Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

What's the cruelest thing you've done to a man or boy? Did you do it just to exercise your power, or did he deserve it?

2006-10-24 17:22:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I get a breast reduction? I've tried losing weight...and even though I've gone down 4 dress sizes...my boobs have not shrunk! It's getting to where my back hurts...and my bras are digging into my shoulders! Help please! Thanks!

2006-10-24 17:21:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a girl in my job, and i told her if she like me and she say that she won't tell me. but she beening offering me food and i give her a back rug so if anyone please help thanx you.

2006-10-24 17:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by fcjf99 2 in Singles & Dating

my girl loves me and we have no problmes about anything more than Iam jelaous we do trust eatch other so pleas no one think i dont trust her our problmes is i feel iam not enough when she will talk with others and as I am Egyptina and Arabic man i hate to see my Girl talking with others guys .idk what to do i love her she loves me but we cant be togther . she think its notihng wrong when she talking with guys coz she not doing something bad and i belive that but still i cant stand see she have frinds guys.. what we can do.!!

2006-10-24 17:19:27 · 3 answers · asked by SadBird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanted to thank everyone who posted a reply to my blog in which I
wrote that I discovered my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years, calling strippers compulsively. He has spent 1000's. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. As I said early I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. What has upset me most about this is that I love to have sex and I feel rejected by my husband. I would have gone with him to the bar if that is what excites him, but the fact that he went alone shows that he doesnt care about my emotional and sexual needs. I feel that I am not good enough. I am a good wife, always ready to listen and I like to have sex. I just don't get it. I wonder if he will cheat in the future, and if he had sex with these strippers. I wanted to have children, but he wasn't interested in sex.

2006-10-24 17:18:11 · 18 answers · asked by CCalias 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do i do with situations like this.??..i mean i'm really nice to all of his family..what do i do??

2006-10-24 17:17:46 · 4 answers · asked by Jane D. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I still school with nothing going for there self and carying another. And 9 of 10 live with grandparnets who are taking care of them.

2006-10-24 17:17:27 · 18 answers · asked by purediamond23 1 in Family

actually one of my good friend likes a girl. and even the girl liked him. but the girl found someone better than my friend and got a new bf. now wat to suggest my friend? he is having very deep n strong feelings for that girl but the girl is least bother about. pls giv a solution............... pls tel me wat shall i suggest my friend. wat shall he do now??????????????? he is totally depresed. by wat can he be really happy? he also want to know the feeling that the girl had for him????????????? pls tel me something so that he can be lively as before............ i think he requires a partner. pls pls pls suggest smth...............

2006-10-24 17:17:02 · 10 answers · asked by trinail 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It kind of freaks me out with all the staring...and I'm not quite sure how to handle it. I smile at some I find attractive but they still won't come up and talk to me! Also...is the fact that I'm usually with a large group of people have any affect on this???

2006-10-24 17:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how you do flirt with girls? what kind of flirt do you say is the most effective?

2006-10-24 17:16:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are looking for a boyfriend,what are the 2 most important qualities that he must have?

2006-10-24 17:16:29 · 38 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

today i got my heart broken in 2 ! the guy i had feelings for told me in an e-mail that he didn't want to continue a relationship with me.because he felt like it would be unfair to me to do so. and he cares to much about me to do that. i never had a relationship before. and yes i'm an adult i'm 31!

2006-10-24 17:16:14 · 17 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Lord , hear me out. I know I dont deserve your mercy, I come before you not for me but to those who read this. Forgive those I care about first before me. bless them before me , give me the strenghth to accept everyone or no one.I ask you lord give peace to those who read this grant them courage.Lord Grant me a heart of Gold to bring those full of hurt and pain to you so they may see you within theirself. Now I watch those who I care for most bein struck with diabeties and other curses of nature, You know whom I talk about Lord and only , Protect her,watch over her. Please have the mercy to look passed her wrongs, if not for her for me atleast, though I am not much please lord show mercy. for you sent me for a purpose and knew all about me before I was born, you know what Im saying is true and comes from no other place but my heart. so please watch over those I speak Protect and guide them all Lord. and lord use me as your instrument to cure those of whom i speak of ahmen.

2006-10-24 17:15:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who has three children and she keep moving from one relationship to the next. In all these moves she up roots her children now she is planning on moving in with a guy off the internet that she just meet two weeks ago. I am just worried for the childrens sake. I donnot know if I should try to stop her or mind my own buisness please help me help her.

2006-10-24 17:15:19 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Friends

I asked this boy to homecomming and he said yes, the next day he came and said that he couldn't get a ride to the dance but if he were to go he would want to go with me. Now every time I look up around him, he is watching me or glances away quickly. Could you give me any advice what this means or what to do??

2006-10-24 17:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by ziri 2 in Singles & Dating

So I been hanging out with this girl and everytime i do we just end up making out (even the first day we hung out). Not that i don't like it but it gets old i guess. I mean, I think i like her personality more then me being really attracted to her. Im mean by all means shes not ugly! and i dont want to hurt her as all or lead her on. I love the way that she treats me but im just not feeling it... i dont have that Spark i guess with her. Any ideas what i should do?

