Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

If i feel something is going wrong in house balance, or if i dont like something i will try to show through my eyes. But he always asks seeing my eyes sadness only one question,what happened ? U are not well? Thats all. I get shock with that question. Or really he is not understanding? Or he is not able to catch my feeling? I confuse with this behaviour.People tell eyes express a lot.

2006-10-24 18:23:57 · 6 answers · asked by chinnivanaja 1 in Family

A sad question, I know. But I feel like making a few friends today. If you are like me and have no friends please visit my 360 page and become my friend. That way when people say 'you have no friends' I can at least slightly defend myself.

2006-10-24 18:23:45 · 6 answers · asked by travis 2 in Friends

But I don't trust my wife or myself. I left her once and she had a fling with someone I hated. In fact, had she done it with someone else I would have been over it instantly because I LEFT HER. Anyway, now I don't trust her. In fact, I TOTALLY don't trust her and I'll bet she's being completely honest with me. I'm a fool

Next, I must be sort of attractive or something, because I am 44 and I get hit on all the time by women in their mid 20's on up to about 35 or 36 years old. Older women don't even try to hit on me. I guess they think there's no way I'll do them or something.

Personally, I don't think I'm anything special at all, but I turn down sex often.

The sucky part is that I love my wife and I want to trust her, but I can't even trust myself. It's not because I feel as if I'm always looking to cheat, it's because women always hit on me and it makes me think my wife is like all of them!....plus...it's VERY hard to turn down hot women.

I want a normal marriage. How?

2006-10-24 18:21:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have u ever had a one night stand with someone and U had a bf at home u were'nt happy with,and u ended up starting a relationship with your one night stand,and u never cheated on them,and the relationship worked out or is a one night stand just a one night stand?

2006-10-24 18:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by Big Baby Sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

she looks so damn sexy well yeah she sits behind me and yea her sexiness makes me nervous and yea i dont know how i can speak to someone that sexy..

2006-10-24 18:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 18:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by jay s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 18:19:43 · 31 answers · asked by Niranjan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im currently in 2 relationships... if you know what i mean. im having fun in both, but i know i need to stick with just one. they both know... how do i pick?

2006-10-24 18:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by dontknow 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a party to go to! i hate not going anywhere on the weekends! im under 21 and there is just nothing to do. maybe just ideas for something to do

2006-10-24 18:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to make friends

2006-10-24 18:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by Pu 1 in Friends

I wanted to thank everyone who posted a reply to my blog in which I wrote that I discovered my husband has been visiting the same 3 strippers for over 2 1/2 years, calling strippers compulsively. He has spent 1000's. He claims that he never had sex with these women, but only got lap dances in which he ejaculated into his pants. As I said early I am an attractive women, but since discovering this infidelity, i have felt very low in self-esteem. What has upset me most about this is that I love to have sex and I feel rejected by my husband. I would have gone with him to the bar if that is what excites him, but the fact that he went alone shows that he doesnt care about my emotional and sexual needs. I feel that I am not good enough. I am a good wife, always ready to listen and I like to have sex. I just don't get it. I wonder if he will cheat in the future, and if he had sex with these strippers. I wanted to have children, but he wasn't interested in sex. He says it was to escape stress.

2006-10-24 18:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by CCalias 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 18:16:23 · 19 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 18:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by young_bro42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my guy friend both just got out of a 3+ year long relationship...there is a 4 year age difference im 18 hes 22. 23 in dec.. ive known him for a long time. him and my ex are friends. hes not why i broke with my ex. He lives in NH im in ME. I drive up to see him almost every weekend. We hang out, go out, we said hooking up will happen and mean a lot when it does. He dont hook up every time...He says he really cares about me & that im an amazing girl & later down the road things will work out. & he can see himself being with me for a really long time..his parents never have liked a girl hes brought home, but they really enjoy having me around. He never says he doesnt want a relationship but he says hes single to his friends...I understand this,he wants his freedom/space/time. But do u really think it will ever work out? Am i wasting my time? I really like him, & love being around him. Should i do my own thing & wait for "down the road"?? the age difference i think is his big issue

2006-10-24 18:13:23 · 20 answers · asked by beautifulkay17 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 YRS NOW AND MY WIFE DONT WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO ME OR EVEN KISS ME ANY MORE I TRY TO KISS HER AND SOME TIMES SHE WILL KISS ME OTHER TIMES SHE TELLS ME TO STOP SHE NEVER KISSESS ME ON HER OWN ANY MORE I HAVE TO START PLAYING AROUND WITH HER TO GET HER TURNED ON AND EVEN WHILE WE ARE PLAYING SHE TELLS ME TO STOP I HAVE TALKED TO HER ABOUT IT LOTS OF TIMES AND SHE SAYS IT IS HER IRION IS LOW BUT I DONT KNOW IT HAS BEEN 2 MONTHS NOW SINCE THE LAST TIME WE MADE LOVE AND I HAD TO SUCKER HER IN TO IT THEN WHAT WOULD YA DO IN MY CASE I LOVE HER AND DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON HER SHE SAYS I ALL WAYS THINK ABOUT SEX BUT IF A PERSON GETS IT AS MUCH AS I DO THEN YOU KNOW WHY THATS ALL I THINK ABOUT

2006-10-24 18:13:21 · 11 answers · asked by kingkong9274 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 18:11:46 · 18 answers · asked by annapurna p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont really know where to start. My boyfriend is a Marine and I want to write him while he's in basic but I dont know what to say. We talk most nights over the phone so when I go to write him I dont have anything much to say. I love him and he know it, and every time I tell him I miss him it makes him feel bad, he says he wishes he had a different job so he could be with me every day like "normal" couples are. So I feel like I cant even tell him that.


thxs in advance- completely confused.

