I have a crush on a Mormon kid...and he's making me Mormon. what should i do?

Question

so he is 14 and i know he's not suposed to date until he's 16. and i really like him, but respect him enough that i won't rush anything. he's acting strange lately. i just found out about his religion and now he's imposing the mormon religion on me! he's talking to me about it ALL the time, and i'm tired of it!!! what should i do?

Answer 1

Find someone else. He's not going to choose you over his faith... it would mean too much trouble with his family, for one thing. And you don't want to be a Mormon. At your age, you still have lots of boyfriends in your future, and you don't need to make such a life-altering decision just to get one guy.

Just tell him that you'd like to be his friend, that you respect his feelings about his faith, but you don't share them. Suggest that you both just keep your religious views to yourselves, and then just be friends.

Answer 2

Have the decency to tell him how you feel and that the two of you cannot get involved because you don't want to be unequally yoked. No one can force you to become a Mormon unless you're not really a Christian in the first place. Chose NOW who you are going to serve!!!

Answer 3

Just tell him you respect his faith but you would like to talk about other things. That way you dont hurt his feelings and he knows you listen to him but you can talk about something else. Or try talking about your faith so he can learn about what you believe.

Answer 4

Tell him you aren't interested in his religion....afterall, it teaches honesty, uprightness, morals, being Christ-like, eternal families...what's to like about that?

Answer 5

tell him how u feel my friend is morman and told her and she respected my opinion

Answer 6

Don't try to change him. If you don't like his proselytizing, then you should look for another boyfriend.