2006-10-24 17:13:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 almost 20 i have a great job with benifits, a 401k, my own ride, and house... I'm a christian and i'm very strong with my belifes and lifestyle and I have a great family as well... so?

2006-10-24 17:12:38 · 20 answers · asked by HUNK 1 in Singles & Dating

we have 4 kids and we are doing shared parenting. we don't even know if its his yet.she slept with others also.its killing me everyday.i just never thought this could happen to us. we were middle school sweethearts,married in high school. we had everything in life we ever wanted. don't get me wrong there were some problems but, i never went outside to get what i needed from him.my values of a marriage is broken. i want to love him and be with him again but i know in my heart right now i won't except this child and have her a part of the rest of his live because of this child.has anyone been in my situtation and their marriage worked out?and did you have some of the same feeling.he doen't want her he knows he has done me wrong but i need help.it has been 7 long months,she is due at christmas. then on top of him betraying me my best friend of 11n yrs stole 2 credit cards and charged 4000 on them.she is no longer a friend but i have no one to talk to that i can trust.Please help.

2006-10-24 17:11:56 · 31 answers · asked by heather m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife r considering a divorce.we have a 15y/o son and i'm scared about the effect our divorce will have on him vs. the effect of our constant fighting and yelling(if we were to stay together).can anyone tell which one they think might b more damaging to him?can u tell my what u/your parents did and what effect did it have on ur child/u?

2006-10-24 17:11:52 · 20 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...I have this friend, we are good friends and we have been together if you know what i mean. Any way yesterday we were talking and he told me he values our friendship, i asked him what is our friendship cos ive never had one like this before. He told me his not shore but he likes it...but he wants to change one thing...he wants to meet up more often...then he said he had to go and i have not heard from him since...he kinda went cold just before he hung up, does he like me? is he trying to tell me something? I tried to ignore it but i cant help thinking there is something going on...

2006-10-24 17:11:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel so fresh out of high school although I am almost out of college. I am 24. Most people I know are in serious relationships or either married. I feel so weird and left out. People get married so young from 17-24 from what I have seen, young in my opion. I dunno....

2006-10-24 17:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by JM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Earlier this year, I used to party constantly with a bunch of friends at my side. We used to do stupid, amazing **** that was a lot of fun back in the day.

Now, I'm in a solid relationship. None of my friends are, and the desire to drink is pretty much nonexistant. I can't relate to my friends anymore, who are single and perfectly happy with the way things were. The only person I really hang out with is my girlfriend, and she's busy with her own things.

I know it's a huge mistake to rely on your significant other for everything, but I don't know how to break myself of the habit. I just feel friendless right now, and can't stop thinking about her when I make attempts at going out to do something else.

It doesn't help that we've both been under a lot of stress lately and I haven't seen her as much as I've wanted to. I just get really overemotional sometimes, and get really agitated/jealous when she spends her time elsewhere.

How can I make the necessary steps to fix this?

2006-10-24 17:10:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the urge to get out of dodge once again. Ive been back here for 3 years now and just need something new. BUT, I need to find a place that has a lot of things to do and TALL men...lol I thought about Alaska.. I do love the cold

2006-10-24 17:06:33 · 10 answers · asked by dconkle_ny 1 in Singles & Dating

We do not want to spend to much money but want a nice place. It needs to hold 20 people. With or without dinner. And maybe we could stay there the night just the 2 of us. I have been looking for a long time now and can use tons of help.

2006-10-24 17:06:25 · 5 answers · asked by mandrin 2 in Weddings

I find myself zoning out a lot lately due to school and its stresses.

Ironically, when I come back to reality, I look around, and i'll catch 1-2 girls staring at me, but the moment I make eye contact with them, they look away immediately. Its starting to drive me up the wall, because my confidence is pretty shitty lately, and I have no idea why these cute girls are staring at me. If they found me cute, wouldn't they give me a smile or something?

And no, it isn't something on my face, I checked!

Also I thought girls are really good at concealing when they look at a guy.

2006-10-24 17:06:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left me 7 weeks ago after only 7 months of marriage. I have tried talking to him & he usually says the right things (I want this to work, etc) but it never carries into action. He has already moved into a new place with a guy friend & seems caught up in bachelor life.

2006-10-24 17:05:50 · 21 answers · asked by rain7088r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I m looking forward to marry soon. it would be a arrange one.

2006-10-24 17:05:20 · 2 answers · asked by kailash k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy that I like and he likes me. I talk to a lot of guys at school. He says that the reason y our relationship wont go any farther is because I talk/flirt with too many guys. I really want to be with this one guy... what should I do?

2006-10-24 17:04:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why or Why not

2006-10-24 17:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by purediamond23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just wondering how the general public feels about it, because I live in a town that, as far as i know, is at least in the top 3 in amount of homosexual couples.
If you saw 2 men walking down a street, holding hands, what would be your initial thought.

And don't give me some stupid relgious point of view on it, I don't need to hear it.

2006-10-24 17:02:41 · 19 answers · asked by nickstracco 2 in Other - Family & Relationships