2006-10-24 18:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by signalfirst 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and we usually have sex approx 3 times a week, right now I have brohncitis and feel terrible and he wants to still have sex, should he wait for me, when I feel better or should I feel this sick and put myself out to please him..........

2006-10-24 18:10:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres no way of sneeking out of it and hiding it trust me i have tryed plenty of times!!!!

2006-10-24 18:10:44 · 13 answers · asked by hey ....... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

As of the last 6 months him and I have gone thru a particularly rough spot in our relationship (in April, I found out that around this time-October- of last year while we were still together, he started talking to other girls...and not about coming over to play scrabble if you get my drift) Now that that time of year is approaching again and bad memories are coming back, I feel myself drifting farther away from him. I don't want to break up with him for fear of making a mistake (not to mention fear of being alone since I only have one other good friend) and as selfish as it sounds, fear of having to move back in with Mom and Dad (to me, a better choice would be living in my car). What should I do? I've thought about breaking up with him and then (to combat my living with parents gripe) transferring to an out of town college full-time or taking a break from school and obtaining a full-time job that would allow me to have my own place...What's a girl to do?

2006-10-24 18:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by persian_princezz777 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I get women to love me? It seems that I dont stir enough emotions in them to get them in love with me. I have a string of one night stands and short relationships. They usually quit me. When I was younger---in my teens and early 20's---I would do the dumping. But now women just want me for a night or a few dates and thats it they dump me.
I have nice body, very nice smile, fresh breath, nice stylish clothes, smell good, average size penis 6 inches, nice looking face. I look like hugh grant. I'm handsome guy. But is it your looks that makes women get "into" you??
I admit I am narcisstic and aloof sometimes. I come off self centered. But I dont think that is the reason women dont like me.

So how do I get women "into" me and keep them coming back for more?? What turns them on and off?

2006-10-24 18:09:55 · 9 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, Me and my husband have been married for almost three years. Come to find out 6 months after we were married he had an addiction to chatting. He was paying money for it that he said we did not have. Then about 6 months ago when he was working out of state I found out he was chatting again. (and paying for it when he wouldn't even send money for diapers for our daughter) I found some emails that featured things like (thats saounds fun, but I don't know the area how will I find you. Also emails to a friend he had in high school, telling her they should have dated and he would "practice" having kids with her everyday. And he has only met two perfect women her being one and me not being the other. Also him saying he tryed to cheat on me but couldn't. he said it was because he didn't email them back. He never shows me affection of any kind. I moved 1600 miles for him. There is so much more. Should I believe him? Should I leave him? I just want what is right for my daughter.

2006-10-24 18:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Triscuit84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years i love him so much i really do but theres this guy that i can not stop thinking abou't when i am with my boyfriend i'am not like all the way with him my mind is on the other guy to please be very seriouse about your answers please

2006-10-24 18:08:39 · 14 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 18:08:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is best friends with a doctors daughter, so I get to see him quite often. He is divorced and has been for the past 2 years. However, he went on a trip and his ex never picked the kids up from practice so he called and asked me to get them and take them to my house until he get back because he was going to cancel his trip. However, I gave him the ok to stay for 2 days. Now when he sees me he always greet me with a hug but it is usually from the back or side with his hands around my waist. I also, noticed that when im walking he watches me. He buys my children Christmas and b-day gifts. If I need anything he always make sure that I get it. A lot of people are telling me that they think he likes me, especially my family members.

2006-10-24 18:07:05 · 9 answers · asked by mamac 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, there's this girl in my class and she sits right next to me (its her assigned seat) and sometimes she just stares at me. I look behind myself to make sure nothing is going on, and there isn't. And when I stare at her, she makes no attempt to turn she just keeps staring at me when I look at her and she turns after about 7 seconds. Why?
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Oh yeah, I almost forgot, I asked her best friend if she liked me and she said "that's her choice to tell you how she feels, not mine," I don't understand the logic if according to you guys is making it almost blatently obvious and I haven't figured it out after about a year. Also at none of these times did i have something on my face that looked abnormal or disgusting.

2006-10-24 18:06:42 · 13 answers · asked by aao p 1 in Singles & Dating

i seem to know when something is wrong with people by looking at their eyes and seeing sadness. Wierd question but am i just strange for doing this or is it really possible to tell? most people just don't seem to have "happy" eyes and that's how i know

2006-10-24 18:05:36 · 17 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Her friends come over and they play barbie doll with me! They dress me up, do my make up and force me to cook, serve and clean for them. If I refuse they whip me and tighten my collar. I am too shy to tell anyone about this in real life, what should I do.

2006-10-24 18:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this jerk in my school who threatens to blackmail me if I don't do all sorts of crap for him. How do I prevent said person from doing so?

As much as I hate telling a higher rank of authority about this, is there another way to do so?

2006-10-24 18:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Crusader 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 18:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Friends