Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Am married for 4 years & found out hb have a more than 6 mth long office affair + internet girfriends 3mths ago & probably had been having affairs on and off for the pass 3 yrs. I filed for divorce & he ask me to reconsider when the lawyers's letter reach him, for our 1 year old son. He agreed to see a consellor and claim he is no longer having the affair. Problem is, he lied about the duration of the affair and is wishy washy on when it started/ end. I know for a fact it is still going on 3 weeks ago. He has since put a password on his hand phone so I can't verify whether he is telling the truth.

Shd I still go ahead and try conselling to see if the marriage can be salvage or is it just gonna to be a waste of time? we have loads of other problems beside the affair, including his tendency to be verbally and emotionally abusive. (in fact, that have reduced after he started having affairs - his lover seems to be getting quite a bit of that) My son adore him, hence my dilema.

2006-10-24 17:40:26 · 24 answers · asked by peaceful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think it is kind of akward if a girl comes up to you and asks you out. i would but im afraid. i think it is more manlyish to do though the guys should do it what do you think?

2006-10-24 17:39:19 · 34 answers · asked by M.C.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughters best friends dad always greet me with a hug, however, when he hugs me it is from the side or back and he wrap his arms around my waist. So i want to know what type of signals do me usually give? Also, do you think that this is a signal?

2006-10-24 17:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by NEET29 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother of two. Their dad is out of sight out of mind. I am hopeless that i will find a man to treat them like his own. Am i wrong? Is it possible that i could find someone that will want them to call him dad.

2006-10-24 17:37:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-24 17:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by bipolar_diva 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like dis,i really want to know wat the kind of girl that the boys might fall in love too?r u love a girl with cute face but chubby or their own personality???how do u react if u see ur dream gurl?did u tell ur besfriend(i mean boys)bout the girl dat u like??please..urgent things....!!!

2006-10-24 17:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by ivyelle 1 in Singles & Dating

displaying "signs of intimacy"

2006-10-24 17:35:29 · 25 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

there this guy i dated and thank god i broke up with him because when i finish with him he got right away with my best friend then in one week she got pregant! and now he is saying that it not him but i feel sad for my best friend but also for my ex because he has to pay child support now! hey it his fault he want to have sex with her without procted so he got for what he di to her!

2006-10-24 17:34:40 · 11 answers · asked by butterflygarcia555 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes odd question please hear me out.

Several days ago my good friend (a girl) told me that guys would not be attracted to me because my eyebrows are too thick, this is why she has hers waxed once a week! I have never noticed my eyebrows as horribly bushy and never thought any one would notice especially not a guy. I am not the type to change my appearance to attract others, just seems a bit ridiculous and fake.
Just curious though Would you notice if a girls eyebrows are not perfect, Would you care?

2006-10-24 17:34:28 · 26 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating

it's online dating.. you're attracted by her profile and her picture. she seems interested too but you guys live miles apart. you can't take it to the next level right now, but maybe in the future. you hope she waits for you. what would you say to her to keep her interested? or to hint at your feelings? (you obviously wouldn't say anything too promising or misleading)

2006-10-24 17:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im guilty as charged

2006-10-24 17:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by whoremonger 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 17:32:23 · 10 answers · asked by o 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in a fairly big town in Oklahoma and it's getting cold. I have seen movies with awesome dates and I'm looking for help. I have taken her bowling, skating, to the movies, we have cooked meals, etc. Now that it's getting cold, doesn anyone have any cool ideas for dates? Something new and fun?

Thanks

T

2006-10-24 17:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by saved_33ad 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been feeling really depressed the last couple days. ive cried today and i dont even know whats wrong with me. i feel so different from anyone else. i have no motivation to be an 18yr old. i dont like parties, i dont like hanging out, i hate anyone who acts sexual, i always feel like people are talking about me. i just cant be happy with the people around me. im even crying right now. whats wrong wtih me? am i really that different from anyone else? i dont mean to act so depressing but i really need help. i cant stop crying.

