationship with him, but I seem more hooked than he does

2006-10-24 16:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by lauralei52 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The man who hurt my baby was a family friend.He was like family for over ten years. We had all the same friends and were like a big extended family. When I found out what he did,my husband called our friends.They were all concerned about keeping him calm.I wanted to go to the man's house and kill him or at least hurt him real bad but they all said I was being "irrational" and held me back and said to let the police handle it.When my car was stolen a few months later,my husband took a friends car and went looking for it with a gun! I felt like everyone around me had lost their minds! Now I feel like I wouldn't still be hurting so much if I had been able to do what I needed and am angry at my husband 4 years later for not standing behind me when I needed him to. Am I the one who's crazy?We found out that this man had been doing this for years and getting away with it because no one ever told. The court gave him 4 years in jail.My daughter is still afraid he'll get out & come after her.

2006-10-24 16:17:16 · 34 answers · asked by madame_emperess 2 in Family

The reason is because they do NOT plan to marry again anyway. This is understandable reasoning. Why go thru it and lose property and money? The marriage is suppose to be over but the spouse wants the person to come back. Is this too risky?

2006-10-24 16:16:41 · 16 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do girls do that make you think that they like you???please give specific examples from your experience if you can!!!

2006-10-24 16:16:15 · 8 answers · asked by kate 3 in Singles & Dating

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I don't want to feel like I've been sleeping with my best friend, it's bad enough I tongue kiss his wife when she and I rent a hotel, but she wants to "FEEL" me ......


Help?

2006-10-24 16:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend flirt with ppl in my face and she want me to go to a yacht party with her and she already told me that ppl who liked her are going to be there, should i go?? and be let down like always.. and she said if i dont go she will take someone else? any advice?

2006-10-24 16:16:13 · 15 answers · asked by soutelzfinezt 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when you have love problems you feel pain in your chest, if everithing is going on in the brain?

2006-10-24 16:15:57 · 2 answers · asked by JOEY 2 in Singles & Dating

Boys at my school call almost every pretty girl hot or sexy or whatever! why do all guys have to use the word "hot" to describe girls? Why can't they use beautiful or pretty?

2006-10-24 16:15:07 · 24 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not?

2006-10-24 16:15:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family