2006-10-24 17:31:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive known this girl for a while, and Im pretty confident that me and her share the same feelings about one another. Im not into any fancy pickup lines, Im just looking for some ways to ask out a chick without pressuring her into going out and such. Ive heard the suggestion to not let her say yes/no. For example like in office space where he walks in and talks to jennifer aniston and says he would be over at the restaurant next door. and did the famous line "If so thats cool, if not thats cool too" Is this really effective at all? I was thinking of just being like, hey this is my number call me if you want to hang out sometime and not let her say anything, and just let her think about it. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-24 17:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Again, my boyfriend and I don't have any problem, but recently my mind is with another guy whom I've known for only one month. When I am with my BF, I know only half of me is with him. I feel really bad though because he is such a great guy and understands me of who I am. We have gone through a lot of stuff together and he is my bestfriend. The thing is that I've thought a lot about this new guy and can't really get rid of his picture. My boyfriend and I have been together for like 5 years. I really don't wanna throw this relationship away, but at the same time, I feel bad for not giving him the whole me. What am I supposed to do? Stay away from the new guy (whom I work with) or try to fish around. I am not very pround of my thought at all. Help! I really need a straight forward comment.

2006-10-24 17:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have sex very often, and I love it, its special, and sometimes I feel dirty, which I kinda like. I definitely notice that he puts a good 97% of the effort into what we do. Honestly When I am on top I feel so lost and almost mildly retarded at the same time. He's been the one person that makes me feel comfortable with my body with the sexual positions we do. (I just feel insecure sometimes, even though I am extremely fit) I have a jist of what Im doing but, I want to be so much sexier, and do different things and in different places. Does anyone have any advice for a college girl, with a great guy. Have any ideas for different things, or help with what to do, or different places, something crazy I can initiate.

2006-10-24 17:28:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 17:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by boyet 2 in Friends

I've seen many internet sites that are targeted for single people - very few for married folks.
I signed on to one site - but you have to pay like 29.00 a month if you want to send or receive replys from other members.
I am not looking to cheat (yet) - I would just like to know what avenue a married person goes to to talk about affairs, maybe look around, and see if others possibly have the same thoughts, experiences, or desires i do.
Any ideas?
Thanks.

2006-10-24 17:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....tell their kids thet they were a mistake, not sopposed to happen, were going to get aborted, not wanted at birth, etc.

2006-10-24 17:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family

I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 YEARS MY HUSBAND HARDLY EVER MAKES THE FIRST MOVE. I ALWAYS START WITH FORPLAY HE TURNS OVER 99% OF THE TIME AND GOES TO SLEEP IS HE HAVING AN AFFFAIR OR IS HE GAY?

2006-10-24 17:27:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 17:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by eygpt4queen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

EX: Mine is to have a RANDOM kiss in the Rain : ]]]

2006-10-24 17:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been casually dating this guy for a couple weeks. He works ALOT and we only see eacher maybe once a week besides the two days we have school together... He wants to have a serious relationship with me. I said i diid too but now im having seconds thoughts. Its not like his work schedule is going to change anytime soon. and im going to mexico for 10 days in about 3 weeks, then he is going to l.a. with friends over christmas.. I know myself and i havent been very faithfull in past relationships. I really like this guy but i know spending time together is a big part...If im not with him i might find someone else... i dont know what to do. should i break up with him before things get to serious and i A. hurt him or B. it is a waste of time or shud i take the risk and hope it turns out to wonderfull cuz he is a wonderfull, nice guy.....AHHHHHHH helppp me

2006-10-24 17:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-24 17:25:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 17:25:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some of them are, but most of them don't know how.
I seen to enjoy it when girls are assertive and tell me what to do.

2006-10-24 17:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone else find this kinda weird?

2006-10-24 17:24:47 · 15 answers · asked by Robert Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Should the guy or the girl make the first move, and when is it a good time to make it?

2006-10-24 17:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-24 17:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family